Hagglers?

[Jock123]

This Thread really isnt that Deep.

 

If You want to "Haggle" go for it. Every Escort operates Differently. But as the Saying goes "You get what You pay for"

 

 

Those whom I HAD given Discounts to In the past are 99% of the time are the Hardest ones to deal with In person.They Usually are Always trying to push the limits and no matter how Hard You try...never can be Satisfied. Again You would think by Doing them a Favor they would be Grateful...Most escorts would agree.

 

 

For me I have no problem Reducing my rate for a Regular. I deal with everyone on a Case by Case basis. Those who are Respectful I always look out for, As I would much rather deal with someone less Complicated than someone who Feels Entitled just because he is Paying You. Escorts are People...

[+ Truereview]

Escorts are People...

Couldn't agree more, and I need you, @Jock123 ...cuz, people, people who need people...

[+ Travis69]

The subject of haggling would never come up, if we all had as much money as Barbra. Ahhh, the fun we could all have.....

[+ Truereview]

The subject of haggling would never come up, if we all had as much money as Barbra. Ahhh, the fun we could all have.....

I have a funny (girl) feeling she haggles in the privacy of her own shopping center beneath her mega mansion. She and Oprah probably play "haggle down the Harry Winston". Sigh. In the meantime, I continue to pay premium for prime beef

[jjkrkwood]

This Thread really isnt that Deep.

 

For me I have no problem Reducing my rate for a Regular. I deal with everyone on a Case by Case basis. Those who are Respectful I always look out for, As I would much rather deal with someone less Complicated than someone who Feels Entitled just because he is Paying You. Escorts are People...

 

Uh, excuse me. Usually the Payee does have some entitlement. He is entitled to ask questions regarding Price at the Very least, eventhough you have listed your price.. If you think that's disrespectful, that's YOUR problem. From the replies by the escorts to this topic, it very much seems like you guys feel entitled. And WHY is that ? Cocks are a commodity that are easily replaceable. Yes, escorts ARE people, but so are the clients, and it seems you have little regard for them in this instance. Respect is a 2-way street Sir. The guys that fawn over you seem intimidated and afraid you'll turn them down if they show any sign of having a pair of Balls. That's their issue. It's not as if you are giving out anything for Free, so what's up with all the attitude from you guys ? It's certainly not representative of "professional" behavior.

[killianjamesnyc]

Once again, KJ, you have brought some sense to this conversation. Thank you.

 

Thanks and as always I don't want to come across as bitchy or insensitive but instill that we are all mature men talking openly about a topic (who to some can be a bit touchy) that should be approached with class and mutual respect, and overall a bit of common sense. For example I lowered my incall rate, I fully expect previous clients to pay that new rate, no questions asked. However if it was raised, I started out hooking taught that previous clients always get the rate they originally paid. And remember, haggling is different than negotiating. Negotiating is a give and a take benefiting both guys, haggling is expecting the same services for less cost, always leaving one side at a loss. Escorting is a service where no one should feel like a "loser", but equally satisfied in one way or another. This is just one of those money related topics where the true meanings of ones post can be misconstrued, and taken the wrong way. Gentlemen never should talk about money openly. Approach, approach and approach. Love ya boys! KJ

[MiamiLooker]

And remember, haggling is different than negotiating. Negotiating is a give and a take benefiting both guys, haggling is expecting the same services for less cost, always leaving one side at a loss.

+1

[+ ArVaGuy]

An old boss of mine once said "Only the Gentiles pay retail."

 

That said, I look at the rate quoted for an hour and if it's reasonable to me then I've got no issues about rates. Since my preference is for multiple hour appointments, it helpful if there is a small price break for the second hour, $50 seems reasonable. But I'm not going to haggle over it if the guy holds firm in his hourly. However, such a stance is likely to make me pass on the hire and find someone else.

 

Clients are not ATM machines with unlimited cash. For many, living paycheck to paycheck, they need to save up just to hire for an hour or two.

[jjkrkwood]

An old boss of mine once said "Only the Gentiles pay retail."

 

That said, I look at the rate quoted for an hour and if it's reasonable to me then I've got no issues about rates. Since my preference is for multiple hour appointments, it helpful if there is a small price break for the second hour, $50 seems reasonable. But I'm not going to haggle over it if the guy holds firm in his hourly. However, such a stance is likely to make me pass on the hire and find someone else.

 

Clients are not ATM machines with unlimited cash. For many, living paycheck to paycheck, they need to save up just to hire for an hour or two.

 

An escort here had responded to that idea, that it wasn't HIS problem if the client was on fixed income, has limited funds, etc. etc. I agree, it is not HIS problem, but it should be his consideration... It certainly feels from the escorts that have replied here, that it is a one-way street in their favor... That's too bad... I am for equality, or at least Fairness....

[jimboivyo]

Clients are not ATM machines with unlimited cash. For many, living paycheck to paycheck, they need to save up just to hire for an hour or two.

 

agree but folks also need to be realistic about their own financial picture. if you have to save for months to afford an hour and are living pay to pay, you might wanna re consider where you put your hard earned bucks

[Golem]

A provider can set their own rates and refuse to adjust them, but a client can also decide what rates they'll accept and refuse to adjust that standard. I don't see the lack of equality there. We aren't talking about a multinational corporation with a monopoly on the means of production charging painfully high prices to people who depend on their product. We're talking about an exchange between two people who are both probably trying to make a living.

