How to get your clients to post reviews?

[keithhardy]

Hey Men,

 

I am wondering if anyone could give me some ideas on how to get clients to post reviews, many times I get a nice email following a meeting about how fantastic of a time they had and one with many compliments. Many of these could be cut and pasted to a review they are so well written. I have mentioned posting reviews, and even told guys I would greatly appreciate if you could post a review for me. I sometimes get response, such as sure thing or I will but many times it goes ignored and no reviews posted. I have been told on occasion sorry I don't post reviews. I would just like some ideas, if there are any in getting reviews posted. I think the ultimate compliment for an escort is having a client write a nice review about you!

[big-n-tall]

Most times I was asked politely, sometimes I brought it up. People can be lazy sometimes. However, it could also be people's fear of privacy/anonymity, that make them hold back. Especially after the whole RB fiasco.

 

I tell you what, when we meet... and one day we shall Superman. I'll write you a review, unless you tell me otherwise.

[Riley Wynters]

I have been wondering the same thing. I get so many guys who rave about their time with me and yet none of them post reviews. Maybe they just don't want to share us with anyone else?

[Maximus69]

Lol funny how this topic was just made as Im asking a nice fellow whom I just met a few days ago to write a review for me.

It doesn't hurt to ask, just be nice and I'm sure most would do it unless they want to remain discreet

[keithhardy]

Lol funny how this topic was just made as Im asking a nice fellow whom I just met a few days ago to write a review for me.

It doesn't hurt to ask, just be nice and I'm sure most would do it unless they want to remain discreet

I always ask in a nice sweet way, and it rarely happens. I am thinking maybe it is discretion.

[+ Keith30309]

"Hey <client>, I really enjoyed our time together Tuesday - you're a really <something complimentary that you really believe> guy. I hope that we get the chance to meet again soon. If you feel comfortable it would really mean allot to me if you would take a couple of minutes and anonymously jot a couple of your thoughts about our time together at http://www.daddysreviews.com/submit. I hope you have a great weekend! "

 

If someone doesn't want to create an online presence there's not much you can do about that other than suggest they take a look at the Forum and get a sense of how it all works.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Offer me a free session and I write a great review.

[jackjackjack]

Personally I have never written a review. Partly because I was only a visitor to this site very rarely until this Summer but I think mainly....even though it's an anonymous review....I still find that I'm private when it comes to whom I hire and how we interact. But I've never been asked to write one.

And on a little side note....reading how often some of you hire, surprised me. It has nothing to do with money, but I could never hire that often. Don't you people have a good right...or left hand?

[dcguy20]

Tread lightly. There are times a provider has immediately asked for a review and that completely turns me off to a point I would never consider hiring them again. If business is steady and you have a lot of repeat customers, then I wouldn't be too concerned about reviews. Actions speak louder than words sometimes.

[Maximus69]

Tread lightly. There are times a provider has immediately asked for a review and that completely turns me off to a point I would never consider hiring them again. If business is steady and you have a lot of repeat customers, then I wouldn't be too concerned about reviews. Actions speak louder than words sometimes.

 

I mean I've never really asked someone for a review until I stumbled on this site and saw many of you saying that you dont hire someone that has no reviews on their site. So maybe more reviews= more business

 

Usually I meet a guy and when the session is finished he texts/emails me saying how nice it was, or I write him a little message thanking him

[jackjackjack]

Tread lightly. There are times a provider has immediately asked for a review and that completely turns me off to a point I would never consider hiring them again. If business is steady and you have a lot of repeat customers, then I wouldn't be too concerned about reviews. Actions speak louder than words sometimes.

 

Or what if the escort thought it was a good meeting but the client didn't. And then the escort ask you to write a review, awkward. Each one has their own expectations.

[dcguy20]

I think everyone is different. I ask for recommendations.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I mean I've never really asked someone for a review until I stumbled on this site and saw many of you saying that you dont hire someone that has no reviews on their site. So maybe more reviews= more business

 

Usually I meet a guy and when the session is finished he texts/emails me saying how nice it was, or I write him a little message thanking him

 

Many of us do hire escorts with no reviews, DK. I do check here just in case there is a bad experience, but the lack of reviews is not an impediment. Many of us like hiring young, inexperience escorts, and those often have no references.

[MrMattBig]

lol you know a client had a great time when he keeps calling and texting you. The ones that love you always come back for more. Sometimes I feel they are being a little protective and want to keep you all to themselves by not submitting reviews.

[marylander1940]

I have been wondering the same thing. I get so many guys who rave about their time with me and yet none of them post reviews. Maybe they just don't want to share us with anyone else?

 

In this town (DC) everybody is a somebody and I'm not surprised many guys are afraid of RentMen.com phone verification for reviews or they might think the NSA will find out their hobby.

[MikeyGMin]

but I could never hire that often. Don't you people have a good right...or left hand?

 

LOL. I'm sure this varies for everyone, but what do you consider "that often" Jack?

[Juan Vancouver]

Keith,

 

You will learn that there are two schools of thought here.

