Any other cash slaves out there?

[Jakeoconner79]

I would love to meet up/talk with other guys who get off on spoiling hot superior men. Early 30s good shape, but love being used by a hot stud who wants my money.

[bimbosavant]

I'm trying to understand the context.

[jackjackjack]

I would love to meet up/talk with other guys who get off on spoiling hot superior men. Early 30s good shape, but love being used by a hot stud who wants my money.

 

What???

[+ nycman]

Some dudes get off on it.

 

I don't get it, but then again I don't get scat play either.

 

C'est la vie

[+ TylerandAce]

Jakeconnor79, very little out there as far as community, but we are happy to help you out with making that a reality

[keithhardy]

PICK ME!!! :rolleyes: LOL Honestly I wish I had the $$$ to spoil a hot muscle boy, maybe come tonight after the power ball I will!

[joethomas]

So love this context.

Having to pay a fit stud to admire him is an honour.

I probably do it at least once a month either with a masseur or escort.

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Late 20's to early 30's is the best for this, nicely muscled, handsome and reasonably hung.

In my world they don't always have to be totally naked or do I have the need for sex.

Just to be near, able to smell their masculinity and see their beauty.

 

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[+ newguy]

I would love to meet up/talk with other guys who get off on spoiling hot superior men. Early 30s good shape, but love being used by a hot stud who wants my money.

 

I've been a "sugar daddy" myself from time-to-time. I'd be very cautious before diving vigorously into "being used financially." Some sugar babies are deliberately artful in manipulation, giving you the impression that they truly love you for yourself. Others fall into an unconscious "child role." You become the endlessly patient, forgiving, and generous parent. This is not to say that may not really love you, but (as you insightfully note already) the sexual component will be one-way only. I don't mean to sound too skeptical, because I've seen many marriages (straight & gay) fall into the same pattern where one partner is wealthy and the other is not. I'm not certain if you are "looking for love" or just looking for a somewhat deliberate masochistic thrill. Could you elaborate a bit more?

[Rudynate]

I've been a "sugar daddy" myself from time-to-time. I'd be very cautious before diving vigorously into "being used financially." Some sugar babies are deliberately artful in manipulation, giving you the impression that they truly love you for yourself. Others fall into an unconscious "child role." You become the endlessly patient, forgiving, and generous parent. This is not to say that may not really love you, but (as you insightfully note already) the sexual component will be one-way only. I don't mean to sound too skeptical, because I've seen many marriages (straight & gay) fall into the same pattern where one partner is wealthy and the other is not. I'm not certain if you are "looking for love" or just looking for a somewhat deliberate masochistic thrill. Could you elaborate a bit more?

 

 

Being a cash slave is a particular erotic practice that has nothing to do with dysfunctional co-dependent relationships. A cash slave freely chooses being a cash slave because he gets erotic gratification from showering another with cash and presents. I think that I am wired similarly to, but not quite the same as, a cash slave, because I enjoy paying for sex. I sort of understand being a cash slave, even thought I'm not one.

[+ newguy]

Being a cash slave is a particular erotic practice that has nothing to do with dysfunctional co-dependent relationships. A cash slave freely chooses being a cash slave because he gets erotic gratification from showering another with cash and presents. I think that I am wired similarly to, but not quite the same as, a cash slave, because I enjoy paying for sex. I sort of understand being a cash slave, even thought I'm not one.

I'm not arguing this this doesn't exist. And I'm the last person on earth to say what's

"functional" vs. "dysfunctional." As far as I know, we're all dysfunctional one way or another.

I think we would all agree on this forum: "Watch out for con artists. " By that, I only mean

the bad apples. I don't think anyone has really studied cash slavery in-depth. An interesting

article on straight cash slaves is below. Erotic gratification from being "used" is not a cause to embrace too

freely--but I understand completely how one feels "wired" like this, especially if you can afford it. In our culture, it is really more common than I think most people would like to admit.

There are plenty of millions and billionaires (gay & straight) with doting spouses.

 

NG

 

http://www.vice.com/read/how-to-stop-being-a-cash-slave-456

[Bearofdistinction]

I would love to meet up/talk with other guys who get off on spoiling hot superior men. Early 30s good shape, but love being used by a hot stud who wants my money.

