Guys, what is your take on setting alarms?

[TruHart1]

I always check to see where the hotel clock is, just to keep tabs. In Dallas, I have a big clock out next to the bed so both the escort and I can see it for my incalls. The irony is, with the escorts I see on a regular basis, they are such non-clock watchers (with only a few exceptions) that twenty minutes or even a half hour over or so never seems to bother them in the least!

 

TruHart1

[Maximus69]

I always check to see where the hotel clock is, just to keep tabs. In Dallas, I have a big clock out next to the bed so both the escort and I can see it for my incalls. The irony is, with the escorts I see on a regular basis, they are such non-clock watchers (with only a few exceptions) that twenty minutes or even a half hour over or so never seems to bother them in the least!

 

TruHart1

 

Hmm you have your BIG COCK out? Oh.... nvm i got too excited and must have misread, off to bed now

[Becket]

The compliment escorts most often receive around here is, "he's not a clock watcher." It makes a client feel a little more special when the escort spends a little extra time with him. I think the idea of an alarm is not so hot. As for me, hearing an alarm at the end of a visit would ensure that our visit would be a first and only visit. Going a bit over time now and again seems to just be one of those realities of the business. And I bet that it is often the case that an "hour" appointment actually lasts well short of an hour. Some of us don't last more than ten or fifteen minutes with you guys. lol. In the end it probably evens itself out. Being "anal" about the clock will not be a profitable business model ultimately, IMO.

[MikeyGMin]

And I bet that it is often the case that an "hour" appointment actually lasts well short of an hour. Some of us don't last more than ten or fifteen minutes with you guys. lol. In the end it probably evens itself out.

 

I agree. I have always hated hotel incalls but recently did one just to see if I had the same stress about not overstaying the time. Sure enough, was in and out in under 45 minutes. I'm not about to hang around and make small talk when the escort is clearly signaling the deed is done and our time is over.

[mike carey]

I'm not about to hang around and make small talk when the escort is clearly signaling the deed is done and our time is over.

I have this thing that if I hire for an hour that means [at least] 60 minutes, not just till one of us comes. If it goes over time agreement and tips all come into things. (My general view is that the escort is in charge of making sure that times are kept.) I have been short-changed in the past and have said nothing but that's a separate issue. How that is worked out is between the two participants.

[+ quoththeraven]

The website of an escort in New York I was checking out, who either seems to have disappeared from the reviews or whose name I don't remember correctly, stated that ensuring that the parties did not exceed the time allotted was the client's responsibility and it was therefore incumbent on the client to be prepared to pay for another hour if the appointment went long (apparently by any amount). That was an immediate turnoff and I stopped considering him.

 

I want to forget everyday cares, including clock watching, and be transported to another realm. It seems to me that the escort both has more experience with gauging how much time has passed and in setting the parameters of the experience. As others have said, "not a clock watcher" or "generous with his time" are compliments. For him, it's a business; for me, it's recreation. I think that alone answers the question of who's responsible for timekeeping.

 

Also, if I hired for an hour, I would not expect the appointment to end short of an hour, and if it did, I would feel deprived, offended, and disinclined to hire that escort again.

 

The shortest appointment some escorts offer is longer than an hour (90 minutes or 2 hours). Or the rate for the first hour can be set in the expectation that most such appointments will actually last an hour and fifteen minutes or so. On the other hand, an openly displayed concern over not exceeding time limits is not likely to be well-received by most clients.

[Rod Hagen]

An alarm. Kidding? if the alarm in your internal clock goes off and you have somewhere to be, excuse yourself and on the way to the bathroom scan the clock you clocked earlier. also, yes, innocuous quiet background spa music would also work if you are at your place.

[sincitymix]

first escort I ever hired, I was so concerned about going over the time, I kept glancing at his clock. he slapped me on the ass and said stop looking at the clock. you paid for 2 hours, if we go over the time, you only pay for the 2 hours, ill let you know when we are done. we exceeded the 2 hours

[instudiocity]

It gets down to what the meaning of an hour is:

a. An exact 60 minutes from door-to-door.

b. Approximately 60 minutes give or take a few

c. A short session running 45-75 minutes

d. Until the client cums.

[LADoug1]

I guess I'm lucky. Other than 1 escort(*) who had an enormous clock on the wall facing the bed (nothing subtle about that lol), the escorts I've been with have had enough experience to guide me through a session and at the same time internally know how much time had elapsed. And this included time to shower/clean up afterwards. And if I ever expressed concern about time during a meeting I was ALWAYS told not to even think about it.

 

But if I were faced with the situation of having gone over more than 15 minutes I might consider a tip but not like being asked for one. Ultimately I think it is the escort's responsibility to manage the time. It's a skill acquired with experience and it should not require behavior obvious to the client.

 

(*) Adding later: The escort with the big clock (cock?) was quite generous with his time and when I saw we were going over and said something he very reassuringly told me not to worry about it. Mixed messages there but I appreciated his attitude. And I did tip him.

 

I also want to add that I for one do make an effort to keep track of time. I think this makes it easier on the escort. I always want to make things easy and as pleasant as possible for the escort.