 

One thinks it is perfectly fine to ask a client to review you. Some even go as far as asking the client to send the review to them before posting it to approve it. This same school of thought thinks it is okay to approach clients you don't know but with whom you are in contact, like through this forum to ask if they will hire you. Fo the longest time this way of doing things was widely frowned upon but lately the escorting world seems to be adopting the same ways you can see in reality shows. Creating alliances, creating a buzz, whether positive or not and or coercing people to recognize you publicly. This has worked for some.

 

The other school of thought, however, believes that an escort is an escort, not a politician. The escort works during the setting up process, during the session and sometimes on the thank you note afterwards. After that, the work of an escort is done. If the escort was not able to influence the client enough to inspire a review, all the escort can do is work on his next session with love, clarity, commitment and dedication. Until very recently this was the only accepted way to build a reputation. You will start noticing that during your sessions talking about their past experiences, sometimes clients will go all romantic reminiscing about this or that amazing escort who gave them the experience of a lifetime. THAT was the only real sign or a truly talented escort. And believe me, this world goes around. That is how I first got to know about escorts like Andrew Justice, David SF, Romann, Dane Scott to name a few, and now new escorts like Alec Andrews and Mike Gaite. The consistently positive word of mouth reputation came first, then the reviews started coming, steady, consistent.

 

I am a firm believer in doing your work as best as you can, which is a pain in the ass because Canadian culture is not a boasting culture, which means that clients find it strange to want to share an experience that was so personal. In other words, Canadians rarely ever review. BUT they keep coming back for more. Do you work, love what you do, regard this session as if it was your last one and believe me, when you least expect it the reviews will start coming.

 

Or, -nothing wrong in that- let people know that it would be very appreciated if they reviewed you. However, I strongly recommend against insisting, pushing, demanding, coercing. While some people are too polite and will respond to it, most people will come off you in two seconds and you will not have a second chance to fix your relationship. Once it is broken like this, you are done; this person will never feel safe to be vulnerable with you again.

 

Wishing you amazing success and a very fulfilling career!

[Rudynate]

If a guy asks me directly to write a review, I do. I have most often been asked in a followup to a thank-you note. I don't really like to write reviews because I'm sort of private. I'm thinking I could post reviews under another user name so that I can help the guy out with a good review without feeling like I'm giving away my secrets. I guess that's what being a private person is - it just feels good to keep certain things to myself.

[+ nycman]

Honestly, I don't think there's much you can do.

 

Guys who like to write reviews....write reviews.

 

Guy who don't....don't.

 

I agree with Juan and I have noticed a recent trend in new escorts asking me directly

to write a review (even though I never mention Daddy's). A few have even gone as

far as to send me multiple follow up texts to see if/when they can expect the review

to be posted.

 

I don't like it. It feels like homework to me and it leads to me not hiring the guy in

the future because I'm a little embarrassed that I didn't complete the assignment.

Which is really unfortunate, because it's the guys that I obviously had a great time

with that are more likely to ask in the first place.

 

If I like a guy and someone on here asks about him, I certainly will pipe up. Personally,

all I need to know is did he look like his pics and did he show up. Everything else is so

strongly dependant on "chemistry" that someone else's experience is pretty meaningless

to me.

 

Don't get me wrong, I love the review section here but I only need 2-3 reviews to establish

that a person is dependable and fun...the rest...is pretty much a waste of time to read.

 

As Juan said, worry about providing a stellar experience for the client and your reputation

will grow and the reviews will take care of themselves.

[keithhardy]

Tread lightly. There are times a provider has immediately asked for a review and that completely turns me off to a point I would never consider hiring them again. If business is steady and you have a lot of repeat customers, then I wouldn't be too concerned about reviews. Actions speak louder than words sometimes.

Hello, thanks for the reply, I only ask after the meeting and following an email telling me what a great time it was........I agree to a point but if we had reviews being complete we wouldn't need a forum asking for reviews of us, if someone is on the fence about anything in life they read reviews, take consumer reports for example. Some clients also think because you have no reviews you must not be worth it......this has been said to me by someone who contacted me, whom I know hires often.

[Gar1eth]

Personally I have never written a review. Partly because I was only a visitor to this site very rarely until this Summer but I think mainly....even though it's an anonymous review....I still find that I'm private when it comes to whom I hire and how we interact. But I've never been asked to write one.

And on a little side note....reading how often some of you hire, surprised me. It has nothing to do with money, but I could never hire that often. Don't you people have a good right...or left hand?

 

I can answer that. My hands are fine. But the older I get the less interested my tallywacker seems to be in them. :(With a lowered sex drive like mine, I need the stimulation of being with another guy.

 

Gman

[keithhardy]

Honestly, I don't think there's much you can do.

 

Guys who like to write reviews....write reviews.

 

Guy who don't....don't.

 

I agree with Juan and I have noticed a recent trend in new escorts asking me directly

to write a review (even though I never mention Daddy's). A few have even gone as

far as to send me multiple follow up texts to see if/when they can expect the review

to be posted.

