Why do escorts on RM . . .

[borgerback]

put 'bondage' in their 'preferences' and then NOT do bondage?

 

I know, I know - we've discussed it before - they just mark everything when they sign up. Arg. Oh well; at least they are polite enough to let me know it's not part of their thing when they email me back. Just a brief rant. Thanks for putting up with it!!

[whipped guy]

Well, at least he came clean with you before hooking up. About ten years ago a guy in NYC advertised bondage on his Rentboy profile.

 

He scheduled an appointment with a client for such a scene and then sent me a desperate email asking where he would be able to buy some rope in NYC!!!!!!

 

What was I to say!? At that time I don't think that there was a Home Depot in the City. However, I suggested that or a hardware store.

 

I kid you not. So I guess things have not changed much! I have always wondered how the session went. I doubt very well!

[Brian Kevin]

put 'bondage' in their 'preferences' and then NOT do bondage?

 

I know, I know - we've discussed it before - they just mark everything when they sign up. Arg. Oh well; at least they are polite enough to let me know it's not part of their thing when they email me back. Just a brief rant. Thanks for putting up with it!!

 

 

Maybe they're shy or intimidated by you or the thought of actually doing bondage. I think you should find someone with a little background in it, maybe someone on the forum. "Search" 'Bondage' and see if there are any guys who really pop out on the forum. Lots of the guys do lots of traveling-- most of them don't, due to many reasons/excuses. I bet someone is coming through your neck of the woods some time soon. I say, do not give up searching to have your fantasy fulfilled. You always have to dig deep to find the good apples that are not sour and rotten.

 

In closing, even though I had nothing personally to do with these sessions, I'd like to extend a sincere apology for those escorts' work ethic. Not all of us are bad like that. I get off on ful-filling fantasies. Also discussed in a previous thread was my knot tying abilities. In my personal experience, I like to be the dominate one, and I like the sub to fight back a little-- nothing violent or crazy rough, but I to lasso me a bull every so often

 

Good luck my friend and may the BDSM god forever be in your favor.