Overthinking it?

[+ glennnn]

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1. You asked us to suggest escorts. Here are a few:
   

 

Nate in Long Beach

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http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/los_angeles/YourHunk/166079

I can't say enough good things about Nate. He's a great guy, very attractive and sexy, great conversationalist, and nice, patient lover. He also has a very clean, well-maintained, nicely decorated place. He is older than you specified and is hairy, but I think he would make a terrific companion for your first time.

 

Rod Hagen in West Hollywood.

http://www.men4rentnow.com/gay/escort/male/massage/west_hollywood/RodHagen/105574

Rod is also a nice guy, very sexy smooth body, and a hell of a lot of fun in bed. I think he is 100% top, but you can ask him about that. I am a bottom, so versatility is not something I am concerned about (unless I'm hiring a bottom, of course)

 

Alec Andrews in West Hollywood.

http://rentmen.com/AlecAndrews

It is difficult NOT to rave about Alec. He is one of the sweetest, sexiest, handsomest guys I have met. He is currently traveling a lot, but he is based in LA. Of the escorts I've met, he probably comes closest to meeting your preferences.

 

Nate is #1 on my list because of the three, he and I have spent the most time talking about things in general, so I can vouch for his conversation skills. Rod and I got down to business fairly quickly and we both had things to do after our session, so we were not able to have a lengthy conversation. That being said, he was not eager to push me out the door, despite him having plans with a friend after our playdate. Alec and I got together in the late evening. Honestly, I had to head back to my hotel to rest up for a full day of work the next day, so there was not a whole lot of time (or remaining energy) for conversation. Had we scheduled a longer playdate earlier in the evening we would have conversed more.

I hope this helps. Please feel free to start a conversation with me if you have amy questions or need more information.

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+ 10000 for Nate. He was my first. I was 72 and 20 pounds over weight. He made me feel desirable and worthy. I won't repeat my whole story, but it is much like yours and I would be happy to offer any help, encouragement or advice I can. Feel free to PM me.

[LADoug1]

You may find that once you come out to your family you may have the improved self-esteem and energy (so much is lost staying in the closet) to either accept your body for what it is or work on it to shed the extra weight.

 

Best of luck in your journey.

[GMan]

You may find that once you come out to your family you may have the improved self-esteem and energy (so much is lost staying in the closet) to either accept your body for what it is or work on it to shed the extra weight.

 

Best of luck in your journey.

 

Interesting that you mention this ... The day my Doctor cleared me to go back to work I spoke to my therapist about needing to have the discussion with my wife because I'm at a point where the urge to have these experiences has become an absolute necessity. After finally making that decision, I joined a gym, hired a trainer, and have been eating nothing but broccoli and salmon for 2 weeks

 

Of course sex with a man is still at the top of the list, but I can feel pizza quickly making it's way up the charts!

[GMan]

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+ 10000 for Nate. He was my first. I was 72 and 20 pounds over weight. He made me feel desirable and worthy. I won't repeat my whole story, but it is much like yours and I would be happy to offer any help, encouragement or advice I can. Feel free to PM me.

 

Thanks for the encouragement and offer to help. It's greatly needed and appreciated!

[jjkrkwood]

Getting back to the OP, don't think, just DO.... Look what awaits you !

 

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[Gar1eth]

Welcome back, GMan. I had wondered if you had left our community for good. I'm sorry about your medical issues, and I hope they are all behind you with only good health continuing for you.

 

You may find that once you come out to your family you may have the improved self-esteem and energy (so much is lost staying in the closet) to either accept your body for what it is or work on it to shed the extra weight.

 

Best of luck in your journey.

 

I acknowledge the truth in what you say, @LADoug1. But it's not universal. I have done neither unfortunately. Of course I'm still upset that I'm bald too. And that's not even my fault.

 

Gman

[GMan]

Welcome back, GMan. I had wondered if you had left our community for good. I'm sorry about your medical issues, and I hope they are all behind you with only good health continuing for you.

 

 

 

I acknowledge the truth in what you say, @LADoug1. But it's not universal. I have done neither unfortunately. Of course I'm still upset that I'm bald too. And that's not even my fault.

 

Gman

 

Thanks Gman! ... which reminds me, I should probably ask about the name change

[Gar1eth]

Thanks Gman! ... which reminds me, I should probably ask about the name change

 

What about changing it to Junior?

 

 

Gman

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Well, you are blessed to be in a big city with an abundant selection. I definitely agree that for your first time you should select someone with experience, wisdom and a little more age. I've heard from many of my clients who've had their first male sexual experience later in life that their initial attraction was to young guys, but they usually find that while these guys provide them with a certain sexual thrill, they are rarely good teachers and guides. I hope you can find the perfect Sherpa to guide you through the Himalyas of him-a-layin'. Also, I think approaching your first time with an open mind and without intention and expressing that to the guy you decide to meet, is a good idea. You may find that kissing, cuddling and affection are what your body and heart need more so than fucking.

[mike carey]

I second Lance's comments, some men provide you with an intense sexual experience but don't provide you with teaching and guidance. If that's all you want, fine! I want someone to tell me things I don't know, guide me down paths I might not otherwise tread

[GMan]

Well, you are blessed to be in a big city with an abundant selection. I definitely agree that for your first time you should select someone with experience, wisdom and a little more age. I've heard from many of my clients who've had their first male sexual experience later in life that their initial attraction was to young guys, but they usually find that while these guys provide them with a certain sexual thrill, they are rarely good teachers and guides. I hope you can find the perfect Sherpa to guide you through the Himalyas of him-a-layin'. Also, I think approaching your first time with an open mind and without intention and expressing that to the guy you decide to meet, is a good idea. You may find that kissing, cuddling and affection are what your body and heart need more so than fucking.

 

Thanks Lance! The more I hear from escorts here and talk to others I'm seeing the truth in your statement about experience. While the need for sex is beyond RED ALERT, the very idea of experiencing affection of any kind with a man is enough to blow my mind right now.

 

-G2

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Thanks Lance! The more I hear from escorts here and talk to others I'm seeing the truth in your statement about experience. While the need for sex is beyond RED ALERT, the very idea of experiencing affection of any kind with a man is enough to blow my mind right now.

 

-G2

 

Well, I hope you won't delay much longer, life is too short, get busy livin'! Btw, I'll be in LA next week.

[Gar1eth]

Well, I hope you won't delay much longer, life is too short, get busy livin'! Btw, I'll be in LA next week.

 

 

Off the topic a bit-but I wanted to compliment @Lance_Navarro on his new (self) avatar. It sure is purdy!!!

 

Gman

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Off the topic a bit-but I wanted to compliment @Lance_Navarro on his new (self) avatar. It sure is purdy!!!

 

Gman

Ahhhhh, ain't you the sweetest! Sweeter than my grandma's iced tea.