No show escort has my personal information...

[Mikegaite]

. The problem I have now is that I think it only fair to warn others of my experience

 

I still can't believe that with all the incredible collective wisdom on here that we can't come up with a way to tackle this problem. To the best of my knowledge, there is no system in place to identify scammers or bad escorts. If an escort screws you over, there's basically no way to warn others about it. The industry should not operate this way. We have blacklisted Johns on the escort side. Why can't clients build the same list?

[YoungAD]

I recently reached out to a well reviewed/known escort in my area. When booking an appointment with him he seemed hesitant as to whether I was legit or not. Given his status in the community I had no problem paying for two hours in advance. Big mistake, he was a no show. I gave him a second chance and he was a no show again. After I originally paid him, he sent me his face pic which he does not post with his ads, and it is obviously his body attached to it, so I was confident that he was sincere. He has had the same body pics in his ads for five years, so I have no doubt it is him. The problem I have now is that I think it only fair to warn others of my experience, but since I texted the escort he now has my cell number which if he googled he would know where I work etc. Any suggestions on how I could warn others? I did text him after the second no show and asked for a refund. He has not replied.

 

There is a significant amount of information that has been left out of the OP's original post. Why did the escort cancel, both times? What sort of discussion did you have about getting your money back? In my experience "well-known" escorts with reputations do not suddenly cancel once, let alone twice while keeping a potential client's money. This has all the makings of one of those types of posts where poor client gets the forum all in an uproar over something that probably did not happen. Please post some further details.

[ddrjdc]

There is a significant amount of information that has been left out of the OP's original post. Why did the escort cancel, both times? What sort of discussion did you have about getting your money back? In my experience "well-known" escorts with reputations do not suddenly cancel once, let alone twice while keeping a potential client's money. This has all the makings of one of those types of posts where poor client gets the forum all in an uproar over something that probably did not happen. Please post some further details.

He did not cancel, as my post indicates, he simply did not bother to show. He was apologetic after the first no show indicating he had fallen asleep and did not wake up until 2:00 am. After the second no show I texted him and just said that this obviously was not working out and could I please just get a refund as I was not interested in booking another time. Never heard back from the escort. I have not referred to myself as "The poor client" in any manner, and I don't think anyone in the forum is in an "uproar", I came to ask for an opinion and nothing more. Not sure why you would doubt my intentions, but I guess that is your right to do so.

[YoungAD]

He did not cancel, as my post indicates, he simply did not bother to show. He was apologetic after the first no show indicating he had fallen asleep and did not wake up until 2:00 am. After the second no show I texted him and just said that this obviously was not working out and could I please just get a refund as I was not interested in booking another time. Never heard back from the escort. I have not referred to myself as "The poor client" in any manner, and I don't think anyone in the forum is in an "uproar", I came to ask for an opinion and nothing more. Not sure why you would doubt my intentions, but I guess that is your right to do so.

 

Yes, it is my right to do so and no, I do not believe your story.

[jjkrkwood]

There is a significant amount of information that has been left out of the OP's original post. Why did the escort cancel, both times? What sort of discussion did you have about getting your money back? In my experience "well-known" escorts with reputations do not suddenly cancel once, let alone twice while keeping a potential client's money. This has all the makings of one of those types of posts where poor client gets the forum all in an uproar over something that probably did not happen. Please post some further details.

 

 

 

I always love reading good FICTION.... So many layers....

[LADoug1]

He did not cancel, as my post indicates, he simply did not bother to show. He was apologetic after the first no show indicating he had fallen asleep and did not wake up until 2:00 am. After the second no show I texted him and just said that this obviously was not working out and could I please just get a refund as I was not interested in booking another time. Never heard back from the escort. I have not referred to myself as "The poor client" in any manner, and I don't think anyone in the forum is in an "uproar", I came to ask for an opinion and nothing more. Not sure why you would doubt my intentions, but I guess that is your right to do so.