[mattr]

It gets down to what the meaning of an hour is:

a. An exact 60 minutes from door-to-door.

b. Approximately 60 minutes give or take a few

c. A short session running 45-75 minutes

d. Until the client cums.

 

An hour is 60 minutes starting when the door opens and ending when it closes. 45 minutes is not an hour and the last time I checked expulsion of bodily fluids had no impact on the time. If an escort is generous with his time, a client could be generous with his money.

[+ Funguy]

I see a few guys who routinely go over the two hours I schedule, not by minutes BUT BY HOURS (!) when we really are into it. They also refuse to charge more than my two hours scheduled so I am prepared, routinely with these guys, to give them a tip which amounts to the overtime we had. It is never requested and always appreciated. Whenever I plan to see them, in my head I add the extra time to my schedule.

 

Again, simply treat our guys like human beings and give them respect.

[Kevin Slater]

...the last time I checked expulsion of bodily fluids had no impact on the time.

 

The same cannot be said about the converse, however.

 

Kevin Slater

[TruHart1]

I always check to see where the hotel clock is, just to keep tabs. In Dallas, I have a big clock out next to the bed so both the escort and I can see it for my incalls. The irony is, with the escorts I see on a regular basis, they are such non-clock watchers (with only a few exceptions) that twenty minutes or even a half hour over or so never seems to bother them in the least!

 

TruHart1

 

Hmm you have your BIG COCK out? Oh.... nvm i got too excited and must have misread, off to bed now

LOL, Dom, maybe you need contacts to help you read?

 

I have this thing that if I hire for an hour that means [at least] 60 minutes, not just till one of us comes. If it goes over time agreement and tips all come into things. (My general view is that the escort is in charge of making sure that times are kept.) I have been short-changed in the past and have said nothing but that's a separate issue. How that is worked out is between the two participants.

I did have one experience with a well reviewed escort in NYC, a two hour in-call at his place. I arrived at his building at our appointment time and called to tell him I was downstairs. Imagine my surprise when he answered his phone right across the lobby from me. Excuse: he was out with friends longer than he expected! OK, no problem. We go up to his place. He goes into his bathroom for 7 to 10 minutes to "clean up!" Then we talk a bit to break the ice, he has a fascinating life story. After 40 minutes or so I start touching, caressing, kissing and we get our clothes off. After a bit of oral, I express an interest in rimming him. He says, "I didn't have time to douche and clean there so if you want that, you'll need to excuse me for 10 or 15 minutes." Everything is fine about his butt, so I agree to wait while he goes into his bathroom to clean up.

 

He comes out after a while and we resume, doing what I requested and then he bottoms for me. Lying in bed, since I have not "finished" yet, he says, "How do you want me to help you, I need to give you your five minute warning." I have to say, I was perturbed by this. I've never met a clock watcher before or since like him, rushing to meet me at the appointed time, unprepared, spending 20 minutes or more cleaning up during our two hour session, and then holding me to the exact two hours, even though he was the one who was not prepared. Although this escort is quite a turn on, with a smoking body, beautiful uncut endowment and handsome face, and very hot in bed (when he's there!) my perception of his non-professional behavior for this appointment made me, 1) not give him a tip (I had one in my billfold!) and 2) convinced me to never hire him again. He continues to get good reviews, though. Maybe it was just not a good day for him?!!

 

TruHart1

[+ Keith30309]

He goes into his bathroom for 7 to 10 minutes to "clean up!"

After 40 minutes or so I start touching, caressing, kissing and we get our clothes off.

you'll need to excuse me for 10 or 15 minutes

I need to give you your five minute warning

TruHart1

 

It sounds like this guy needs a chess timer... My turn...Your turn....My turn...your turn...

[Rod Hagen]

I guess I'm lucky. Other than 1 escort who had an enormous clock on the wall facing the bed (nothing subtle about that lol), .

 

Holy shit that's me! But it's there because without it I'd be late every morning not because I'm counting the minutes.

[+ Truereview]

Holy shit that's me! But it's there because without it I'd be late every morning not because I'm counting the minutes.

Oh, come on, it is not that enormous of a clock...

 

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Kevin Slater

 

"This is how long you have to cum my pretty, and it isn't long!"

[Becket]

first escort I ever hired, I was so concerned about going over the time, I kept glancing at his clock. he slapped me on the ass and said stop looking at the clock. you paid for 2 hours, if we go over the time, you only pay for the 2 hours, ill let you know when we are done. we exceeded the 2 hours

 

I think I would have liked this escort.

[+ Funguy]

Holy shit that's me! But it's there because without it I'd be late every morning not because I'm counting the minutes.

Thought that might be you! LOL!

[Nathan_L]

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[+ poolboy48220]

When the escort's at my place, I know where my bedroom alarm clock is and I try to keep track of the time. Subtly I hope. I don't want to cheat them, and honestly, there's a bit of the though of "I can't afford to pay more", and don't even want that conversation if we do go over.

 

If it's at their place, I think more of the burden is on them.

[javo]

sounds alarming