 

My exp is just the opposite - I am not an Escort --- But have a regular cash slave that I met through Craigslist who loves to be abused and humiliated

in writing - will not speak by phone. Fortunately, I write well and am Very creative - both live and on paper. He rewards me for humiliating and degrading him

via email with larger and larger AMAZON Electronic Gift Cards we started at $10 per email and I continue to demand higher and higher tribute -- we are at

$50. per email at this point ---- Does Amazon have a Auto-Sales forum or should I make him switch to EBAY dollars thru paypal?

[Rudynate]

I'm not arguing this this doesn't exist. And I'm the last person on earth to say what's

"functional" vs. "dysfunctional." As far as I know, we're all dysfunctional one way or another.

I think we would all agree on this forum: "Watch out for con artists. " By that, I only mean

the bad apples. I don't think anyone has really studied cash slavery in-depth. An interesting

article on straight cash slaves is below. Erotic gratification from being "used" is not a cause to embrace too

freely--but I understand completely how one feels "wired" like this, especially if you can afford it. In our culture, it is really more common than I think most people would like to admit.

There are plenty of millions and billionaires (gay & straight) with doting spouses.

 

NG

 

http://www.vice.com/read/how-to-stop-being-a-cash-slave-456

 

 

I agree. It's not something that somebody living on food stamps should be dabbling in.

[+ MakeMeCowboy]

I'm definitely wired with elements of a cash slave. Hired Johny last week for a quick fix. Hot.

[jjkrkwood]

It's your money, so do whatever floats your boat with it. For me, with MY money, I'd much rather have Therapy, RETAIL THERAPY !

 

At least if it turns out I DONT Like it, I can RETURN it !!!

 

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[+ MakeMeCowboy]

Certainly not a steady diet, etc. I like to rotate my fetishes.

[+ Keith30309]

My exp is just the opposite - I am not an Escort --- But have a regular cash slave that I met through Craigslist who loves to be abused and humiliated

in writing - will not speak by phone. Fortunately, I write well and am Very creative - both live and on paper. He rewards me for humiliating and degrading him

via email with larger and larger AMAZON Electronic Gift Cards we started at $10 per email and I continue to demand higher and higher tribute -- we are at

$50. per email at this point ---- Does Amazon have a Auto-Sales forum or should I make him switch to EBAY dollars thru paypal?

 

If you enjoy creative writing and role play you should check out secondlife.com. Something for everyone and every "interest".

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I've never had a cash slave (though I would certainly be open to it), but I did have a domestic slave for a little while, from which I learned alot about the slave mentality. The premise is in feeling inferior and worshiping one who is superior to you. They are still rewarded, but not in a way that would make them feel like an equal. My domestic slave would clean my apartment, wash my car, do my laundry, drive me to the airport, etc. He would also sometimes send me money if he had taken up too much of my time with texts or emails, or if he wasn't available when I needed him (ok, maybe I did have a cash slave). I would reward him by letting him kiss my feet or if he did really well I might let him lay in the shower while I pissed on him.

 

It was a big learning experience for me, as my instinct was to thank him and hug him for all he was doing for me, as I'm a pretty humble person who doesn't expect to be "worshipped", but that's not how a slave wants to be rewarded or appreciated.

[+ Truereview]

I've never had a cash slave (though I would certainly be open to it), but I did have a domestic slave for a little while, from which I learned alot about the slave mentality. The premise is in feeling inferior and worshiping one who is superior to you. They are still rewarded, but not in a way that would make them feel like an equal. My domestic slave would clean my apartment, wash my car, do my laundry, drive me to the airport, etc. He would also sometimes send me money if he had taken up too much of my time with texts or emails, or if he wasn't available when I needed him (ok, maybe I did have a cash slave). I would reward him by letting him kiss my feet or if he did really well I might let him lay in the shower while I pissed on him.

 

It was a big learning experience for me, as my instinct was to thank him and hug him for all he was doing for me, as I'm a pretty humble person who doesn't expect to be "worshipped", but that's not how a slave wants to be rewarded or appreciated.

I could see that being very challenging for you bc it is such a departure from who you are. How did you work thru it to make the decision to have him be your domestic slave?

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I could see that being very challenging for you bc it is such a departure from who you are. How did you work thru it to make the decision to have him be your domestic slave?

 

Well, I learned in my years of retail management that not everyone responds to the same type of rewarding. For some financial reward is everything, for some it's private or public recognition, and so on. I just had to resist my instincts and impulse and focus on what he would want.

