Seeking guidance for becoming an escort

[karn]

Hi everyone,

 

Karn here, this is my first time posting on this forum. I have been reading this forum for about 2 weeks now and let me tell you that i have gathered a lot of information from you guys and I sincerely wish to thank you all for sharing all the professional information and personal experiences related to escorting which helps newbies like me to learn and prepare ourselves.

 

About me - I am a 22 year old, South Asian chap based in Toronto area. Fair skin colour, 5 feet 8 inches tall, still working on my body ( lol ) and bi-sexual.

I have so many questions in my mind right now, I have been looking to become an escort for quite some time now but was never able to get the right direction

After surfing the net for a month or so, I accidentally landed on this gold mine of a information ( M4M message forum ) .

First thing I wish to know is how good is Toronto for being an escort. Plus I assume that there wont be many escorts of south Asian descent here in Toronto and that might act in my favor ( this is just my assumption )

I already have a job and so, I would not be relying solely on escorting, but i would like to grow and become a full time escort as I get better at it.

 

So, please feel free to provide me with your opinions/ advises/ guidance for they will help me a lot.

 

Thank you.

[+ Keith30309]

Hi everyone,

 

Karn here, this is my first time posting on this forum. I have been reading this forum for about 2 weeks now and let me tell you that i have gathered a lot of information from you guys and I sincerely wish to thank you all for sharing all the professional information and personal experiences related to escorting which helps newbies like me to learn and prepare ourselves.

 

About me - I am a 22 year old, South Asian chap based in Toronto area. Fair skin colour, 5 feet 8 inches tall, still working on my body ( lol ) and bi-sexual.

I have so many questions in my mind right now, I have been looking to become an escort for quite some time now but was never able to get the right direction

After surfing the net for a month or so, I accidentally landed on this gold mine of a information ( M4M message forum ) .

First thing I wish to know is how good is Toronto for being an escort. Plus I assume that there wont be many escorts of south Asian descent here in Toronto and that might act in my favor ( this is just my assumption )

I already have a job and so, I would not be relying solely on escorting, but i would like to grow and become a full time escort as I get better at it.

 

So, please feel free to provide me with your opinions/ advises/ guidance for they will help me a lot.

 

Thank you.

Welcome to the boards, @karn, and good luck!

[karn]

Thank you so much @Keith30309

[dlee02]

I don't have any advice but your post brought this thread to mind...

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/indian-bollywood-escorts-masseurs.115758/

 

I'm sure many posters are excited to welcome you on board

 

Where are you advertising, btw? Posting a link here would be a good start.

[Keenan]

Hi everyone,

 

Karn here, this is my first time posting on this forum. I have been reading this forum for about 2 weeks now and let me tell you that i have gathered a lot of information from you guys and I sincerely wish to thank you all for sharing all the professional information and personal experiences related to escorting which helps newbies like me to learn and prepare ourselves.

 

About me - I am a 22 year old, South Asian chap based in Toronto area. Fair skin colour, 5 feet 8 inches tall, still working on my body ( lol ) and bi-sexual.

I have so many questions in my mind right now, I have been looking to become an escort for quite some time now but was never able to get the right direction

After surfing the net for a month or so, I accidentally landed on this gold mine of a information ( M4M message forum ) .

First thing I wish to know is how good is Toronto for being an escort. Plus I assume that there wont be many escorts of south Asian descent here in Toronto and that might act in my favor ( this is just my assumption )

I already have a job and so, I would not be relying solely on escorting, but i would like to grow and become a full time escort as I get better at it.

 

So, please feel free to provide me with your opinions/ advises/ guidance for they will help me a lot.

 

Thank you.

 

If you haven't already make sure you have profiles on places like rentmen.com. That will help you find clients. Second don't quit your day job. Unless you have enough clients requesting you or you are independently wealthy then you will need another source of income at least for right now.

 

Keenan

[gezellig4u]

Time for a trip to Toronto...

[karn]

thank you so much guys for your kind responses

 

@dlee02 , I havnt actually started escorting yet , so there are no advertisements in place at this point of time.

I am getting ready for it u know like learning more and more, still working on my physique etc etc.

 

@Keenan , for sure my friend, i am not going to leave my current job right now.

 

@dlee02 @Keenan though i have a few questions :

1. Is Toronto a good place for an escort, I mean is there enough business here ?

2. should i start as an independent escort or should i try to join an escort agency here in Toronto ?

