Is it just me . . .

[borgerback]

. . . or are more 'mainstream' escorts publishing/publicizing their bondage skill/willingness?

 

Having said that, it's a little disappointing (as a few of us have noted before) that escorts seem to check off the 'Bondage' interest on Rentmen, but don't really have equipment OR experience - although I appreciate the willingness . . .

 

[+ honcho]

Back when I was able to afford hiring more frequently, I would bring my own wrist and ankle restraints with me.

 

I knew they fit me, weren't going to cause nerve damage, were inescapable and the real deal.

[whipped guy]

Well, while I'm not much into bondage per se, most guys who advertise a BDSM scene don't have much equipment. Some only work with rope. My favorite story concerns a guy who said that he had S&M equipment. When I got to his place we entered his well appointed bedroom which was decorated alla Luis Vuitton. He went to the drawer in his nightstand and took out a small slap paddle and a mini flogger. That was it! Of course I can understand that he might not feel comfortable using anything larger. After all, God forbid if a fine lamp got knocked over during the heat of the moment.

 

Therefore, like Honcho mentions above, I always travel with my personal accouterments and it has proven to be the key to success. Incidentally, as the OP mentioned I have also noticed an increase in escorts advertising a BDSM scene. One caught my eye the other day. I plan on asking a few questions prior to definitely hiring him.

 

On Rentboy many guys simply checked off boxes. On Rentmen at least they list such things in the "About Me" section and as such I think it bears more weight.

[Moondance]

Is it just me . . . or are more 'mainstream' escorts publishing/publicizing their bondage skill/willingness?

 

I have also noticed an increase in escorts advertising a BDSM scene.

 

Is it just me, or are some of the newly-minted "Masters" out there a little ... young?

 

If you've only been eligible to vote for some single-digit number of years, or if you still own any of the underwear you wore in high school, or if your Mom made you a sandwich on any recent day ... well ... sorry ... but the idea of calling you "Sir" is just ...

 

Funny.

[whipped guy]

Is it just me, or are some of the newly-minted "Masters" out there a little ... young?

 

If you've only been eligible to vote for some single-digit number of years, or if you still own any of the underwear you wore in high school, or if your Mom made you a sandwich on any recent day ... well ... sorry ... but the idea of calling you "Sir" is just ...

 

Funny.

Definitely! I have noticed that as well. There is one youngin who has caught my eye, but I really can't see it working out. I have the feeling that in the sage words of the esteemed Judge Judy he would be, "Half Baked"! I also have the feeling that I would be instructing him in the proper techniques.

 

In any event, it probably would be more fun (not to mention more apt) if I were playing the "daddy" role and he were playing the role of the disobedient son. I have always said that the best S&M tops have had experiences as subs along the way. I would be more than willing to give him some experience.

 

At any rate, as I alluded to above most of these guys who advertise a dedicated playroom simply mean that they have a slap paddle hiding in a dresser drawer in their bedroom.

[Moondance]

Definitely! I have noticed that as well. There is one youngin who has caught my eye, but I really can't see it working out. I have the feeling that in the sage words of the esteemed Judge Judy he would be, "Half Baked"! I also have the feeling that I would be instructing him in the proper techniques.

 

This discussion of Youngster-Doms brought to mind the title of an old Ann-Margret flick ...

 

 

Sorry, but if you have an unlined face and dumpling cheeks, I assume you're only saying you're a Dom because your given name is Dominic.