"Who saw me" on rentmen.com

[Juan Vancouver]

I hope each of you accepts my visit as a compliment to your sex appeal and not as a way to get a cheap thrill.

 

Oh, I would say yay for cheap thrills! That's half the fun. We put so much work in getting fresh, sexy pictures and we understand that if there is a guy in Kamchatka who will never be able to hire us but loves to look at our profile, he might as well enjoy those pictures. That is precisely what they are for.

 

I assure everyone that I have never used an escort's pix or videos to jack off.

 

I find THAT insulting! You take it back, Sir! (Feyly slapping your face with my white latex glove)

 

By all means, choke that god damned chicken! We are not a Nobel Prize winner demanding respect. We are escorts and we love to be enjoyed. Have a go a it. Maybe after many amazing jerk off sessions looking at our pics you will decide to pick up the phone and meet one of us. But in the meanwhile, we thrive at the thought of you spent, relaxed and happy.

[+ glennnn]

Oh, I would say yay for cheap thrills! That's half the fun. We put so much work in getting fresh, sexy pictures and we understand that if there is a guy in Kamchatka who will never be able to hire us but loves to look at our profile, he might as well enjoy those pictures. That is precisely what they are for.

 

 

 

I find THAT insulting! You take it back, Sir! (Feyly slapping your face with my white latex glove)

 

By all means, choke that god damned chicken! We are not a Nobel Prize winner demanding respect. We are escorts and we love to be enjoyed. Have a go a it. Maybe after many amazing jerk off sessions looking at our pics you will decide to pick up the phone and meet one of us. But in the meanwhile, we thrive at the thought of you spent, relaxed and happy.

 

 

Did I forget to put "lol" after that statement?

[mattr]

I took the plunge and updated my client profile. Given my somewhat shy nature, I am fine with an escort reading my profile and reaching out to me as long as he believes he could deliver the experience I want/need. However, no means no. If I indicate that I am not interested, I don't want him to reach out to me again. If I indicate that I am not currently interested but may be in the future, it is up to the escort to decide if he wants to stay in t0uch. There are many reasons why I may not close the deal in the near term (funds, accessibility, feeling intimidated, etc.). In general, I will close the deal in 2 or 3 communications unless we are dealing with difficult scheduling issues. I think it is unfair to have phone/email sex with an escort although a little sexy talk initiated by the escort may help to lower my inhibitions. I will not initiate that but will respond in kind if I am interested.

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I have to admit that this site has made me look at the rentmen site more frequently than I would normally. I very often look up other posters, the people being discussed, or people in reviews published to put an ad/pic with the topic. many are nowhere in my realm of travel, others are. yesterday I came across a dick shot of an ex of mine that I never would have seen had the rentmen ad not been posted on this forum. there are not a lot of folks I remember off the top of my head so I do end up going back a couple/few times to a profile.

 

Keith I looked at your profile again today just to refresh my memory.

 

I can honestly say I have never looked at a rentmen ad to get off. there is a plethora of porn out there that is easy to access via a myriad of sites online so no need for me to mix a potential real life encounter with total scripted film that will never happen to me.

 

also rentmen does push forward people daily via who's online, new users, and feature players which I sometime pursue too which shows me as looking.

 

if I'm going to stalk somebody I am going to do it proper at their house not via a website. (joke of course)

[BtmBearDad]

I've looked at a few profiles on RM more than once - usually because there's been a change in the main pic and I've forgotten I've looked at the gent previously or he shows up in my city visiting and I forgot I looked at him already or he's messaged me seeing I've viewed him and I want to refresh myself on him prior to my response or there's a link in one of the threads I click on only to realize I've viewed him already.

 

I think the "Who Saw Me" feature is a good thing - lets gents know who may be interested but shy and for clients, seeing which gents viewed you may open possibilities up - provided your profile has some info on what you are looking for. Though I will admit, I have thought "Oh jeez! If this guy sees I've looked at him again, he's going to think I'm some crazy stalker!" lol Hopefully none have.

[+ Lance_Navarro]

Keith, I can totally understand your frustration, but just take comfort in the fact that we all experience the same thing with Rentmen. I recently became a sponsor, so I've watched my views jump from around 100/day to over 400 but still am only getting about a 3% view/contact average.

 

It's rare that I will contact someone that has viewed my profile. The exception would be if they have viewed it several times, have a profile that makes the seem I would be a fit for what they enjoy and they have had their profile for at least a month or more. Even fitting that criteria, it's still a matter of intuition, whether it seems right to contact them. Of the ones I have reached out to, about 70% have responded. I would say in the last 3 years though, I have reached out to fewer than 20 guys on Rentmen.

 

I always say that just like in the dating world, if someone wants to spend time with you, they will make it happen. If they constantly have excuses, there is something that isn't being said and your best to move on.

[MikeyGMin]

I don't email them or acknowledge them in any way. It they want to have a look, by all means, have a go a it. It's part of my job.

 

Okay...I'll admit it! I look at your ad at least once a week. Those pictures with the very distinct tan lines are ridiculously sexy! I don't jack to them, but I'm glad that I have your blessing.

