Hiring an Escort when the client had Prostate Cancer

[LADoug1]

Is there some sort of implanted device to help a guy get/maintain an erection? I was with someone who had some sort of implant. He told me about it in advance and I felt it (felt like an implanted cockring) but he didn't explain what it was for. I didn't ask.

[+ WmClarke]

Yes. You can get penile implants; they run about 10-15K according to my urologist.

 

I think you manually (somehow) pump then up when you're ready.

[Harrison Maine]

I know the pumps that are used with FTM phalloplasties are inflated with a testicular pump, but I don't know if they work like that for cis-men.

[keithhardy]

I am also sorry this has happened to you. I have experienced several guys that have had this same condition and have learned a lot about it. There are many different things people use to help combat the side effects of it, from internal to external devices and some unfortunately nothing has worked. I have had the luxury of meeting a fine gentleman with this condition who over dinner told me about it and his frustration with it. I spoke to him about what I learned from others and asked him if he minded sharing what he tried, he did and said nothing worked. I told him about guys I met in the past with the same issue and things they use that worked for them, he said he was going to discuss with his doctor what I told him. We finished dinner and still had a very enjoyable evening, regardless of his condition. A few weeks later he called me to tell me he got one of the devices and it was working great and thanked me. The next time I saw him, he had no issue getting an erection! Please feel free to email me if you would like to discuss some of the things I have seen used and rest assure many of us escorts would not in anyway judge you and we would still have lots of fun with you!

[Guy Fawkes]

"I'm looking for a BFE but have physical issues because of having had prostate cancer." If they run away screaming, they aren't your escort; if they start asking questions like: "What do you need?" They're your man.

 

Please read this article: http://www.out.com/lifestyle/2016/2/09/price-intimacy-time-i-hired-sex-worker and understand that your not alone and that there are people that will understand and will rock you boat in a wonderful way.

[+ Oliver]

I have used the following after initial contacts with someone I have not seen before - "Sometime ago I ran across a discussion concerning whether one should disclose a disability. It was recommended one disclose any information that might be useful to his date so that he is not watching the proverbial pot, waiting for it to boil, and wondering if he’s doing something wrong when nothing happens. Therefore, I think it incumbent upon me to let you know that I do have what I consider to be a minor disability. Fifteen years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Because of the very early detection, I had many alternatives for treatment. I chose surgical removal of the prostate. I have fully recovered and am cancer-free still today. The minor problem – I DO boil – I just don’t “boil over”. By the same token, because I don’t, I thoroughly enjoy it when my partner “boils over”!! I hope that’s not a problem."

 

I have never had a problem with the gentlemen I have engaged under these circumstances. But then, I only engage those I feel will be compatible, after much research. After sending this information I have received very positive responses, often enthusiastic with salacious references to "simmering" and "boiling".

 

Also, please see my tag line (below, in red) - it was offered by one of these gentlemen and I have adopted it!