Email, Text, Call- which method is preferred for contact

[marylander1940]

I haven't even begun to look at DFW requests yet.

 

Damn, you're wanted no wonder why!

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[Maximus69]

I'm glad you're open to a phone call from a potential client.

 

A 30 mins talk would be the equivalent of hundreds of text messages, in a couple of mins. you can get a feeling and answer questions like: What do you get into? How much do you charge? What are your stats? Where are you located? Can you please text me your address? I'll text you when I'm on my way, etc in just 2 mins.

 

One more thing, if there's people around you when you get a call at the gym you can always step aside, or just say you'll call in 5, 10, 30 mins. If you're on the street and guys just walk by, don't worry they're usually minding their own business.

 

and I'm not trying to be harsh or mean by saying i don't want to talk for 30 minutes, its more so I've heard and experienced guys calling escorts up and trying to talk to them as long as possible knowing fully they aren't going to meet them, its some sort of game to them to harass and waste an escorts time or have a guy asking every sexual question to jerk off to your words lol. Like you said you can know the basics all under 5 minutes.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

As someone who hires on the side, I much prefer email or text, email over text. I can send an email, read an email, reply to an email without suspicion.

 

I understand that most guys want a phone number to confirm - happy to do that - either by text or at a prearranged time for a phone call. I am also happy to have a phone converstation to finalise arrangments. However the point is, "I like to be tied up, spanked, flogged till I beg you to stop then I want you to fuck my ass really hard, pull out and shoot all over me, " is not a converstation to be held in public. I might be in a private space but the escort might not be, in line at the bank - saying yes I have 8.5 inches cut and i love to shoot all over you is not appropiate.

 

We all have lives away from our sex lives, and some consideration is important.

 

Anyway a busy escort should have his phone turned off while he is with a client. I know thats my expectation when I am paying someone for their time.

[Mocha]

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Anyway a busy escort should have his phone turned off while he is with a client. I know thats my expectation when I am paying someone for their time.

 

There's also that convenient little switch on the side of the iPhone, or the volume down function on the android. Saves time rebooting and getting 100 notifications all at once

 

That said, its rare a client also turns THEIR phone off.

[loverboy95]

I haven't even begun to look at DFW requests yet.

 

I hope I get to be one of the lucky ones who meets you this time!

[+ Eric Hassan]

I'm Old School, I use smoke signals.

 

And here I was thinking it was just hot air

[mike carey]

And here I was thinking it was just hot air.

Well played, my good man!

[jjkrkwood]

And here I was thinking it was just hot air

 

That only comes out my "other end" when I eat spicy burritos !

[+ purplekow]

First: When I call an escort on the phone, they never answer, it goes to voice mail. I leave a polite message which includes a good time to call me. I also give my e mail address, in case that is the preferred method of contact. At some point however, I do prefer to have a brief phone conversation though it is not a requirement.

[+ Steve yabsley]

I really (really) prefer texting. It is faster (and more reliable) than email and allows everyone he convenience of replying at their convenience. I use email when I have to, but always worry if it has been received. I would use a phone call as a last resort.

 

As with many things, probably a range of preferences, and no one size fits all.

[rvwnsd]

Given the variety of answers to this question, it seems we all need to be flexible and recognize the fact that everyone has different communications preferences. There is no absolute.

 

I do, however, like JJK's approach. Smoke signalling is a lost art.

[ChristopherDC]

I prefer a text message first (I could be busy, etc.). After, I will usually arrange a time to chat on the phone. Sometimes, we just text each other.

[pierrot]

As a client, I find that most escorts respond to texts best. Most don't answer the phone directly, though some will listen to the message and get back to you. Some will respond to e-mail, but usually not right away. It's surprising actually how many don't respond to e-mail. It's actually the safest way to communicate in terms of have your conversation traced, I think. But it has sort of fallen out of favor. One thing I've learned: don't bother with sending an e-mail through a third party like RentMen. Most escorts won't respond to that, or if they do, it will be days later.