3. I have searched a lot on backpages and craiglist but i couldnt find any agency looking to hire men, they all want female escorts. Are there no male escort agencies ?

 

these are my main questions for now, i have a lot more but i do not wish to bombard you guys with so many questions at the same time ( lol )

 

and again thank you so much for answering my queries.

[karn]

Time for a trip to Toronto...

hahah for sure, thats so sweet of u, my friend.

[karn]

I don't have any advice but your post brought this thread to mind...

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/indian-bollywood-escorts-masseurs.115758/

 

I'm sure many posters are excited to welcome you on board

 

Where are you advertising, btw? Posting a link here would be a good start.

thnx bro, that thread was really helpful, at least now i know that since there are not many Indian escorts, I can make a market for myself here in Toronto and its neighboring areas.

[RockyHardon]

If you haven't already make sure you have profiles on places like rentmen.com. That will help you find clients. Second don't quit your day job. Unless you have enough clients requesting you or you are independently wealthy then you will need another source of income at least for right now.

 

Keenan

 

Love it...."Don't quit your day job"!!!

[karn]

Love it...."Don't quit your day job"!!!

for sure @RockyHardon : ), btw can u pls answer my questions ?

[+ Eric Hassan]

thank you so much guys for your kind responses

 

1. Is Toronto a good place for an escort, I mean is there enough business here ?

2. should i start as an independent escort or should i try to join an escort agency here in Toronto ?

3. I have searched a lot on backpages and craiglist but i couldnt find any agency looking to hire men, they all want female escorts. Are there no male escort agencies ?

 

these are my main questions for now, i have a lot more but i do not wish to bombard you guys with so many questions at the same time ( lol )

 

and again thank you so much for answering my queries.

 

1. I can't speak to whether or not Toronto has "enough business," but I can tell you that you'll get enough business if you're selling a product people want. Toronto is a large city with a fair amount of tourism so there are certainly plenty of people coming through who might be looking to hire. The best escorts are successful because of WHO they are, not just WHERE they are. You might do well to check out other male escorts in Toronto and find out what is being offered and what is being charged. This can help you discover your niche, understand the market, establish your identity and attract customers. This ultimately leads to a reputation, and that is how you get "enough business."

 

2. I might be way off, but I'm fairly certain that escort agencies are a dying breed. I suppose there are pros and cons to both approaches, but I think in this day and age, with the ease of accessing and using online resources, most folks choose the independence and control of doing it yourself.

 

3. The Google machine might be the best way to find male escort agencies in Toronto, if there are any to find. I don't think any escort agency would advertise on CL or BP.

 

It seems to me like you're fairly certain you want to be an escort, that you're willing to start off slow to see how it goes and continue to build, and that you would like to attract people who are seeking South Asian companions. The drive, the patience, the niche. What I would recommend is that you go to Rentmen and look at the other escorts in TO - gather some information and post your own ad. You might also want to reach out to other escorts in TO or on here who you admire and who have a business style and approach you like. You can always tweak things here and there, and monitor what happens, until you've refined your niche, developed your identity, established your reputation and you're making it!

[Keenan]

thank you so much guys for your kind responses

 

@dlee02 , I havnt actually started escorting yet , so there are no advertisements in place at this point of time.

I am getting ready for it u know like learning more and more, still working on my physique etc etc.

 

@Keenan , for sure my friend, i am not going to leave my current job right now.

 

@dlee02 @Keenan though i have a few questions :

1. Is Toronto a good place for an escort, I mean is there enough business here ?

2. should i start as an independent escort or should i try to join an escort agency here in Toronto ?

3. I have searched a lot on backpages and craiglist but i couldnt find any agency looking to hire men, they all want female escorts. Are there no male escort agencies ?

 

these are my main questions for now, i have a lot more but i do not wish to bombard you guys with so many questions at the same time ( lol )

 

and again thank you so much for answering my queries.

1) It's hard to say if Toronto will be a good place for escorting. It's all about how you market yourself. Some escorts may be in more demand than others.

2) Work as an independent escort. You hold onto all of your earnings.

3)Agencies for men are far and few between, post on sites like rentmen.com and men4rentnow.com. There are others but those are just two that come to mind.

 

Keenan

[Bearofdistinction]

Hi everyone,

 

Karn here, this is my first time posting on this forum. I have been reading this forum for about 2 weeks now and let me tell you that i have gathered a lot of information from you guys and I sincerely wish to thank you all for sharing all the professional information and personal experiences related to escorting which helps newbies like me to learn and prepare ourselves.

