Fun with no anal

[+ quoththeraven]

Thank the Greeks for non-penetrative sex (intercrural). By the way, careful with the inner thighs...they chafe rather easily (ahem).

http://www.laits.utexas.edu/ancienthomosexuality/images/0102280012.jpg

 

Solution: Lube. Lots of it.

 

One of my favorite porn clips from my teenage porn perusing days... Watch til the end, it's worth every minute, and no anal at all...:D:D

 

http://m.xhamster.com/movies/2308841/hot_cocks_frotting.html

 

Excuse me while I go jerk off now... :p:p

 

Pretty sure the action at the end qualifies as intercrural even though the "classic" position seems to be lying down with the thruster behind the thrustee. Accomplishing this standing up requires athleticism or approximately equal height.

[+ Truereview]

Found another one:

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1267757955

 

More "current" and "realistic" than the other link I posted... but every bit as hot, if not hotter... It's beautifully shot (pun intended )

http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/158684/geyser-o.gif

[+ Eric Hassan]

Hey guys, this is my first big post here. I am very inexperienced so I apologize for any ridiculous thoughts. So, I was wondering if it is possible and common for people to have a mind-blowing overnight with someone without without engaging in anal intercourse. I usually find bottomming very painful (maybe due to an autoimmune disease), and, on the other end of the game, I am not particularly well endowed (small-average range). Any advice?

 

Sex is way more than a hard cock and a cumshot. Sex can be anything you want it to be. You always call the shots.

 

Also, if anyone needs anal training ...

[+ Eric Hassan]

It's sort of a fire-in-the-belly male bonding that includes tame man-on-man eroticism. They tend to be really into anything conventionally manly or masculine - hunting, building furniture, big trucks, paintball etc, etc. They loudly proclaim that they are not "gay" and despise anything that they don't see as manly or masculine.

 

Reminds me of the gOy thing - the guys who are anti-anal because it is an affront to masculinity and an abhorrent practice and bullshit like that.

[+ glennnn]

Found another one:

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1267757955

 

More "current" and "realistic" than the other link I posted... but every bit as hot, if not hotter... It's beautifully shot (pun intended )

 

Amazingly hot! This I can do! Thank you @dlee02 for the "how to" video. Can't wait to try this with my next escort. No size restrictions or worries.

[Rudynate]

Reminds me of the gOy thing - the guys who are anti-anal because it is an affront to masculinity and an abhorrent practice and bullshit like that.

 

 

Like that.

[AdamSmith]

Reminds me of the gOy thing - the guys who are anti-anal because it is an affront to masculinity and an abhorrent practice and bullshit like that.

It does feel like a collective of guys who have had one very traumatic experience with bottoming.

[tpl]

Hey guys, this is my first big post here. I am very inexperienced so I apologize for any ridiculous thoughts. So, I was wondering if it is possible and common for people to have a mind-blowing overnight with someone without without engaging in anal intercourse. I usually find bottomming very painful (maybe due to an autoimmune disease), and, on the other end of the game, I am not particularly well endowed (small-average range). Any advice?

I read most of the replies and agree that anal is not a must. Like you, I find it painful. For me deep, wet, French kissing is a must. I love muscles and muscle worship, cuddling, wrestling a stronger guy and getting pinned/submitted, and release in its many manifestations.

You are just fine!

Good luck.

[Jim Corrigan]

Sometimes you feel like a fuck,sometimes you don't.

[AdamSmith]

A side note: not wanting, or not being able to enjoy, anal now may or may not be a predictor of the future. Until age 46 I had been strictly a top. Then I fell in love with an escort (with entirely non-tragic consequences!) who was (at that time) a total top himself. I found that I greatly wanted to bottom for him, and that pulled me into it. Or him into me.

 

So, go with what you like now, and be wholly comfortable with your choices and feelings. But stay ever alert & alive to every thing that may come your way, and your responses to it.

[AdamSmith]

PS This word 'intercrural' makes me think of two salad-oil cruets getting it on.

 

http://www.vermontchurchsupply.com/images/P/CB-10-02.jpg

[Rudynate]

PS This word 'intercrural' makes me think of two salad-oil cruets getting it on.

 

http://www.vermontchurchsupply.com/images/P/CB-10-02.jpg

 

 

If one were REALLY perverse, he might think of cruets for celebrating mass:

 

[marylander1940]

Here is an interesting resource:

 

http://man2manalliance.org/

 

I dislike their basic message and rhetoric. But a potentially useful catalog of male-to-male alternatives to penetrative sex.

 

Damn... such intolerance... anti effeminacy?

 

http://www.woodenurecover.com/assets/images/recovery_plaques/live-and-let-live.jpg

[pubic_assistance]

Maybe it's just me....but when you're HIRING ..you're most likely with someone you find particularly attractive....so for me, the act of having that DREAM DATE on me or under me, making out and grinding our cocks together, is enough of a turn on ( with the right amount of lube for friction that excites and doesn't chafe ). I don't always make it to the anal penetration when I am engulfed in my fantasy companion ...

