Post-appointment message to client

[+ bashful]

I'm new to all this, so I was curious how many of you send a post-appointment message (e.g. text) to a client? I assume if sent, it's sincere.

[Zman]

I can only answer from the client's perspective that it's not super common to receive a text or message after a meeting. But it's nice when it does happen. If I'm on the fence about meeting again it can make all the difference.

[seaboy4hire]

I always send a message saying thanks for having me over. I have yet to meet up with someone who I did not have a good time with.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ sf westcoaster]

As a client I have received very few follow-up thank you's, however when I have I have been more likely to rehire that escort than those who did not send a follow-up.

[rvwnsd]

Roughly half the escorts I've hired have sent thank you emails or texts. More than half have sent "hope you made it home safely" texts when I have driven a long distance to see them.

[TruHart1]

I have to say that I feel doggone lucky to have many of the guys I see on a regular basis never fail to send me (as a client!) a positive text or email thanking me for time we've spent together. I always respond in kind with praise for his expertise!!!

 

TruHart1

[LADoug1]

It would please me to receive a thank you from an escort. And, assuming I enjoyed the experience, it would definitely influence my decision to hire him again. I'm big on appreciation and common courtesy.

[+ Truereview]

Post appointment follow-up messages do not influence my rehiring decisions; however, I do consider such messages smart marketing and brand-enhancing. I'd say about 70% of my guys follow up with such messages. IMO, I think for the message to have a full branding punch, it should be tailored and authentic. Don't message me if you don't really want a repeat. Also, if the message is truly heartfelt, have it include a memory and ask for more business:

1. "Thanks for the good time, hope you made it home ok." Uhm...ok, thanks
   
2. "Thanks for the good time, hope you made it home ok, loved the way you uncorked my bottle" That's better.
   
3. "Thanks for the good time, hope you made it home ok, loved the way you uncorked my bottle, would appreciate doing it again" Luv it
   

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I almost always send a thank you text/email the day after a session. Just something simple acknowledging my appreciation for sharing their time and energy with me.

[+ DERRIK]

As a client, I typically send a note that I made it home safely and thank then got thier time

[+ DickyF]

As the client I have always sent the message first! Usually right away; don't even give the escort a chance to be first.

Don't know why I do this.

Regardless a kindly grateful response from the young man is very appreciated.

Some escorts are so good at this while others could not care less. The former know how to build a client base.

[seaboy4hire]

I wonder if sending a thank you message is a generational thing? I'm older and was raised to always send a thank you note of some kind when someone does something nice.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ purplekow]

Getting a tip of the hat text after a session is rare for me. Perhaps there is nothing to tip the hat about, or perhaps they are still sleeping off the exhausting sex and then three days later, when fully recovered, they are too busy. In either case, I always appreciate a spontaneous text from an escort and when I get them, it does make it more likely that I will rehire. Recently I received an hello text from an escort who I had not seen in many months. As it turns out, a traveling escort had canceled claiming illness and I was feeling a bit neglected. The text lead to my hiring the texter for that evening, which worked out well for both of us. Even a brief: "Hey guy have a great weekend" is nice. I usually tell an escort it is fine to contact me if they wish. I know there are guys out there who do not want unexpected texts,

Just as a note, three emojis and an exclamation point, seems like a pocket dial more than a real form of casual communication. Add an endearment, a name, a picture something that makes it seem personal.

[Rudynate]

I like a litle bit of email or text interaction after and encounter.

[seaboy4hire]

Post appointment follow-up messages do not influence my rehiring decisions; however, I do consider such messages smart marketing and brand-enhancing. I'd say about 70% of my guys follow up with such messages. IMO, I think for the message to have a full branding punch, it should be tailored and authentic. Don't message me if you don't really want a repeat. Also, if the message is truly heartfelt, have it include a memory and ask for more business:

1. "Thanks for the good time, hope you made it home ok." Uhm...ok, thanks
   
2. "Thanks for the good time, hope you made it home ok, loved the way you uncorked my bottle" That's better.
   
3. "Thanks for the good time, hope you made it home ok, loved the way you uncorked my bottle, would appreciate doing it again" Luv it
   

 

Sending a ersoanlized message afterwards shows that the escort truely appreciates the client as a person and not just an ATM.

 

Hugs

Greg

[jawjateck]

Many companions send me a post-meeting "thank you", which is remarkable since I often hire newbies who haven't yet polished their business model or marketing skills. I usually have ongoing conversations (text or email) with companions, even when there is no scheduled reunion. They ask for advice, apparently they think I'm a Master (Yoda) Jawja. HAHA!

[Juan Vancouver]

Almost always. Depends on whether my client has told me it is OK to contact him or not.

 

I agree that for many of us saying thank you after spending an enjoyable time with someone is a logical continuation of the fun.

 

And yes. It has to be honest and specific. Think a little about the characteristics you enjoyed, what made you feel good and how this session was special for you. Then thank him about that. Avoid generalities, avoid terms of endearment that are normally reserved for lovers and more importantly, avoid exaggerations and lies. That is the difference between a thoughtful continuation of an enjoyable human interaction and premeditated, dehumanizing publicity.

[dcguy20]

I can't recall if I've ever received a follow-up thank you from any one. I know it definitely would be appreciated.

[+ Truereview]

I can't recall if I've ever received a follow-up thank you from any one. I know it definitely would be appreciated.

Here you go:

 

That was a great post, DCguy. THANK YOU. I particularly enjoyed your punctuation. Hope we get to do it again and again...

[dcguy20]

You!! LOL

[manTOman]

It's always nice and appreciated to get an email or text afterwards. I'll usually send a thank you note if I had a good time, but it's even better when I find a surprise thank you email in my inbox when I return home.

And while you're at it if you've got regulars send them a Christmas/Holiday/New Years email message as well. We all like a little attention sometimes.

[jawjateck]

premeditated, dehumanizing publicity.

 

If it turns me on, I'm not offended.

[+ José Soplanucas]

I can't recall if I've ever received a follow-up thank you from any one. I know it definitely would be appreciated.

Have you been already with Mark? He does send nice warm txt messages after a meeting.

[dcguy20]

Have you been already with Mark? He does send nice warm txt messages after a meeting.

I have not seen Mark.

[big-n-tall]

Some have... most haven't.

 

One I'm particularly fond of, has sent me thank you texts that kind of blew my mind the last two times I have seen him. I've known him for years, but have only seen him 3 times.

 

The first time, he just said thanks and that it was nice to meet me. The second time (without getting into specifics) he texted me and said he couldn't stop thinking about me... that he had had an amazing time. After the last time I saw him, he sent me a long text saying our session was probably the best sexual experience he's ever had. He said more, but it starts to get a tad explicit. Obviously what he said is/was huge ego boost.

 

Is he being truthful? I sure hope so. All I know is he doesn't bottom much. We had to talk about cleaning out/douching. He rarely does overnights (he has work and home obligations), but we are doing a overnight or weekend in February (our first). Ultimately the plan is to see each other more often.

 

Anyway, I always send a note of thanks. If I'm more familiar with the guy, I might add more.

 

So yes, a thank you, even a short response, is rather gratifying. But that's the case in any situation.