[+ Truereview]

Well, I learned in my years of retail management that not everyone responds to the same type of rewarding. For some financial reward is everything, for some it's private or public recognition, and so on. I just had to resist my instincts and impulse and focus on what he would want.

I find it difficult to resist my instinct to touch, I cannot even imagine the discipline it took you to do what you did. I find I learn most when I fail or sacrifice something I'm used to doing well. Thanks for sharing!

[CBR1000rr]

My exp is just the opposite - I am not an Escort --- But have a regular cash slave that I met through Craigslist who loves to be abused and humiliated

in writing - will not speak by phone. Fortunately, I write well and am Very creative - both live and on paper. He rewards me for humiliating and degrading him

via email with larger and larger AMAZON Electronic Gift Cards we started at $10 per email and I continue to demand higher and higher tribute -- we are at

$50. per email at this point ---- Does Amazon have a Auto-Sales forum or should I make him switch to EBAY dollars thru paypal?

WOW, becoming your Cash Slave sound Amazingly Satisfying and Emotionally Fulfilling. I don't like to be Degraded withe name calling, but love being told that my life is meaningless without Verbally WORSHIPING my Master and Honoring Him and Only Him with Gifts and Tributes. I find that so Rewarding. Just need to find a younger guy who's SUPERIOR to myself.

[Dom thug]

Look no further losers chavthug on Skype genuine CashMaster here

[+ newguy]

My exp is just the opposite - I am not an Escort --- But have a regular cash slave that I met through Craigslist who loves to be abused and humiliated

in writing - will not speak by phone. Fortunately, I write well and am Very creative - both live and on paper. He rewards me for humiliating and degrading him

via email with larger and larger AMAZON Electronic Gift Cards we started at $10 per email and I continue to demand higher and higher tribute -- we are at

$50. per email at this point ---- Does Amazon have a Auto-Sales forum or should I make him switch to EBAY dollars thru paypal?

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I met someone like yourself ("abuser") via another social media. I won't give away any

details except to say he is a tremendously gifted writer. He abuses me via writing only also,

although he has also sent pictures and videos to prove he has a fantastic, tightly muscled youthful physique as well. Now, back to his writing: rarely have I seen tremendous talent. I "reimburse" him regularly for the thrill. It feels more like someone is writing an outstanding script specifically for me. We don't go overboard, but he has introduced me to new kinds of abuse--some which "miss the mark," but most of which hit home. I see nothing wrong with this S&M pen-pal relationship. I hope others don't, either. NG

[LaffingBear]

I have mixed thoughts about this topic.

 

Mostly, I want to believe its not my place to judge.

 

Except, in searching my interest in muscle worship, I've seen many, and actually come to know one guy, shredded to the max, who has his slaves.

 

He calls them slaves. He gets off on degrading them. Screams FAGGOT every sentence in videos. And getting to know him, meeting him once... I know he is a bigot. He's both playing along with his slaves, and believes they're contemptible. He gets money from them. He gets gifts. He sells degrading videos. He laughed while telling me he gets money while instructing one pathetic fag slave to hurt himself.... using a lighter to self-inflict burns, pull out clumps of hair, etc.

 

The scene doesn't appeal to me, so its uncertain territory. I can be openminded about it if I see evidence that both parties are role playing.

 

But when I see evidence of genuine superiority attitude and some sadism.... I can't wrap my head around it. I'm Judgmental. Maybe I over-analyze it, but I can't help feeling that there's a fraction of the gay community who were so overwhelmed by societal unacceptance... they turn to self humiliation and even degradation with pain. And guys who exploit it make me angry.

[bestalphadom]

I've always known I'm special and deserve a unique type of attention. Cash slaves or whatever they want to call themselves definitely understand this too. To me the act of dominance is unique for each pair of dom and sub. Some are true sadists and need to be called sissies, fags, and "abused" to feel satisfied and like they properly served me - other subs and betas want to show their admiration through less "aggressive" ways. To me, as long as they know they should serve, the manner in which they want to is open to interpretation.

 

I love talking and hearing about how great I am, recounting stories, showing off, and putting down others if that's what they need to feel properly owned. If anyone's still curious about my experiences as a findom or just as a hot young guy feel free to check out my new tumblr, message me there, - anything really haha. I've given tasks as homework, skyped, messaged, you name it. I love introducing people to the type of relationship and mindset that develops as well as grooming those already in it.

 

https://bestalphadom.tumblr.com