[TruthBTold]

Welcome @HeyandHello. Agree with much of what has been said. There is so much more you can do without penetration, but keep in mind that being small-endowed doesn't mean you cant please your partner. Some of my best fucks have been with smaller guys who worked me from every angle. With that said, I will assume you want absolutely no topping or bottoming, so the following is a starter list and these should be reciprocal, mutual; and keep in mind that reading your partner's responses is critical. Full service escorts would likely meet all of these. If you can't figure out if he or you are enjoying it, communicate and redirect if needed.

1. Flirting : Arousing the mind can be extremely erotic and begins to set the mood for further exploration
   
2. Touching: I'm not talking heavy petting, but putting your hands or fingertips on each other or sitting closely
   
3. Kissing: lightly, gently building to exploratory and hungry deep exchanges
   
4. Massage : giving each other a chance to read and know each other's curves and turns
   
5. Nips: kiss, lick, and savor them, and with permission begin to gently torture them
   
6. Feet: if you haven't massaged feet or had them massaged and then worshipped, you haven't lived. Try it
   
7. Balls: breathe soothingly over them, then tease them with your tongue, light pulling with your mouth
   
8. The ass: you don't have to fuck it to enjoy it. Eating a man's ass can be pleasing to both partners if done with passion, desire, open-mindedness. Remember, an ass is not just the anus
   
9. Blowjobs: there are a bizillion positions to explore and they all give different sensations & pleasures
   
10. Mutual mastubartion: again, can be done in so many ways and if you connect with your partner well, you can have orgasms as intense or better than penetration
    

 

It's funny. I am a top pretty much of the time that has to end with anal culmination. BUT, and that is a big BUTT, a rim job on my partner without anal penetration makes me feel like I am really pleasing him. Moreover there are other times that I just have to give someone a BJ (without anything else) that I hope they won't forget. I once had a guy at the end of a BJ tell me that he felt as if I was making love to his cock and I guess I was. You definitely can have much fun (as True has listed) without penetration.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Welcome, @HeyandHello! I hope you gain as much from the forum as I have. I've been a member here for just under a year. In that time, I've learned that anal penetration is just not for me. I long to have the mind-blowing bottom sex that others have, but it probably isn't going to happen. I too find it mostly painful. I still love all oral sex- cock sucking, tea bagging and rimming, and when I add kissing, hugging, hand jobs and frottage........ Well, I'm a very satisfied guy. You are in charge of your sex life. Be open and honest with your escort and ask for what feels good. He will provide.

 

Don't you DARE give up on bottoming! I simply will not permit it.

[+ Timsbud]

I've been seeing a reviewed escort now for some time that is an enthusiastic bottom, per the reviews by others, but I am not into topping him. We have great role-play sessions, where I get to admire his athletic body, and manly personality, in various ways. Recently I've added using some vibrating anal/prostate stimulators, that I bring along, on him to the action. He gets into it, and has strong climaxes. I enjoy getting him off this way - and we have sessions I truly enjoy of good conversation and satisfying action for both of us. So there is that way to bring pleasure to both, without the more traditional "anal".

[AdamSmith]

Don't you DARE give up on bottoming! I simply will not permit it.

 

I agree!

[+ glennnn]

Don't you DARE give up on bottoming! I simply will not permit it.

 

Well.........maybe just for you. Since you ask so nicely.

 

 

God, you make me horny!

[FatDaddy]

I usually don't do anal. I love to have a guy tease my frenulum and anus with light touches of his well lubed fingers as he deeply French kisses me. And of course there's munching of assholes, armpits and nutsacks.

[liubit]

I usually don't do anal. I love to have a guy tease my frenulum and anus with light touches of his well lubed fingers as he deeply French kisses me. And of course there's munching of assholes, armpits and nutsacks.

Yes, yes, yes....oh, yes!

[+ harey]

Hey guys, this is my first big post here. I am very inexperienced so I apologize for any ridiculous thoughts. So, I was wondering if it is possible and common for people to have a mind-blowing overnight with someone without without engaging in anal intercourse. I usually find bottomming very painful, and, on the other end of the game, I am not particularly well endowed (small-average range). Any advice?

Welcome to the forum. Yes, very possible. Not unusual, so don't worry about being seen as "strange" if that was your concern. Have fun.

[Despardo]

[Mo Mason]

I've done fun with no anal plenty of times. In fact, the next time I hire all I'd like to do is slow dance with him for an hour. Been wanting to do that a lot lately as I've never danced with a man before.

[MasterMaxRR]

Good lord... an escort that doesn't know how to rock your world without anal is either inexperienced or not a very good escort. There are so, so many things that one can do without anal that I would recommend you stick to your guns. Granted, it's not as easy for escorts as a simple plug and pay, but the most important thing is to find an escort who is willing to work with you and spend a little time figuring out what gets your crank going. It's more work for both, but in the end it is so worth it! Above all, don't let people tell you that you're weird or strange in any way. I had a partner of 4 years that detested the idea of anal sex, and let me tell you, I never cared since the sex was so hot!

 

Love and Light

Master Max