Session ends when the client cum?

[lizejing1994]

So I have recently hired someone for a two hour session and I finished after 75 minutes. Then in 5 minutes, he just started to clean up and prepare to leave. I don't mind he leaves in advance but I definitely prefer him to stay. Is it like a rule or something? If the client cums in the first 30 minutes of a one hour session, then it's finished?

[+ DERRIK]

rule 45 subsection Gii

[m.yi]

Something similar happened to me a year and a half ago. I told the escort " We still have 10 more minutes at don't we?", he responded by saying "What else do you want us to do?". This was a well-reviewed escort. Speak up, this is your hard earned money.

 

Know what time you guys officially start, then let yourself get lost in the time. The two other Escorts I hired after him were not clock watchers.

[lizejing1994]

rule 45 subsection Gii

Newbie here..I'm not following

[+ Keith30309]

So I have recently hired someone for a two hour session and I finished after 75 minutes. Then in 5 minutes, he just started to clean up and prepare to leave. I don't mind he leaves in advance but I definitely prefer him to stay. Is it like a rule or something? If the client cums in the first 30 minutes of a one hour session, then it's finished?

 

No.

I've seen this myself and it's a little disconcerting. Making an issue of it is likely to unravel any good chemistry that's developed so it's a difficult situation to deal with... "WTF - get back in bed - I have 15 more minutes left in my boyfriend experience."

The good news is that this has never been an issue with the guys who "get it" - the pros who care about what they do.

[lizejing1994]

Something similar happened to me a year and a half ago. I told the escort " We still have 10 more minutes at don't we?", he responded by saying "What else do you want us to do?". This was a well-reviewed escort. Speak up, this is your hard earned money.

 

Know what time you guys officially start, then let yourself get lost in the time. The two other Escorts I hired after him were not clock watchers.

 

I also once had an experience with a clock watcher. Great sex, but he then ruined it by repeatedly saying he should go because the time is near.

[lizejing1994]

No.

I've seen this myself and it's a little disconcerting. Making an issue of it is likely to unravel any good chemistry that's developed so it's a difficult situation to deal with... "WTF - get back in bed - I have 15 more minutes left in my boyfriend experience."

The good news is that this has never been an issue with the guys who "get it" - the pros who care about what they do.

 

You make a good point. But being eager to leave will unravel any good chemistry anyway. I paid for sex in my apartment, not a quickie at w.c .

[liubit]

In my experience, cumming does not mean that the session is over. It is over when the clock says so, or when you decide it is time for him (or you) to leave, of course within the allotted time YOU paid for. You can cuddle, kiss or even chat in the remaining time if you feel like it.

 

I have to admit, though, that sometimes, after I cum the bubble bursts, the carriage becomes a pumpkin, I am not horny anymore, my dick goes limp, and all I want is for the meeting to end.....

[Keenan]

So I have recently hired someone for a two hour session and I finished after 75 minutes. Then in 5 minutes, he just started to clean up and prepare to leave. I don't mind he leaves in advance but I definitely prefer him to stay. Is it like a rule or something? If the client cums in the first 30 minutes of a one hour session, then it's finished?

 

The escort should stay for the entire time unless otherwise discussed. If the escort is getting ready to leave early let him know that you want him to stay or cut the pay.

 

Keenan

[+ Eric Hassan]

I have found it can be really fun and enjoyable to stick around after the cumshot.

[jjkrkwood]

No.

I've seen this myself and it's a little disconcerting. Making an issue of it is likely to unravel any good chemistry that's developed so it's a difficult situation to deal with... "WTF - get back in bed - I have 15 more minutes left in my boyfriend experience."

The good news is that this has never been an issue with the guys who "get it" - the pros who care about what they do.

 

 

FYI Mr Keith, some REAL boyfriends are inconsiderate too !

[jjkrkwood]

1) Don't we escorts make a point out of the fact that we get paid for our time only?

2) Does an employer allow an employee to leave at 4 PM because the employee finished the tasks of that day?

 

Anton.