 

I don't like it. It feels like homework to me and it leads to me not hiring the guy in

the future because I'm a little embarrassed that I didn't complete the assignment.

Which is really unfortunate, because it the guys that I obviously had a great time

with that are more likely to ask in the first place.

 

If I like a guy and someone on here asks about him, I certainly will pipe up. Personally,

all I need to know is did he look like his pics and did he show up. Everything else is so

strongly dependant on "chemistry" that someone else's experience is pretty meaningless

to me.

 

Don't get me wrong, I love the review section here but I only need 2-3 reviews to establish

that a person is dependable and fun...the rest...is pretty much a waste of time to read.

 

As Juan said, worry about providing a stellar experience for the client and your reputation

will grow and the reviews will take care of themselves.

Hello, thanks for the reply. The request may come because rentmen.com has reviews, and I do think you guys would be very surprised on how many times we are asked if we have any reviews, especially now that rentmen is the main page.......and no one should harass anyone for a review. I always say after they email me, following our meeting, "if its no trouble and you would like to add a review I would appreciate it greatly". I have a very nice following, and am not new in this but some may think I am because I wasn't reviewed or on here nor was I ab active participant till recently. The reviews help and help with obtaining the new clients.

[Gar1eth]

Hello, thanks for the reply. The request may come because rentmen.com has reviews, and I do think you guys would be very surprised on how many times we are asked if we have any reviews, especially now that rentmen is the main page.......and no one should harass anyone for a review. I always say after they email me, following our meeting, "if its no trouble and you would like to add a review I would appreciate it greatly". I have a very nice following, and am not new in this but some may think I am because I wasn't reviewed or on here nor was I ab active participant till recently. The reviews help and help with obtaining the new clients.

 

 

Actually I think being known here on the Forum might be your biggest help. If any clients are more likely to write a review, it might be Forum contributors as many of them have already written reviews. So with being known here on the Forum, I'm sure a Forum Member out there is salivating to meet you. I wish I were still hiring and in Philly.

 

Gman

[keithhardy]

Keith,

 

You will learn that there are two schools of thought here.

 

One thinks it is perfectly fine to ask a client to review you. Some even go as far as asking the client to send the review to them before posting it to approve it. This same school of thought thinks it is okay to approach clients you don't know but with whom you are in contact, like through this forum to ask if they will hire you. Fo the longest time this way of doing things was widely frowned upon but lately the escorting world seems to be adopting the same ways you can see in reality shows. Creating alliances, creating a buzz, whether positive or not and or coercing people to recognize you publicly. This has worked for some.

 

The other school of thought, however, believes that an escort is an escort, not a politician. The escort works during the setting up process, during the session and sometimes on the thank you note afterwards. After that, the work of an escort is done. If the escort was not able to influence the client enough to inspire a review, all the escort can do is work on his next session with love, clarity, commitment and dedication. Until very recently this was the only accepted way to build a reputation. You will start noticing that during your sessions talking about their past experiences, sometimes clients will go all romantic reminiscing about this or that amazing escort who gave them the experience of a lifetime. THAT was the only real sign or a truly talented escort. And believe me, this world goes around. That is how I first got to know about escorts like Andrew Justice, David SF, Romann, Dane Scott to name a few, and now new escorts like Alec Andrews and Mike Gaite. The consistently positive word of mouth reputation came first, then the reviews started coming, steady, consistent.

 

I am a firm believer in doing your work as best as you can, which is a pain in the ass because Canadian culture is not a boasting culture, which means that clients find it strange to want to share an experience that was so personal. In other words, Canadians rarely ever review. BUT they keep coming back for more. Do you work, love what you do, regard this session as if it was your last one and believe me, when you least expect it the reviews will start coming.

 

Or, -nothing wrong in that- let people know that it would be very appreciated if they reviewed you. However, I strongly recommend against insisting, pushing, demanding, coercing. While some people are too polite and will respond to it, most people will come off you in two seconds and you will not have a second chance to fix your relationship. Once it is broken like this, you are done; this person will never feel safe to be vulnerable with you again.

 

Wishing you amazing success and a very fulfilling career!

Thanks Juan, I can't agree more with what you just posted....I will say whats remarkable to me is that I have been escorting for 10 plus years and the common trend to these replies are everyone thinks I am new......because the lack of presence here I suppose. Early on in the game I didn't worry about reviews, I never even thought about them, to be honest. The game has changed a lot and I feel as if although I don't need review to know I am good at what I do, it seems more and more new clients are asking for them. I NEVER push for a review and never typed one up and asked for it to be submitted, thats not me.

[keithhardy]

Actually I think being known here on the Forum might be your biggest help. If any clients are more likely to write a review, it might be Forum contributors as many of them have already written reviews. So with being known here on the Forum, I'm sure a Forum Member out there is salivating to meet you. I wish I were still hiring and in Philly.

 

Gman

Thanks Gman, its why I am trying to participate in my already crazy busy world!