 

Is it unfair that people who are fabulously wealthy (and may have done nothing more to deserve their fabulous wealth than those of lesser means) then get better access to providers? Sure, but the problem there is systemic inequality, and it requires a systemic solution. One provider making himself into a charity is pointless so long as the behemoth forces maintaining the unequal system continue to churn.

[jimboivyo]

A provider can set their own rates and refuse to adjust them, but a client can also decide what rates they'll accept and refuse to adjust that standard. I don't see the lack of equality there. We aren't talking about a multinational corporation with a monopoly on the means of production charging painfully high prices to people who depend on their product. We're talking about an exchange between two people who are both probably trying to make a living.

 

Is it unfair that people who are fabulously wealthy (and may have done nothing more to deserve their fabulous wealth than those of lesser means) then get better access to providers? Sure, but the problem there is systemic inequality, and it requires a systemic solution. One provider making himself into a charity is pointless so long as the behemoth forces maintaining the unequal system continue to churn.

 

best response yet

[jjkrkwood]

agree but folks also need to be realistic about their own financial picture. if you have to save for months to afford an hour and are living pay to pay, you might wanna re consider where you put your hard earned bucks

 

Jimbo, that is a narrow-minded answer. As you know when it comes to hiring, guys do all sorts of fucked up shit, from putting up with drunk or stoned escorts showing up, to paying a different person who shows up, to handing money over upfront before any service has been rendered, etc... They think with their little head and not their big one. So they will most likely spend their minimal dollars on cock and ass instead of a meal or possibly rent. Yes, that's THEIR problem, but a GOOD escort will take all of that into consideration and not simply think of their OWN pocketbook, or giant egos.

[jjkrkwood]

OK, OK, I give in..... I sure wont Haggle over the price of THIS.......

 

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YUP, I am Busted... I am incredibly SHALLOW

[mike carey]

OK, OK, I give in..... I sure wont Haggle over the price of THIS.......

 

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I wouldn't haggle either!

[JDXXX]

OK, OK, I give in..... I sure wont Haggle over the price of THIS.......

 

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YUP, I am Busted... I am incredibly SHALLOW

 

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I wouldn't haggle either!

 

I don't think too many people would pass or haggle with these men. Be crazy to. ;)

[mike carey]

I don't think too many people would pass or haggle with these men. Be crazy to

Indeed, JD, so hot!

[JDXXX]

Indeed, JD, so hot!

 

I second to motion on that, Mike that no man haggle over these hot men we have presented here in front of the forum jury.

 

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[jjkrkwood]

And let me be Perfectly Clear.... I'm not just about a Perfect body... I have other interests which would prevent me from Haggling....

 

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[bigvalboy]

And let me be Perfectly Clear.... I'm not just about a Perfect body... I have other interests which would prevent me from Haggling....

 

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[LADoug1]

From Experience I have found my Most Odd/Difficult Encounters have ALWAYS been with those who have asked for me to lower my rate. Which I always found Odd as You're already doing them a Favor.

 

I'm not sure what the above means. Are you saying an escort is doing the client a favor merely by being with him even though he is being paid? I'd hate to think that even if I paid an escort (and didn't try and haggle) that they still think they are doing me a favor.

[jjkrkwood]

I'm not sure what the above means. Are you saying an escort is doing the client a favor merely by being with him even though he is being paid? I'd hate to think that even if I paid an escort (and didn't try and haggle) that they still think they are doing me a favor.

 

 

LAD1, that was exactly the main issue I had with this whole thread: the escorts attitude. Its seems that the ones who responded feel some sort of entitlement or superiority over the men

that are attempting to hire them. I dont get that. They aint doin ME no favor by taking my $300 to stick their dick in my mouth... (My teeth cost over $20k, so I am doin THEM the favor :D )

[jjkrkwood]

?

 

 

I'm not going to feed Into Your Negativity. Everything about You is Negative. Also mentioning You are Paying people for Sex...Is Illegal. Good Day sir.

 

Who mentioned SEX ? That's MY hobby... Hobbies cost money.... And YOU Sir are the negative one with the bad attitude and your constant Superiority shit. Hold up a fucking mirror !

 

I am not sure how many clients you hoped to gain from your "performance" in this thread, but if I were you, I'd put THAT plan to bed.......

[+ Keith30309]

It seems everyone has their own comfort level with this topic, which is perfectly fine. I'm in "if you can't afford it then don't ask" camp.

 

There's someone new visiting now I'd like to see who's stated rate is $300. I always hire for 2+ hours and $600 is too much to risk on an unknown wildcard. I'm not comfortable sending a note asking for a reduced rate because it creates a negative vibe that would remain in the back of my mind if we were to meet. So, unfortunately, he'll move on and the opportunity disappears.

[actor61]

This is why I strongly prefer that rates be shown on the escort's page. I can decide if I can afford it or not with no haggling or embarrassment to any one. When the ad says, "Ask" under rates, I don't usually proceed, because it gives me that "If you have to ask the price you can't afford it" vibe, like in a restaurant where the menu doesn't show prices.

I agree with you 100%.