 

 

YES to #1, and Depends/Maybe to #2

[MiamiLooker]

1) Don't we escorts make a point out of the fact that we get paid for our time only?

2) Does an employer allow an employee to leave at 4 PM because the employee finished the tasks of that day?

 

Anton.

1) The escort posters on this site frequently make this assertion, but that doesn't make it true for all or even most sessions.

2) Sometimes

[+ WmClarke]

rule 45 subsection Gii

 

Newbie here..I'm not following

Welcome to the boards!

 

Just a little joke: quoting a number as if it's an official policy or an actual law.

[+ glennnn]

I haven't had this happen, and don't know what I would do. To order him back to bed after he had shown his desire to leave would be kind of humiliating, I think, and unproductive. Wouldn't want to feel I was forcing him to cuddle, talk, be with me. The quick exit, the sense of "fleeing by the scene of the crime" would be too much like what m/m sex always was when i was young. It made me feel dirty and wrong. I guess I would let him go, reveal my displeasure in my review and never hire him again.

[down_to_business]

It just means you hired the wrong guy

[jjkrkwood]

So I have recently hired someone for a two hour session and I finished after 75 minutes. Then in 5 minutes, he just started to clean up and prepare to leave. I don't mind he leaves in advance but I definitely prefer him to stay. Is it like a rule or something? If the client cums in the first 30 minutes of a one hour session, then it's finished?

 

If you came in his mouth I would give him a pass ! :D

[+ WmClarke]

I haven't had this happen, and don't know what I would do. To order him back to bed after he had shown his desire to leave would be kind of humiliating, I think, and unproductive. Wouldn't want to feel I was forcing him to cuddle, talk, be with me. The quick exit, the sense of "fleeing by the scene of the crime" would be too much like what m/m sex always was when i was young. It made me feel dirty and wrong. I guess I would let him go, reveal my displeasure in my review and never hire him again.

But if it's happening right then, you have a chance to say something and get what you want.

 

Just phrase it as a simple request--"Can't we cuddle for a few minutes before you leave?"

 

If he stays, great! If not, at least you tried

 

If you do mention in a review, then you can phrase it very neutrally: "I asked him to cuddle since we had time left, but he said he had to go."

[+ Keith30309]

FYI Mr Keith, some REAL boyfriends are inconsiderate too !

 

Q: What is a '68' ?

A: You do me and I'll owe you one.

[Riley Wynters]

Personally, I always like to wash up after everything is said and done, regardless of how much time is left. I just don't like the feeling of not being clean. After I wash up, if there is still time, I will cuddle or talk with my client, whichever he is in the mood for. If he's ready for me to go then I'll get dressed and go, which has happened to me on more than one occasion. But the client is paying for a specific length of time and if he wants me to stay the full time after we are done then that is what I am going to do.

[+ DERRIK]

I've had an experience where an escort slipped off in the middle of the night while I slept

 

So much for his professionalism

 

He participates in the forum - perhaps he has changed his ways

 

PM me for details

[jjkrkwood]

I've had an experience where an escort slipped off in the middle of the night while I slept

 

So much for his professionalism

 

He participates in the forum - perhaps he has changed his ways

 

PM me for details

 

Be grateful he didn't steal your wallet and jewelbox. there's always a bright side.

[+ Truereview]

I would be amused if someone tried to leave when I'm just warming up with load #1. Maybe I need to get a tattoo...

 

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[sincitymix]

I've had an experience where an escort slipped off in the middle of the night while I slept

 

So much for his professionalism

 

He participates in the forum - perhaps he has changed his ways

 

PM me for details

oh wow. im sorry to hear that.

[+ bashful]

Personally, I always like to wash up after everything is said and done, regardless of how much time is left. I just don't like the feeling of not being clean. After I wash up, if there is still time, I will cuddle or talk with my client, whichever he is in the mood for.

 

I don't understand. You want to wash up because you don't like the feeling of not being clean, but then you're willing to cuddle with a client who may still possibly have cum on his body?