Unconventional role plays and fantasies

[+ José Soplanucas]

Hello friends!

 

A new member opened a thread in The Deli asking for a partner to perform a vampire fantasy, and brought me old memories and the lust for some unusual role playing. So I am opening this thread here, inviting everyone to share fantasies they have that are not the typical ones, or role plays they performed that are not the conventional ones. Of course the definition of unconventional would be too distracting, so I leave it there, whatever it is for you.

Let me start by sharing my own experience with vampires. I am a control freak, so the idea of having the power to charm people and suggest them to do things, always had an strong attractive to me. The character of the vampire and the situation where him would charm the victim and posses him was/is a powerful afrodiziac. I would use the situation in my masturbatory fantasies since very young, until I started to try to role play the situation with a partner.

The problem was that no partner would hold the character, or they would laugh at my acting as a vampire. Until I found the only one who clicked with it. Back in the 80s and 90s I did a lot of acting and directing in the "underground" scene in Buenos Aires. I was dating a fellow actor, I was in my 30s and he was in his 20s. And we would do it wonderfully. We would play a vampire movie, our favorite was the original black and white Nosferatu by Murnau, and we would role play with the same expressionist acting style. I would be a vampire who would suggest to the "chongo" (argentine slang for a masculine stud) to drag and end fucking him while focusing on sucking his neck. It was very hot and remembering it is making me very horns right now.

Anyways, what really made me so horny was not being a vampire but being in control. Later on I found this pearls, originally from a web porn site that, I understand, did not work:

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1676738027

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=152066816

 

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1320807101

 

It really drives me crazy, I am so sorry that website ( hypnothugs.com) did not work. It struck me as real, or those boys deserve the Oscar.

[doitb4ugo]

The vampire theme is powerful for me as well. I am the subject not the master so to speak. I don't find that this theme is very fictional in that is is a reality for me that when someone becomes my master, he pretty much has control over me. The hottest part for me is knowing how very powerful that vampire can be in a society where people are so easily conquered. it is a reality in life which fiction has not made it less real but more real. To be completely overtaken but this powerful creature is pure delight.

[+ poolboy48220]

I thought the original posters fantasies matched up well with my own - being controlled, forced into sex, where my mind was fighting against it but my body was turned on. A lot of the kink.com videos play to this, the MenOnEdge videos where the subject is resisting in particular. I've been watching the BoundGods Connor Maguire & Abel Archer scene, where Connor's fuckin Abel, reaches around, and says "You said you don't like this but you're fucking hard."

 

I've had little luck playing that scene out with escorts, they always seem to interpret it as me wanting to muscle worship them; the 'unwilling victim' part never seems to gel.

[whipped guy]

I've had little luck playing that scene out with escorts, they always seem to interpret it as me wanting to muscle worship them; the 'unwilling victim' part never seems to gel.

For some reason, and no matter what the scene, it is always difficult to get things to "gel" when role play is involved. It takes two people to be on the exact same wavelength and in the exact same mood at the exact same time. Case in point, for a recent hire I had discussed a scenario with an escort. When he arrived he was emphatically not in the mood for such a scene. Things worked out reasonably well even if we never did what I had anticipated, but I had come into the session with a different mindset.

 

That's why I have decided that it's often better to just "go with the flow" and let things evolve naturally so as to avoid being disappointed. In the long run that seems to usually work better. However, I do have some unfulfilled fantasies. Not many, but a few.

[+ José Soplanucas]

That's why I have decided that it's often better to just "go with the flow" and let things evolve naturally so as to avoid being disappointed. In the long run that seems to usually work better. However, I do have some unfulfilled fantasies. Not many, but a few.

 

C'mon whipped g, this is the place to share your weirdest fantasies.

[whipped guy]

C'mon whipped g, this is the place to share your weirdest fantasies.

Well, it invokes a reenactment of a number of scenes from the BDSM classic Steel Dungeon Two, and especially the upside-down suspension and flogging scene!

