Requesting to prepare for bottoming

[Juan Vancouver]

Depending on how comfortable he sounds on the phone I might ask directly or not.

 

The vaguest way I will use, if he sounds terribly skittish about talking openly is something like: I am asking what you enjoy to do to make sure that we are compatible and we can have a great time, but also because there are certain activities for which I have to prepare in advance.

 

Normally by then, they often get it and respond. If he still doesn't get it, I will add: For example, if you like to top, I would need to get ready for that.

 

I would hate to not be ready just because someone is not comfortable to discuss things openly. I understand some people might be very uncomfortable talking about this, and others might think not talking sex might be an important way to protect themselves legally, but there are things that should not be left to chance.

 

I imagine some might do things differently.

 

Most important message, however, is: when dealing with other people, never ever assume anything.

[Okliehomo]

"4 out of 5 clients have issues being tidy"? Man. Those are some shitty odds, for sure.

[jimboivyo]

"4 out of 5 clients have issues being tidy"? Man. Those are some shitty odds, for sure.

 

ba dum ting!

[mattr]

"4 out of 5 clients have issues being tidy"? Man. Those are some shitty odds, for sure.

 

Caused by lack of knowledge, lack of caring/respect for their partner, or they are really into that?

[+ Eric Hassan]

Assume absolutely nothing unless you want to take the risk of being disappointed.

 

I am versatile and while setting up an appointment I ask what my partner likes to do. I will not prepare for anal unless he clearly says he enjoys it.

 

I ask. A couple times.

 

If you want to be sure it is going to be clean, ask directly.

 

+1

 

I don't want to prepare unnecessarily, so I ask as well. If I'm going to clean it, I want it to get used!

[jjkrkwood]

As long as I got a napkin, I'm prepared !

 

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[jjkrkwood]

And I also appreciate when my escort is Prepared...

 

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[jjkrkwood]

You can always judge by "body language". I would say this guy is READY to bottom ?

 

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[LADoug1]

Shit happens and its not a big deal but what seems to escape people is that it is a boner killer. It is your responsibility as a bottom to clean your butt out and its perfectly acceptable to say something like, "my gi track just isn't cooperating can we meet another day?" rather than shit all over the sheets and ruin them. If its minor I will keep going but more often than not its not minor. When you go do a touch up in the bathroom make sure to check your butt cheeks and the back of your legs because there may be stuff on them and that doesn't turn your escort on (well I know a few escorts but thats a whole different thread). When you present your butt make sure its squeaky clean because if you expect your escort to enjoy themselves and stay hard you will do your part as a bottom. If you don't know how to clean out ask your escort before you meet them and they will be happy to explain how things work.

 

Also if your going to clean out at your escorts place DO NOT RUSH!!! I have many clients who want to get as much time with me as they can so they rush their time in the bathroom and by doing so they trap water high up in their gi track and it comes out as your playing 9 times out of 10 and its not clear water.

 

I would say 4 out of 5 clients have issues being tidy so please if your going to play do your due diligence as a bottom before you show up.

 

I've also heard that it's best to clean out about an hour or so before the action begins. Let's some of the extra moisture in your ass be absorbed.

[jjkrkwood]

Shit happens and its not a big deal but what seems to escape people is that it is a boner killer. It is your responsibility as a bottom to clean your butt out and its perfectly acceptable to say something like, "my gi track just isn't cooperating can we meet another day?" rather than shit all over the sheets and ruin them. If its minor I will keep going but more often than not its not minor. When you go do a touch up in the bathroom make sure to check your butt cheeks and the back of your legs because there may be stuff on them and that doesn't turn your escort on (well I know a few escorts but thats a whole different thread). When you present your butt make sure its squeaky clean because if you expect your escort to enjoy themselves and stay hard you will do your part as a bottom. If you don't know how to clean out ask your escort before you meet them and they will be happy to explain how things work.

 

Also if your going to clean out at your escorts place DO NOT RUSH!!! I have many clients who want to get as much time with me as they can so they rush their time in the bathroom and by doing so they trap water high up in their gi track and it comes out as your playing 9 times out of 10 and its not clear water.

 

I would say 4 out of 5 clients have issues being tidy so please if your going to play do your due diligence as a bottom before you show up.

 

 

Now I remember why I don't ever Bottom: it's not worth my time or Anxiety, and I'm really not a "brown" person.....

[ChrisWydeman]

I've also heard that it's best to clean out about an hour or so before the action begins. Let's some of the extra moisture in your ass be absorbed.

Take some Imodium after you clean out to help absorb excess water in your gi track.

 

Please don't poop on your top accidentally

[AdamSmith]

Please don't poop on your top accidentally

Do it deliberately!

 

JK