[keithhardy]

What great responses!!! By all means I have no issues with people looking at my profile, have at it and have fun while doing it (if you cum on the computer screen aim for my chest, I like the feel of a hot load there:rolleyes:) , I just get a bit creeped out that I see the same profile users looking at my pics daily and have never heard from these people!!!! I am not referring to the guys who may look here and there, I am more referring to those that look every day going on months now!!!! It doesn't help when guys use rentmen.com like its a dating site and message you and ask you out on a date and proceed to tell you they don't pay, from one of my serial viewers!!!!! LOL

[mattr]

Oh, I would say yay for cheap thrills! That's half the fun. We put so much work in getting fresh, sexy pictures and we understand that if there is a guy in Kamchatka who will never be able to hire us but loves to look at our profile, he might as well enjoy those pictures. That is precisely what they are for.

 

 

 

I find THAT insulting! You take it back, Sir! (Feyly slapping your face with my white latex glove)

 

By all means, choke that god damned chicken! We are not a Nobel Prize winner demanding respect. We are escorts and we love to be enjoyed. Have a go a it. Maybe after many amazing jerk off sessions looking at our pics you will decide to pick up the phone and meet one of us. But in the meanwhile, we thrive at the thought of you spent, relaxed and happy.

 

Now I had to check you out again (it's been a while) and can I just say HOLY SHIT YOU"RE HOT. I only hope that one day I will get to meet you in an intimate setting!

[keithhardy]

I might be in Philly in February. I may have to look you up.

Oh and Batman is my fav hero. We might have to do some superhero role play.

I will bring my authentic cape and my superman sneakers.

[keithhardy]

With all this discussion of Keith's ass, I had to go see for myself.... Well fuck me, that ass is hot as is the rest of Keith. You have me drooling bud and not just from my mouth!

give me a taste!

[+ WmClarke]

The first time an escort contacted me after I viewed his profile, I freaked out --for about ten seconds.

 

Both he and the second escort who contacted me wrote a short message which showed that they had read my profile. One asked how I was handling the freezing temps in my town (my response: "I'd be better if you were here to warm me up"--cheesy, I know, but we had a great conversation). The other asked if I was familiar with a certain suburb near my town--I just happened to be in that very place when he emailed me. Again, great conversation. The upshot--I've hired one of them, multiple time. And the other is on my short list--some day our travel schedules will coincide!

 

On the flip side, I look at the profiles a lot. Repeatedly. What can I say--I like looking at pictures of hot guys. Usually, what I do when looking at the pictures is G-rated. But sometimes, not so much.

 

And, Keith, I have added you to my buddy list. Next time I'm in Philly, I hope we can connect.

[mattr]

give me a taste!

 

I certainly intend to.... from all sides, if/when we are in the same locale

[+ glennnn]

Keith,

I'm in California and never make it to Philly, so I've never checked you out before.

 

Wow! Just did! You have a perfect cock and your ass is scrumptious! That warm splash you just felt on your chest was from me. So much for never jacking off to pix of escort's, but I promise to limit myself to once a week. Always wanted to see Independence Hall. Maybe..........

[JamahlBrandon]

I always say that just like in the dating world, if someone wants to spend time with you, they will make it happen. If they constantly have excuses, there is something that isn't being said and your best to move on.

 

Though this sounds about as corny as watching the Bachelor/ette series, what you said rings so true in this book:

 

http://d39ttiideeq0ys.cloudfront.net/assets/images/book/medium/9780/7434/9780743451475.jpg

[JamahlBrandon]

When it comes to contacting them, I prefer not to. It feels too close to soliciting. Which is illegal in Canada.

 

I was actually kind of confused by this. Last time I heard Canada had legalized all portions of "soliciting". I knew it sounded too good to be true. I knew it, I knew it. Upon my research, I found its the other way around: meaning, it's illegal for clients to contact you; technically:

C-36, the Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act, came into effect in December, a year after the Supreme Court of Canada struck down many of the country's previous prostitution laws. The court said the old laws violated sex workers' right to safety by not allowing them to make deals in public or work from their homes or other indoor locations.

 

The Conservative government objected to the Supreme Court decision, which would effectively decriminalize prostitution if the government didn't come up with a new law within a year. In June, Justice Minister Peter MacKay introduced C-36, which would turn the focus onto clients by making it illegal to buy sex.

 

"One of the main objectives of the new law is to reduce the incidence of prostitution," said Department of Justice spokesperson Andrew Gowing this week. "Prostitution is an inherently dangerous practice that harms all of Canadian society and, in particular, women. It is also an inherently exploitative practice."

 

http://www.thespec.com/news-story/5240722-new-prostitution-law-cutting-down-business-sex-workers-say/

[rvwnsd]

Hey, Keith, welcome to the forum. Sometimes I will check a guy's ad more than once to see if he is travelling to my area. Other times I click on an ad because I forget that i clicked on it before. Every once in awhile (I would say about 20% of the time) an escort will send me a note because he saw that I checked out his ad. This does not bother me in the least. Not sending me a note doesn't bother me, either.

 

PS: I would totally hire you if you visited Southern California, where I live.