 

I'm not sure why some posters don't believe you either. Maybe I'm just too new to the forum.

[jjkrkwood]

I'm not sure why some posters don't believe you either. Maybe I'm just too new to the forum.

 

When I read stuff online, I neither Believe or dis-believe. My comment had nothing to do personally with the OP. I don't know ANY of these people. I view everything as entertainment.

 

It is the Internet after all !

 

but I will never understand why people always feel so compelled to pay UPFRONT ! My God, is it a Cock you just cant live without ? When people say they feel sorry for an individual that was scammed because he made a Bad decision, I just cant find compassion, because the payment thing just seemed so unnecessary.

[+ Eric Hassan]

I recently reached out to a well reviewed/known escort in my area. When booking an appointment with him he seemed hesitant as to whether I was legit or not. Given his status in the community I had no problem paying for two hours in advance. Big mistake, he was a no show. I gave him a second chance and he was a no show again. After I originally paid him, he sent me his face pic which he does not post with his ads, and it is obviously his body attached to it, so I was confident that he was sincere. He has had the same body pics in his ads for five years, so I have no doubt it is him. The problem I have now is that I think it only fair to warn others of my experience, but since I texted the escort he now has my cell number which if he googled he would know where I work etc. Any suggestions on how I could warn others? I did text him after the second no show and asked for a refund. He has not replied.

 

I can't think of a good reason to pre-pay an escort. I don't care about his status, esteem, reviews, schedule - it's a big red flag. If he were seriously concerned about your legitimacy (which I read here as "ability to pay") then he could have asked you to have the money prepared upon his arrival. That said, you say you paid and he didn't show. Why would you possibly pay AGAIN? He has your money and owes you time or a refund. Unless you mailed cash to him, you have a means to process a refund yourself. None of this adds up. If, however, this went down how you said it went down you have hopefully learned your lesson and the thing you might want to warn people about it to not make bad choices twice.

[LADoug1]

I can't think of a good reason to pre-pay an escort. I don't care about his status, esteem, reviews, schedule - it's a big red flag. If he were seriously concerned about your legitimacy (which I read here as "ability to pay") then he could have asked you to have the money prepared upon his arrival. That said, you say you paid and he didn't show. Why would you possibly pay AGAIN? He has your money and owes you time or a refund. Unless you mailed cash to him, you have a means to process a refund yourself. None of this adds up. If, however, this went down how you said it went down you have hopefully learned your lesson and the thing you might want to warn people about it to not make bad choices twice.

 

I agree with you with the exception of what @Juan Vancouver has said in other posts. He says that if a CLIENT cancels or is a no show Juan may ask for a deposit up front if the client wants to re-book. I can see his point.

[Frequentflier]

To the original poster. Since the guy has information he can use to find out your real name, where you work, etc. I suggest you not risk him doing anything with it like outing you. Hopefully you aren't out much money. Everyone gets enthusiastic about meeting a guy they find attractive but when requests for up front money occur, take a cold shower.

 

This is another example of why people shouldn't pay up front, why they should have a phone number that's not identifiable with their real name and same for email. Unless you are comfortable, like some men are, with their hobby getting out. Some people will buy round trip airfare for someone and while that's a risk I think less so as there isn't anything to gain by someone not showing up (they don't a refund of your money from the airline) and they have to give you their real name and date of birth.

[ddrjdc]

I can't think of a good reason to pre-pay an escort. I don't care about his status, esteem, reviews, schedule - it's a big red flag. If he were seriously concerned about your legitimacy (which I read here as "ability to pay") then he could have asked you to have the money prepared upon his arrival. That said, you say you paid and he didn't show. Why would you possibly pay AGAIN? He has your money and owes you time or a refund. Unless you mailed cash to him, you have a means to process a refund yourself. None of this adds up. If, however, this went down how you said it went down you have hopefully learned your lesson and the thing you might want to warn people about it to not make bad choices twice.

Eric - I didn't pay again. The escort wanted a chance to make up the appointment and then didn't show... again. No, I did not pay twice.