 

About me - I am a 22 year old, South Asian chap based in Toronto area. Fair skin colour, 5 feet 8 inches tall, still working on my body ( lol ) and bi-sexual.

I have so many questions in my mind right now, I have been looking to become an escort for quite some time now but was never able to get the right direction

After surfing the net for a month or so, I accidentally landed on this gold mine of a information ( M4M message forum ) .

First thing I wish to know is how good is Toronto for being an escort. Plus I assume that there wont be many escorts of south Asian descent here in Toronto and that might act in my favor ( this is just my assumption )

I already have a job and so, I would not be relying solely on escorting, but i would like to grow and become a full time escort as I get better at it.

 

So, please feel free to provide me with your opinions/ advises/ guidance for they will help me a lot.

 

Thank you.

 

Google Abel Rey -- He is an NYC Gentleman who wrote a pretty comprehensive and well written multi-chapter treatise on the topic

[Bearofdistinction]

Hi everyone,

 

Karn here, this is my first time posting on this forum. I have been reading this forum for about 2 weeks now and let me tell you that i have gathered a lot of information from you guys and I sincerely wish to thank you all for sharing all the professional information and personal experiences related to escorting which helps newbies like me to learn and prepare ourselves.

 

About me - I am a 22 year old, South Asian chap based in Toronto area. Fair skin colour, 5 feet 8 inches tall, still working on my body ( lol ) and bi-sexual.

I have so many questions in my mind right now, I have been looking to become an escort for quite some time now but was never able to get the right direction

After surfing the net for a month or so, I accidentally landed on this gold mine of a information ( M4M message forum ) .

First thing I wish to know is how good is Toronto for being an escort. Plus I assume that there wont be many escorts of south Asian descent here in Toronto and that might act in my favor ( this is just my assumption )

I already have a job and so, I would not be relying solely on escorting, but i would like to grow and become a full time escort as I get better at it.

 

So, please feel free to provide me with your opinions/ advises/ guidance for they will help me a lot.

 

Thank you.

 

This Article and resource may also be helpful to you

 

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/07/25/inside-the-school-for-escorts-rentu-s-lessons-in-sex-and-money.html

[Becket]

Post an ad on Rentmen or Backpage. Then see what kind of response you get around here. Granted some of us will be catty, even mean spirited. But you might pick up a tip or two that you previously didn't think about. Gotta have a thick skin anyway. Might be a good way to see if your heart and stomach is really into it all.

[LADoug1]

This Article and resource may also be helpful to you

 

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/07/25/inside-the-school-for-escorts-rentu-s-lessons-in-sex-and-money.html

Kevin Slater, Juan Vancouver, and Abel Rey are the ones to emulate. Watch Abel's videos on YouTube and read Kevin and Juan 's posts here on Daddy's. Essential information and guidance.

[karn]

1. I can't speak to whether or not Toronto has "enough business," but I can tell you that you'll get enough business if you're selling a product people want. Toronto is a large city with a fair amount of tourism so there are certainly plenty of people coming through who might be looking to hire. The best escorts are successful because of WHO they are, not just WHERE they are. You might do well to check out other male escorts in Toronto and find out what is being offered and what is being charged. This can help you discover your niche, understand the market, establish your identity and attract customers. This ultimately leads to a reputation, and that is how you get "enough business."

 

2. I might be way off, but I'm fairly certain that escort agencies are a dying breed. I suppose there are pros and cons to both approaches, but I think in this day and age, with the ease of accessing and using online resources, most folks choose the independence and control of doing it yourself.

 

3. The Google machine might be the best way to find male escort agencies in Toronto, if there are any to find. I don't think any escort agency would advertise on CL or BP.

 

It seems to me like you're fairly certain you want to be an escort, that you're willing to start off slow to see how it goes and continue to build, and that you would like to attract people who are seeking South Asian companions. The drive, the patience, the niche. What I would recommend is that you go to Rentmen and look at the other escorts in TO - gather some information and post your own ad. You might also want to reach out to other escorts in TO or on here who you admire and who have a business style and approach you like. You can always tweak things here and there, and monitor what happens, until you've refined your niche, developed your identity, established your reputation and you're making it!

Thnx @Eric Hassan and sry for the late reply

I wasnt well so didnt get the chance to visit the thread.

Well i checked google and currently there are no agencies for male escorts in Toronto.

