Do you ever go to an outcall without lube?

[+ bashful]

Reason I ask, is I was out of town recently, and an escort I met with once before was also visiting. I texted, and we made an appointment for the next day. From our previous meeting, he knew I'm inexperienced and very vanilla. And, in the interest of full disclosure, there was no discussion when setting up this recent meeting of my wanting any activity beyond our previous experience (i.e. no anal). During our encounter, things progressed wonderfully, and being caught up in the moment, I asked if it was too late to ask if he could bottom (he advertises as versatile). I fully expected him to say he had not prepared for it, but his response was he "didn't bring any lube". Just curious, if ever I'm out of town and hire for an outcall, should I pack, or go out and purchase lube before the meeting.

[+ Truereview]

I have come across a couple who did not have lube but also had no condoms! At first, I thought it was a smart ploy to just "not go there" but upon further reflection, these guys were pretty new to the profession. Since you never know who you might "meet" while on the road, I always bring an intimacy kit. Highly recommend it. One of my favorite hotel chains also provides those kits- though I wonder how old those are.

 

Ive learned to always say in my final logistics texts "please bring supplies." Hasn't failed & no escort has minded.

[+ bashful]

I have come across a couple who did not have lube but also had no condoms! At first, I thought it was a smart ploy to just "not go there" but upon further reflection, these guys were pretty new to the profession. Since you never know who you might "meet" while on the road, I always bring an intimacy kit. Highly recommend it. One of my favorite hotel chains also provides those kits- though I wonder how old those are.

 

Ive learned to always say in my final logistics texts "please bring supplies." Hasn't failed & no escort has minded.

 

Thanks. I learn more and more from all of you.

[ChrisWydeman]

Reason I ask, is I was out of town recently, and an escort I met with once before was also visiting. I texted, and we made an appointment for the next day. From our previous meeting, he knew I'm inexperienced and very vanilla. And, in the interest of full disclosure, there was no discussion when setting up this recent meeting of my wanting any activity beyond our previous experience (i.e. no anal). During our encounter, things progressed wonderfully, and being caught up in the moment, I asked if it was too late to ask if he could bottom (he advertises as versatile). I fully expected him to say he had not prepared for it, but his response was he "didn't bring any lube". Just curious, if ever I'm out of town and hire for an outcall, should I pack, or go out and purchase lube before the meeting.

If your looking for fun why wouldn't you bring your own lube or go to a drug store an buy some? You can travel with anything under 3.4 oz and most lube companies make something thats less than 100ML

[down_to_business]

I have come across a couple who did not have lube but also had no condoms! At first, I thought it was a smart ploy to just "not go there"...

 

 

Ding Ding Ding!!! Give the man a prize.

 

It's also used as a ploy to extend the appointment spending another hour going to the store to buy supplies.

[jackjackjack]

Spit

[ChrisWydeman]

Ding Ding Ding!!! Give the man a prize.

 

It's also used as a ploy to extend the appointment spending another hour going to the store to buy supplies.

Crazy idea... maybe your accountable for YOUR sexual experiences and should come prepared and not rely on someone else to make sure your safe or have the necessary supplies?

 

Am I the only one that was a boy scout and learned the cardinal rule of always be prepared?

[+ Travis69]

Keep in mind the married man who may not want to have it in his pocket or suitcase for fear the wife will find out. He could stop by the drugstore before every hookup but that's a pain.

[YoungAD]

It's also used as a ploy to extend the appointment spending another hour going to the store to buy supplies.

 

According to who, you? You seem to have an astounding number of bad experiences.

[sincitymix]

Keep in mind the married man who may not want to have it in his pocket or suitcase for fear the wife will find out. He could stop by the drugstore before every hookup but that's a pain.

well considering I have no idea if the escort misrepresented his size, the condom I have might not fit the escort properly.. or he could be allergic to a particular lube.. so I rely on the escort to have the products

[+ bashful]

Just to add a bit of clarity. None of my previous experiences with escorts involved anal, but all, at some point used lube for contact. That's why his response surprised me so much, and prompted my question. I have no problem, and fully respect, that he didn't want to go there then as it was such an last minute request.

[seaboy4hire]

When I used to work I rarely ever left home or my hotel without my backpack which contained lube, condoms and a douche kit. I was never a boy scout but I did like to be as prepared as possible.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[down_to_business]

According to who, you? You seem to have an astounding number of bad experiences.

According to who, you?

[down_to_business]

Crazy idea... maybe your accountable for YOUR sexual experiences and should come prepared and not rely on someone else to make sure your safe or have the necessary supplies?

 

Am I the only one that was a boy scout and learned the cardinal rule of always be prepared?

 

 

I always come prepared.. with condoms of varying size and lube

[MikeyGMin]

well considering I have no idea if the escort misrepresented his size, the condom I have might not fit the escort properly.. or he could be allergic to a particular lube.. so I rely on the escort to have the products

 

Agreed. Condoms are not one size fits all, so if you are hiring a top he should come prepared with his preferred condom and lube. I believe the reverse is true if you are asking someone to bottom. You should be prepared with the proper condom and lube.

 

This may be inconvenient for married men who are stepping out on their wives, but sometimes infidelity just isn't convenient.

[+ Travis69]

If you're in a hotel room you can always improvise. Use the complimentary shower cap as a condom and use the little bottles of lotion or conditioner as lube.

[Kevin Slater]

Any professional escort should always be prepared with rubbers and lube, whether it be an incall or an outcall. Unfortunately, as not all escorts are professional, it's always a good idea to come prepared as well.

 

Kevin Slater

[LADoug1]

If you're in a hotel room you can always improvise. Use the complimentary shower cap as a condom and use the little bottles of lotion or conditioner as lube.

If this is a joke it's funny. LOL

[Brian Kevin]

Am I the only one that was a boy scout

 

Nope. Wanna take a look over my knots? I really enjoyed Boy Scouts, helped me aloy in the long run of life!

[Rod Hagen]

Well that's the shitty thing of it isn't it? Without lube and condoms, some things can't happen. But courts use the presence of lube and condoms in the accused's pocket as evidence.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

At a minimum, every escort should have lube and condoms (big, small, latex and non-latex). I personally always bring an assortment of other things cause you just never know. In my bag, in addition to condoms and lube is usually a cock ring or 2, small piece of cord (tying up balls), massage lotion, some nip clamps or clothes pins, an anoros or small butt toy and of course anything else requested.

[Paddy]

Agree that the escort should bring supplies for standard activities. Also a ham sandwich in case I get hungry.

[LADoug1]

Well that's the shitty thing of it isn't it? Without lube and condoms, some things can't happen. But courts use the presence of lube and condoms in the accused pocket as evidence.

You rock Rod. Another topical and informative post.

[HobbesianAcademic]

I'm of the opinion that condoms/lube are the top's responsibility as he is the one that has to be most comfortable with them. That doesn't always mean the escort. In my case, I almost always have stuff with me in case the escort doesn't. I also think it's for clients to bring stuff as a form of a tip. Indeed, is usually gift a lot of condoms and a big bottle of lube when I do an overnight.

[LADoug1]

I'm of the opinion that condoms/lube are the top's responsibility as he is the one that has to be most comfortable with them. That doesn't always mean the escort. In my case, I almost always have stuff with me in case the escort doesn't. I also think it's for clients to bring stuff as a form of a tip. Indeed, is usually gift a lot of condoms and a big bottle of lube when I do an overnight.

Makes sense to me.