[YoungAD]

This is another example of why people shouldn't pay up front, why they should have a phone number that's not identifiable with their real name and same for email. Unless you are comfortable, like some men are, with their hobby getting out. Some people will buy round trip airfare for someone and while that's a risk I think less so as there isn't anything to gain by someone not showing up (they don't a refund of your money from the airline) and they have to give you their real name and date of birth.

 

It is nothing of the sort. There are exchanges between clients and escorts all the time that involve a nominal fee being paid to hold the time, all the way up to pre-paying for the entire trip. The escorts I have met have all been in the business of making money and the ones with established reputations will engage in behavior to keep them intact. I find it hard to believe an escort as described by the OP would just keep his money without provocation, and without a name or a better explanation of what was said between the two parties, his coming to the forum "to warn people" is just another useless thread. OP, did you specifically tell the escort that you would go to the forum and inform everyone of his untrustworthy behavior? If so, what was the response, if any?

[+ Eric Hassan]

Eric - I didn't pay again. The escort wanted a chance to make up the appointment and then didn't show... again. No, I did not pay twice.

 

My apologies - I misread. I hope you get your money back. And i hope that this doesn't happen to anyone else.

[MikeyGMin]

It is nothing of the sort. There are exchanges between clients and escorts all the time that involve a nominal fee being paid to hold the time, all the way up to pre-paying for the entire trip. The escorts I have met have all been in the business of making money and the ones with established reputations will engage in behavior to keep them intact. I find it hard to believe an escort as described by the OP would just keep his money without provocation, and without a name or a better explanation of what was said between the two parties, his coming to the forum "to warn people" is just another useless thread. OP, did you specifically tell the escort that you would go to the forum and inform everyone of his untrustworthy behavior? If so, what was the response, if any?

 

Not sure where the hostility or certainty that this is a hoax post comes from. I suppose it's possible the OP just wants to throw some gas on the forum fire, but for what reason? Just to start a thread? There have been no names mentioned, no real drama -- except you calling him a liar and he didn't really jump at that bait -- so I'm left wondering what the point of a fabrication would be.

 

Yes, it is unusual for an escort with an established reputation to suddenly go south like this, but people do change. I've witnessed a very sweet, reliable escort morph into someone completely different due to drug use that got out of control. A number of things in the escort's personal life could have changed that would change his behavior.

 

That said, there are always three sides to every disagreement. The money is almost certainly gone, and unless the OP wants to go public with the name, it won't amount to much of anything.

[YoungAD]

Not sure where the hostility or certainty that this is a hoax post comes from. I suppose it's possible the OP just wants to throw some gas on the forum fire, but for what reason? Just to start a thread? There have been no names mentioned, no real drama -- except you calling him a liar and he didn't really jump at that bait -- so I'm left wondering what the point of a fabrication would be.

 

Yes, it is unusual for an escort with an established reputation to suddenly go south like this, but people do change. I've witnessed a very sweet, reliable escort morph into someone completely different due to drug use that got out of control. A number of things in the escort's personal life could have changed that would change his behavior.

 

That said, there are always three sides to every disagreement. The money is almost certainly gone, and unless the OP wants to go public with the name, it won't amount to much of anything.

 

I did not say this was a hoax. I did not say the OP was a liar. I said I did not believe the OP's story because the OP has left out a significant amount of details that would help to clarify the behavior of the escort.

[MikeyGMin]

I did not say this was a hoax. I did not say the OP was a liar. I said I did not believe the OP's story because the OP has left out a significant amount of details that would help to clarify the behavior of the escort.

 

I'll keep that in mind if someone ever says they do not believe me. They are not calling me a liar. They may just be saying I have provided insufficient detail for them to believe I am telling the truth. I'm sure it will make me feel much better.

[YoungAD]

I'll keep that in mind if someone ever says they do not believe me. They are not calling me a liar. They may just be saying I have provided insufficient detail for them to believe I am telling the truth. I'm sure it will make me feel much better.

