Phonesex - How do you do it? How do you charge for it?

[Nathan_L]

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[Kevin Slater]

So I've gotten my first phonesex enquiry and I'm not sure how I should go about doing it. :/ How much do you charge, compared to your normal rate (or pay, if you're a client!)? Also, I've set up a paypal account for this, but I'm not sure if there are any other better methods of payment.

 

Paypal is very dicey. The guy can reverse the charge afterwards, and if paypal gets wind that it's a sexual service their user agreement says they can always go back into your bank account and grab the money even after giving it to you. Might I recommend an amazon e-gift card? Or maybe you want to create an Amazon wishlist? (Mine, btw, can be found under Kevin@LaterSlater.com )

 

Kevin Slater

[geoffk]

you could set up a www.niteflirt.com account. They take a cut though.

 

one guy i talk to uses Venmo instead of paypal. i don't think they allow chargebacks. and they don't care what you are paying for.

 

the amazon gift card suggestion is good too if you want to buy stuff instead of getting cash.

[Kevin Slater]

one guy i talk to uses Venmo instead of paypal. i don't think they allow chargebacks. and they don't care what you are paying for.

 

Venmo is now owned by paypal. They do seem to take a harder line against chargebacks, but given paypal's involvement, I doubt they'll remain indifferent to what you're using it for for long.

 

Kevin Slater

[Nathan_L]

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[Kevin Slater]

I like the idea of Amazon e-gift cards, but it'll be a bit of a hassle to convert them into cash.

 

No, but there's a lot of cool shit for purchase.

 

Kevin, when you do phonesex do you charge your full rate (assuming you've done so before)?

 

I don't really go the phone sex route, probably because I would charge my normal rate. It's still my time, in fact a bit more of my time in that I have the hassle of figuring out how to be paid, etc. I'm sure clients can find a better deal elsewhere.

 

Kevin Slater

[Becket]

Ask the governor of Alabama. He seems to be an expert.

[Maximus69]

Isn't any phone call a client gives an escort basically free phonesex .

 

I remember when I was more naive and younger , this client and called to set up a meeting. We were basically on the phone for 30+ minutes and he was asking me to describe what I like, when was the first time doing this or that, my first erection, my first time with a guy,basically asking anything sexually possible and was asking me to be detailed, basically an interrogation. I think I heard some long pauses and heavy breathing in the background he was probably jerking off lol. I tried to end the conversation in a polite way many times but everytime I told him I had to go he would ask me a new question. As it was reaching almost 40 minutes I told him I really had to go now, and he then scheduled a date. When that date came, he never showed up and never even bother to text/email or call to give an reason why.

 

I have nothing against phone calls, I think 1 phone call before meeting actually puts both parties mind at ease, but i advise to keep it 5-10 long max. Just like guys email/text me all the time with no intention to meet, guys can also call and string you along too.

 

I only take cash as every other method to receive your money can easily be reversed or bounced back. I haven't flown to meet anyone or traveled that far for a client but if that happened many people told me on here to ask for the guy to make a upfront deposit which can be reverse so If theres any secure way for long distance travels.

[+ Keith30309]

Ask the governor of Alabama. He seems to be an expert.

 

Not based on the excerpts I heard...

 

So, I mean it.. it was fine.

I mean, he couldn’t….

Cause he couldn’t….

Well, I know.

He couldn’t tell who I was sending it to.

And it didn’t say, “Hey baby, I love you so much and I’d like to spend the rest of my life with you.”

You’d kiss me.

I love that. You know I do love that.

That…

You know what? When.. When I stand behind you, and I put my arms around you, I put my hands on your breasts, and I put my hands (unintelligible) and pull you real close, I, hey, I love that too. Putting my arms, my hands under your….

(chuckle)

They did.

Oh, great, I know. I’m thinking about that right now so I’d better quit.

Yeah.

(unintelligible)

You were thinking about it… Yeah, I could tell you were thinking about it… I could tell you were thinking about it last night.

I changed… I changed the subject, didn’t I?

It’s OK. Everything’s going to be fine. We’re going to be all right this week.

I know… I know, I know.

I know it is.

I know.

I love you. I love touching you. I do. I do love putting my hands (inaudible).

I do. I do. I do. I do love you.

But baby, let me tell you what we’re going to have to do tonight is start locking the door.

We’re going to do….

Yeah, if we’re going to do what we did the other day, we’re going to have to start locking the door

What you might expect if Barbara Cartland had attended the University of Alabama.... and become a Baptist deacon.