Some more questions though

1. Do i need to have a ripped body to become a successful escort bcs i hv seen so many escorts with diff. Body types like chubby, petite etc.

I meam they dnt have athletic or a ripped body but still they are working as escorts

So, is it like its not necessary to be suucessful in escorting business.

 

2. should an escort be shaved or not.

I have escorts both shaved and unshaved.

What does the majority of clients prefer.

 

3. Which kind of penis is prefered more - cut or uncut ? ( i have an uncut penis )

[karn]

1) It's hard to say if Toronto will be a good place for escorting. It's all about how you market yourself. Some escorts may be in more demand than others.

2) Work as an independent escort. You hold onto all of your earnings.

3)Agencies for men are far and few between, post on sites like rentmen.com and men4rentnow.com. There are others but those are just two that come to mind.

 

Keenan

Thnx @Keenan for the answers mate, they wr a great help.

I checked out rentmen.com and i heard that escorts get a lot of inquiries from this site

[karn]

Google Abel Rey -- He is an NYC Gentleman who wrote a pretty comprehensive and well written multi-chapter treatise on the topic

Ya i did bro

Sry cudnt reply earlier due to my poor health.

Currently i am watching abel's videos on youtube. I hv got a lot of info from him

 

Thnx for suggesting bro

[karn]

Post an ad on Rentmen or Backpage. Then see what kind of response you get around here. Granted some of us will be catty, even mean spirited. But you might pick up a tip or two that you previously didn't think about. Gotta have a thick skin anyway. Might be a good way to see if your heart and stomach is really into it all.

 

Thnx @Becket. I checked out rentmen. Looks really promising. Heard u get a lot of inquiries from here. I hope i can get good business from here.

A question though can i be a successful escort without having a ripped or athletic body ?

[karn]

Kevin Slater and Abel Rey are the ones to emulate. Watch Abel's videos on YouTube and read Kevin 's posts here on Daddy's. Essential information and guidance.

Thnx @LADoug1 . I am actually watching abel rey's videos right now.

Lots of information there

 

Thanks a lot from suggesting it to me

[+ Eric Hassan]

Thnx @Eric Hassan and sry for the late reply

I wasnt well so didnt get the chance to visit the thread.

Well i checked google and currently there are no agencies for male escorts in Toronto.

Some more questions though

1. Do i need to have a ripped body to become a successful escort bcs i hv seen so many escorts with diff. Body types like chubby, petite etc.

I meam they dnt have athletic or a ripped body but still they are working as escorts

So, is it like its not necessary to be suucessful in escorting business.

 

2. should an escort be shaved or not.

I have escorts both shaved and unshaved.

What does the majority of clients prefer.

 

3. Which kind of penis is prefered more - cut or uncut ? ( i have an uncut penis )

 

Hope you're feeling better

 

Each of your questions seemed to be seeking guidance on what you "should" look like to be a successful escort. Successful escorts are successful not because of how they look, but who they are and what it's like to spend time with them. Yes, how you look can and does influence a hiring decision, but ultimately it's not your decision to make and some folks with be attracted to you while others will not. Anecdotally, I have been hired by many guys who tell me they hired me specifically because I have a hairy chest, while I know there are many folks who would never hire me, for exactly the same reason. Getting comfortable with your body is really important in this line of work. You can't please everyone all of the time, but you'll never please anyone if you're too wrapped up in having the right look to be mentally present with someone.

[mike carey]

Each of your questions seemed to be seeking guidance on what you "should" look like to be a successful escort.

I would go further than Eric has, but I would caution that I am talking about my preferences, not about the man on the Clapham omnibus. An escort's appearance is a factor in whether I would hire, but far more important to me is the personality they project. You don't need to participate here to 'project a personality', you can as easily do it by the way your performance is reflected in Daddy's reviews. How your actual clients see you will affect that. But participating here will enable you to show people who you are. Eric, amongst others, has projected a good image to me, others have done the opposite.

 

Bottom line is that your appearance is only part of the way you attract clients, there are other things that you can do. You don't have to do the other things, ignoring them won't necessarily detract from your brand, nor will doing them necessarily add to it. The 'other things' will give potential clients a clearer picture or who you are.

[+ Funguy]

1. Good hygiene

2. Smile on your face

3. Understand that some clients (or potential clients) will be assholes but you must roll with the punch, take a deep breath, and keep on truckin'

4. Research well and go hire 1 or 2 escorts who seem to have what you are looking for (for the grammarians - forgive the dangling . . .)

5. Good luck and visit LA