Embarrassed to ask this question

[+ Reisr30]

I don't have any experience and I am wondering if it would be rude to use a dental dam for rimming? I have read about all the possible health risks (e.g. Hepatitis, amoebas, etc.) and they freak me out as I am a bit a germophobe. Not Howard Hughes crazy but definitely worried easily and am reluctant to try otherwise. I hope I don't offend anyone by asking this...

[FatDaddy]

I've asked about this and it's never been an issue.

[gallahadesquire]

As an aside, the FDA has not certified Saran Wrap for use in anilingus.

[+ Travis69]

I am sure you wouldn't be the first to ask to use one. Sex is supposed to be fun and worrying about what you did after the fact is NOT fun. Use one.

[MikeyGMin]

I don't have any experience and I am wondering if it would be rude to use a dental dam for rimming? I have read about all the possible health risks (e.g. Hepatitis, amoebas, etc.) and they freak me out as I am a bit a germophobe. Not Howard Hughes crazy but definitely worried easily and am reluctant to try otherwise. I hope I don't offend anyone by asking this...

 

Serious question. Not trying to be a dick. But you are still drawn to do it even though it freaks you out? Don't get me wrong, I'm a big fan of it, but I would get no enjoyment out of licking plastic so I would probably just do something else.

[+ Reisr30]

Serious question. Not trying to be a dick. But you are still drawn to do it even though it freaks you out? Don't get me wrong, I'm a big fan of it, but I would get no enjoyment out of licking plastic so I would probably just do something else.

You're question is fair. Yes, I am still curious and that curiosity has grown over the years. I know that probably sounds weird. As I think about it I can always ask and if he doesn't like the idea of using the dam we can always move on to something else...

[+ Travis69]

Please stop worrying about being rude and TELL him you are using a dental dam. Don't ask him. It shouldn't matter to him. Do it and take this activity off your bucket list.

[loverboy95]

You have nothing to be embarrassed about! I happen to be a biggest germophobe. I rimmed an escort once and that was the first and last time I did it. If I were to ever do it again, I would definitely use dental dams.

[+ DickyF]

Why would the escort object? You are the customer to his service and you are not proposing anything dangerous - quite the opposite. I'm sure most sane escorts have rejected some scary proposals but would not object to this at all.

Actually I'm thinking it's a good idea for me! I too love to worship a beautiful butt but worry about germs.

[JayNY]

good info

[Jayhayche]

As an aside, the FDA has not certified Saran Wrap for use in analingus. [And why does the spell checker refuse this word?]

Anilingus

[seaboy4hire]

I don't think it's rude to use one. We all have our boundaries and one of yours it sounds like that you would be open to rimming but whith a barrier. You aren't asking to put the escorts or your life at risk, so this should be a non issue. I've never used a dental dam for rimming but if the client asked I would do so.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ Reisr30]

Thank you all. I appreciate the responses.

[AvengingDanno]

I actually got an amoeba that way last summer. Be prudent!

[Juan Vancouver]

I don't have any experience and I am wondering if it would be rude to use a dental dam for rimming? I hope I don't offend anyone by asking this...

 

It'a not offensive at all. Just ask politely and I assure you nobody will have any problem with it. If your escort doesn't know what this means, be sure to have a URL that you can send to explain what you mean.

 

Please stop worrying about being rude and TELL him you are using a dental dam. Don't ask him.

 

Travis, I think I can get your intention, but Reisr30, I strongly recommend against TELLING your escort you are doing anything to him. Interpersonal relationships and intimacy, paid or free are a two way street. It is great that you have a clear image of what you want to do, but there is still a human being on the other side; human beings respond better to being made part of the conversation.

 

Whether it is a healthy thing or not, if someone announces they will do something to me, that brings them very close to being in the "no meet" list.

 

It's human beings. They respond better when that fact is a acknowledged.

 

Best of luck, and I hope you give the rimming of a lifetime! =)

[Rod Hagen]

There's no denying that the space inside the crack is a quagmire, somehow both a septic tank purge valve and the tunnel of love.

[AdamSmith]

There's no denying that the space inside the crack is a quagmire, somehow both a septic tank release valve and the tunnel of love.

But Love has pitched his mansion in

The place of excrement...

[TruthBTold]

I think the advice given has been very good regarding a conversation with your mate that outlines your sexual desires and your thought that this will make you the most comfortable in achieving it. He obviously has the right to say,"No." In that case (depending how important rimming is to you) you are not a good match and you can look for another companion who does not have a problem with the practice.

BTW, are there any statistics regarding the performing of rimming and the acquiring of various STDs/HIV? I love rimming and have never picked anything up. I'm sure it is just a matter. Is there something (other than the dam) to make it less likely? At the moment PrEP would make aquiring it less likely, as I understand it.

[JayNY]

I do take some preventative steps to try to protect myself from catching any STD's, such as , getting the vaccine shots for (Hep A & B), and making sure both of us take a shower before we do anything. I only hire guys who only play safe, and I also ask the guy about his health status.

 

I actually ask my doctor about the possibility of catching STD's from rimming, he told me it was very low. He said the chances of catching something while rimming a guy was very low. But he did suggest using a dental dam.

[ChrisWydeman]

I don't have any experience and I am wondering if it would be rude to use a dental dam for rimming? I have read about all the possible health risks (e.g. Hepatitis, amoebas, etc.) and they freak me out as I am a bit a germophobe. Not Howard Hughes crazy but definitely worried easily and am reluctant to try otherwise. I hope I don't offend anyone by asking this...

It's not offensive but I am going to level with you, getting rimmed with a dental dam feels like nothing for guy getting his ass licked. If you want to lick a peice of plastic by all means go for it but when I have done it I was bored to tears

 

Also you can vaccinated for hep a and b

[marylander1940]

I don't have any experience and I am wondering if it would be rude to use a dental dam for rimming? I have read about all the possible health risks (e.g. Hepatitis, amoebas, etc.) and they freak me out as I am a bit a germophobe. Not Howard Hughes crazy but definitely worried easily and am reluctant to try otherwise. I hope I don't offend anyone by asking this...

 

Why would you?

 

I still use condoms, go ahead and do it if you're afraid of the other things we could catch rimming.

[MasterMaxRR]

Hi!

 

Valid, valid question. No need to be embarrassed.

 

Perhaps a shower together before rimming? In addition to being a form of sensual play, once you've washed the heck out of that hole you're going to eat maybe it won't be such a germ issue? Either way though, if it makes you more comfortable and relaxed to use a dental dam, then that is exactly what you should do.

 

Hugs,

Master Max

[AdamSmith]

[LADoug1]

Once again communication is king.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I think the advice given has been very good regarding a conversation with your mate that outlines your sexual desires and your thought that this will make you the most comfortable in achieving it. He obviously has the right to say,"No." In that case (depending how important rimming is to you) you are not a good match and you can look for another companion who does not have a problem with the practice.

BTW, are there any statistics regarding the performing of rimming and the acquiring of various STDs/HIV? I love rimming and have never picked anything up. I'm sure it is just a matter. Is there something (other than the dam) to make it less likely? At the moment PrEP would make aquiring it less likely, as I understand it.

 

PrEP is for the prevention of HIV infection. It is unlikely that you'd contract HIV from eating butt - it's things like parasites and other STIs you would be more likely to contract. The dental dam is a wiser approach in this situation, if one is concerned and desires some protection.