I'm sorry but you're just too hyper?

[marylander1940]

I'm sorry but you're just too hyper?

 

Have you ever talked with a potential client who sounded just too hyper for you and you declined the offer of getting together?

[+ poolboy48220]

do you mean hyper, as in hyperactive? Or rather that he's too much of a hipster?

 

I've turned down dancers at the club because they're so much of the former - nonstop talking that jumps from subject to subject so fast I can't keep up, and no chance to get more than a word or two in edgewise.

[marylander1940]

do you mean hyper, as in hyperactive? Or rather that he's too much of a hipster?

 

I've turned down dancers at the club because they're so much of the former - nonstop talking that jumps from subject to subject so fast I can't keep up, and no chance to get more than a word or two in edgewise.

 

yes, that's what I meant but both words aren't recognized yet.

[+ glennnn]

Being hyper is often a reaction to nerves (or horniness). Perhaps he was a first-timer,, or closeted and just really nervous. I find that cell phone conversations sometimes make me blather, or talk over the other partcipant, because of the difficulty of hearing him through the poor reception, background noise and other distractions. I keep trying to fill what I perceive as dead spots in the conversation. My point is your caller may not seem hyper in the quiet of an intimate situation. If every other aspect is favorable, why not give him a try. Who knows what you, and he, are missing?

[Kuriousity]

do you mean hyper, as in hyperactive? Or rather that he's too much of a hipster?

 

I've turned down dancers at the club because they're so much of the former - nonstop talking that jumps from subject to subject so fast I can't keep up, and no chance to get more than a word or two in edgewise.

 

 

Well, odds are, those children were rolling on something.....

[Reluctant Daddy]

I'm a bit hyper. Maybe it's nerves, maybe it's the need to be liked. I think that my hyperactivity really blew my chances with an escort, and I've been kicking myself because of it.

 

I've got to discipline myself to realize that a) any escort I hire doesn't want to be friends, and b) the most interesting thing about me is my wallet

[bigvalboy]

I'm a bit hyper. Maybe it's nerves, maybe it's the need to be liked. I think that my hyperactivity really blew my chances with an escort, and I've been kicking myself because of it.

I've got to discipline myself to realize that a) any escort I hire doesn't want to be friends, and b) the most interesting thing about me is my wallet

 

+1

[Kuriousity]

I'm a bit hyper. Maybe it's nerves, maybe it's the need to be liked. I think that my hyperactivity really blew my chances with an escort, and I've been kicking myself because of it.

 

I've got to discipline myself to realize that a) any escort I hire doesn't want to be friends, and b) the most interesting thing about me is my wallet

 

 

Anyone who opens a business relationship up with one of these men needs to take your last sentence to heart. Some of these men sound like truly nice people, but, never forget that they are selling fantasy & you are a business opportunity for them. Sure, you can have an enjoyable time, but in the end....you are a business opportunity. If they invite you out to dinner (Just. Dinner.) after they have totally left the business, then great, you made an actual friend from the business deal, but unless & until that happens, no Renter should have any illusions on the interaction.

[seaboy4hire]

I'm a bit hyper. Maybe it's nerves, maybe it's the need to be liked. I think that my hyperactivity really blew my chances with an escort, and I've been kicking myself because of it.

 

I've got to discipline myself to realize that a) any escort I hire doesn't want to be friends, and b) the most interesting thing about me is my wallet

 

I don't see that being the case with the working guys here on the board. For me, the most interesting and important thing in any meeting is that there is a genuine and honest connection. Without that the meeting is a flop.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[Donpat]

I'm a bit hyper. Maybe it's nerves, maybe it's the need to be liked. I think that my hyperactivity really blew my chances with an escort, and I've been kicking myself because of it.

 

I've got to discipline myself to realize that a) any escort I hire doesn't want to be friends, and b) the most interesting thing about me is my wallet

That's a lesson that i HAVE to learn ....

[LADoug1]

Anyone who opens a business relationship up with one of these men needs to take your last sentence to heart. Some of these men sound like truly nice people, but, never forget that they are selling fantasy & you are a business opportunity for them. Sure, you can have an enjoyable time, but in the end....you are a business opportunity. If they invite you out to dinner (Just. Dinner.) after they have totally left the business, then great, you made an actual friend from the business deal, but unless & until that happens, no Renter should have any illusions on the interaction.

I've had the pleasure and reassurance of being asked to have a meal after meeting with a particular escort. I consider him a friend as well as a sex-partner. It's not just about commerce. I'm grateful for this.

[Kuriousity]

I've had the pleasure and reassurance of being asked to have a meal after meeting with a particular escort. I consider him a friend as well as a sex-partner. It's not just about commerce. I'm grateful for this.

 

Well, when I said left the business, I meant stopped being an escort entirely. If they seek you out after there is no chance of a "business opportunity", then that--to me--indicates a genuine friendship. My perspective is that an escort is not a friend if he is nailing me or vice versa, because for me, I do not have sex with friends. For me, if he would want to be around me and everyone's hands stayed on the table--so to speak--then that means he is a friend and not someone there for Naked Guy Time.

[robberbaron4u]

Seroquel. . .

[LADoug1]

Seroquel. . .

Buyer beware - LOTS of side effects!

[Davidrman]

I'm a bit hyper. Maybe it's nerves, maybe it's the need to be liked. I think that my hyperactivity really blew my chances with an escort, and I've been kicking myself because of it.

 

I've got to discipline myself to realize that a) any escort I hire doesn't want to be friends, and b) the most interesting thing about me is my wallet

 

 

I am afraid to say this has happen to me way to many times. I have a few escorts I meet on a regular base... however I sometime like to mix it up a bit. I always am extremely nervous the first time going in.

Sticking to text messages and conversating instead of validating helps sometimes.