 

Do whatever you find necessary.

 

Meanwhile, if the OP wants to provide further information about this escort, it would probably make his post much more helpful to the community at large than yet another escort-done-me-wrong thread that can neither be proven nor disproven. After all, he came to educate about a particular escort did he not? There have been numerous, numerous threads about payment in advance with arguments from both sides. There have been numerous threads about untrustworthy escorts and clients alike. Without a name, or further details I will maintain that this thread adds little value to already-established discussions. Would you disagree?

[MikeyGMin]

Without a name, or further details I will maintain that this thread adds little value to already-established discussions. Would you disagree?

 

Actually, I would. You and I might not have gotten much out of it (besides this disagreement) but I did not bother to PM the OP. Did you? We don't know what information he was comfortable providing in a more private way. I didn't bother to PM him because I have a very good arrangement at the moment and I'm not seeking anyone new. I would wager that some of the members who travel a lot and hire in many locations sent him a PM to get a name and location.

 

We have no idea who was helped by this gentleman's post seeking guidance on the best way to spread the word without possible retribution. We have no idea how much it did or did not help the OP. He could be a complete newbie and never thought about phone numbers and hobby specific email addresses. (I'm pretty loose with my information, but even I make sure that my cell phone number can't lead directly to my employer.)

 

I know all of this assumes that he is not some bored drama queen with time on his hands, but I didn't get that impression from his original post. You obviously did. I doubt either of us will ever know if we are right or not.

[Maximus69]

Do whatever you find necessary.

 

Meanwhile, if the OP wants to provide further information about this escort, it would probably make his post much more helpful to the community at large than yet another escort-done-me-wrong thread that can neither be proven nor disproven. After all, he came to educate about a particular escort did he not? There have been numerous, numerous threads about payment in advance with arguments from both sides. There have been numerous threads about untrustworthy escorts and clients alike. Without a name, or further details I will maintain that this thread adds little value to already-established discussions. Would you disagree?

 

Maybe the client is fearful if he says a name on here or writes a review that the escort would be spiteful and since he knows where he works/lives he could cause some trouble. But then again why would a well known escort flat out take someones money without meeting knowing it can harm his reputation. So I see it from both sides, wish it all gets resolved.

[Nvr2Thick]

I'm not sure why some posters don't believe you either. Maybe I'm just too new to the forum.

 

As is the case with most of social media, sometimes people take an opposing point of view for sport or as a form of amusement.

[down_to_business]

I'm not sure why some posters don't believe you either. Maybe I'm just too new to the forum.

 

It's mainly one sockpuppet who has a history of being a nasty internet troll on these forums. Read his posts for yourself.

[Jock123]

Wow. This convo went left real Fast. I'm so sorry this Happened to you:(

[marylander1940]

I recently reached out to a well reviewed/known escort in my area. When booking an appointment with him he seemed hesitant as to whether I was legit or not. Given his status in the community I had no problem paying for two hours in advance. Big mistake, he was a no show. I gave him a second chance and he was a no show again. After I originally paid him, he sent me his face pic which he does not post with his ads, and it is obviously his body attached to it, so I was confident that he was sincere. He has had the same body pics in his ads for five years, so I have no doubt it is him. The problem I have now is that I think it only fair to warn others of my experience, but since I texted the escort he now has my cell number which if he googled he would know where I work etc. Any suggestions on how I could warn others? I did text him after the second no show and asked for a refund. He has not replied.

 

Write a review, warn everybody about him!

 

[mike carey]

Write a review, warn everybody about him!

Nice in theory, but Daddy's rules are you can only review a meeting. If if didn''t happen you can't review it.

[+ WmClarke]

Nice in theory, but Daddy's rules are you can only review a meeting. If if didn''t happen you can't review it.

But the FAQ does state that if an escort no shows and you pre-paid, you should email Daddy directly.

 

I assume that part of the reason is that Daddy will know of any consistent pattern.