[mike carey]

Hey, Keith, welcome to the forum. Sometimes I will check a guy's ad more than once to see if he is travelling to my area. Other times I click on an ad because I forget that i clicked on it before. Every once in awhile (I would say about 20% of the time) an escort will send me a note because he saw that I checked out his ad.

I second RV's welcome and what he says about reasons for checking profiles more than once. I will also look again if an escort is being discussed in the forum and some new information comes up. The difference in my case is that I'm not a signed up member so I browse anonymously. (So Glennn, unless you created a profile and signed in, escorts won't see that you've been looking. You may wish to create one and sign in so they do! But I don't plan to.)

[Guest countryboywny]

Hey, Keith, welcome to the forum. Sometimes I will check a guy's ad more than once to see if he is travelling to my area. Other times I click on an ad because I forget that i clicked on it before. Every once in awhile (I would say about 20% of the time) an escort will send me a note because he saw that I checked out his ad. This does not bother me in the least. Not sending me a note doesn't bother me, either.

 

+1 Keith, I have a user name on Rentmen and it's not uncommon for me to check the ad of someone who interests me multiple times. I'm looking for travel information, new pics, etc., just monitoring for changes or if there's a travel date close to me. I don't normally make contact with the advertiser unless the stars have lined up and a get-together is possible. So, if you see my user name as a frequent visitor, I'm not a creep.. (well, not a bad creep) I'm just watching for an opportunity.

[rvwnsd]

+1 Keith, I have a user name on Rentmen and it's not uncommon for me to check the ad of someone who interests me multiple times. I'm looking for travel information, new pics, etc., just monitoring for changes or if there's a travel date close to me. I don't normally make contact with the advertiser unless the stars have lined up and a get-together is possible. So, if you see my user name as a frequent visitor, I'm not a creep.. (well, not a bad creep) I'm just watching for an opportunity.

Same here!!!

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey Jamahl,

 

Good on you for taking the time to research this. Most people don't even know the laws of their own country, let alone other countries'. You are right that there is a weird addendum on the laws brought in by the conservatives, however, everyone in Canada is pretty much ignoring the mess Harper and his goons left and we are pretty much ignoring all their laws knowing quite well that the country will come back to its progressive sanity real soon.

 

So no, I don't think that stupid law is damaging business for a simple reason: there is not a single case of police trying to enforce these laws, and we know they won't. This is specially the case under the new liberal government. The only instances in which the police is intervening with prostitution is when it is suspected it is under coercion or under any other illegal condition.

 

What I spoke of is that it has been illegal forever to approach a client out of the blue and canvass for work. That is specially true on the streets but it technically also applies to online venues.

 

In other words, our laws reflect the belief that if someone wants to hire an adult escort working of his or her own volition, he has all the right to express that and pursue it. An escort, however, has to let people alone unless they start the contact.

[+ DickyF]

I do somewhat compulsively review RM ads, often the same ads every day. However I have "do not track me" set under Privacy so escorts won't know.

I check to see if they are traveling to my city, or if they have new pics or videos. If I've arranged a date I'll look at the pics and videos to fantasize about our upcoming meeting. I also check the profile stats which I find interesting.

I have premium membership so I can review some of the private galleries, though the escort will get an email saying I've done so. Often the escort will email me asking if I liked their pix.

I do like that they can access my profile which has my personal data and likes. I'm going to add a faceless pic as well.

I like RM a lot.

[jawjateck]

Some ads are really really lusty, and I view them often. I just do so while logged out. I wouldn't want the companion to get the wrong idea.

[+ Keith30309]

Sometimes a front-page-featured RM companion catches my eye and I take a look at their profile simply out of curiosity, even if they are in a city I'm unlikely to visit.

Other times I have to refresh my memory about someone I've seen before and not contacted for some reason.

Like everyone else, I get the "Hi-You saw my pics" emails and happily respond with compliments, suggestions for new guys, or simple pleasantries.

 

I had a 2-hr meeting with one guy who has a large photo library online on his profile and a huge collection (over a thousand well-done professional pics) offline, which he rotates.

He was hyper-sensitive about viewers of his pics not contacting him and pretty steamed about people using it for "free porn". In idle chit-chat I suggested that he might not want to lose too much sleep over this because of the massive amount of free porn available but he still felt as if he were being taken advantage of.

[jackjackjack]

Sometimes a front-page-featured RM companion catches my eye and I take a look at their profile simply out of curiosity, even if they are in a city I'm unlikely to visit.

Other times I have to refresh my memory about someone I've seen before and not contacted for some reason.

Like everyone else, I get the "Hi-You saw my pics" emails and happily respond with compliments, suggestions for new guys, or simple pleasantries.

 

I had a 2-hr meeting with one guy who has a large photo library online on his profile and a huge collection (over a thousand well-done professional pics) offline, which he rotates.

He was hyper-sensitive about viewers of his pics not contacting him and pretty steamed about people using it for "free porn". In idle chit-chat I suggested that he might not want to lose too much sleep over this because of the massive amount of free porn available but he still felt as if he were being taken advantage of.

 

Then maybe he should only have one photo and he should be in full body armor. That will stop us damn looky loos