 

 

Regarded by many and reviewed over and over as "One of the best SM videos ever made," STEEL DUNGEON TWO stars Zeus Models of the Year Brian Dawson, Trenton Comeaux, and muscle machine Marky Dukane (1989, 1992 and 1993 respectively), plus Devon Rexman, and Jeff Burnam. Shot entirely on location in a vast working steel mill, sadistic mill boss Brian Dawson puts his sweaty, grimy, steel mill slaves thru four of the hottest, most intense SM sessions ever caught on video. Using the steel mill's gigantic machinery and overhead moving cranes, STEEL DUNGEON TWO provides the ultimate masculine background for the B&D agonies of steel mill slaves Comeaux, Rexman, and Dukane. A four-way latrine floor jack-off orgy , eight cum shots, starring three Zeusmen of the Year...all captured by three cameras... definitely make STEEL DUNGEON TWO "One of the best SM videos ever made."

[maxs88]

thanks for kicking this off latbear!

 

i have to echo poolboy....so turned on by the thought of being an innocent victim. ive always been more attracted to the villain so being at the mercy of a sadistic guy who enjoys inflicting pain and being "bad" is what i'm looking to explore. it's a little complicated because im not turned on by receiving pain itself, but more the mental role that im just a piece of meat that the other guy will enjoy playing with. and the roleplay wouldn't work unless my partner seems to be enjoying what he's doing. that's why i mentioned the vampire, serial killer/rapist, age play stuff in the original thread.....it makes him more evil and sadistic.

 

i agree roleplays can be tough, especially when its this kind of stuff, can feel a bit unnatural so easy to break character. and id find it tough to bring it up with an escort as i'm not looking for traditional S&M. if the things my partner says (i.e. the verbal/mental domination aspect) matches one of these roles, that would be a huge turn on. like him threatening me, saying how much he enjoys raping and torturing, how he's going to kill me when he's done with me.....too much? haha who knows, still exploring :-)

 

so to sum up, im really turned on by an evil bad guy, who enjoys intimidating/scaring me and inflicting pain.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Thanks for sharing! I have never tried hard S/M but I've been always curious.

[+ José Soplanucas]

thanks for kicking this off latbear!

 

i have to echo poolboy....so turned on by the thought of being an innocent victim. ive always been more attracted to the villain so being at the mercy of a sadistic guy who enjoys inflicting pain and being "bad" is what i'm looking to explore. it's a little complicated because im not turned on by receiving pain itself, but more the mental role that im just a piece of meat that the other guy will enjoy playing with. and the roleplay wouldn't work unless my partner seems to be enjoying what he's doing. that's why i mentioned the vampire, serial killer/rapist, age play stuff in the original thread.....it makes him more evil and sadistic.

 

i agree roleplays can be tough, especially when its this kind of stuff, can feel a bit unnatural so easy to break character. and id find it tough to bring it up with an escort as i'm not looking for traditional S&M. if the things my partner says (i.e. the verbal/mental domination aspect) matches one of these roles, that would be a huge turn on. like him threatening me, saying how much he enjoys raping and torturing, how he's going to kill me when he's done with me.....too much? haha who knows, still exploring

 

so to sum up, im really turned on by an evil bad guy, who enjoys intimidating/scaring me and inflicting pain.

My pleasure, thank you for reminding me of this kinky side of my sexuality, I have been doing the BFE for way too long now. And do not feel like what you are sharing is too much, it is actually very inspiring.

[whipped guy]

My pleasure, thank you for reminding me of this kinky side of my sexuality, I have been doing the BFE for way too long now. And do not feel like what you are sharing is too much, it is actually very inspiring.

You mention the BFE. I like to hire traditionally vanilla BFE type escorts and get them to play the Dom S&M guy. That way I can "train" them to my liking. As one guy with whom I have had a nice relationship over a period of years recently said to me, "When we get together it is so different as I normally do the boy friend experience." My reply was, "Well, for me this is the boy friend experience!" It's simply a matter of perspective and just a different manner in which to make love and please one's partner. It all boils down to channeling the emotional intensity and ferver in a somewhat different manner. The end result of all that expended energy being total gratification is the same.

 

Of course at times I pull an S&M switch and that's when it really gets interesting!