Booked for 2 hours, but only had 1

[goodbeingbad]

Hello gentlemen, I am somewhat new in the area of hiring escorts but am having fun learning the ropes (and one time, fun with ropes, but I digress.)

A few months ago, I hired an escort for an hour and had a great experience! He was attentive, hotter than his pictures, and left me ready to schedule again.

I recently contacted him for a rematch and inquired about a two hour session this time. He gave me a price and we set a time. Once again he was awesome. As he passed his things to go, I realized it had only been an hour. I paid him for an hour, plus a big tip. I gave him the money in an envelope, and he being a perfect gentleman, did not open it.

The next day, he texted me about the cash, being discrete and acknowledging we had only spent an hour together. I offered more, and he declined. Okay, I really do not want to screw this guy over (well, maybe some screwing, once again I digress)

Any thoughts on how I could have handled this better?

[Rudynate]

It depends. If a fixed fee was agreed on, then, arguably, you owe him the entire fee. If an hourly rate was agreed on, he only performed for an hour and that's all you owe him for.

[+ poolboy48220]

I think the question of who ended the session might be part of the answer. Ideally, if you started to wrap things up early, the escort would mention"You've got plenty of time left if you want to go again" or something like that, and if you declined, I think you'd owe him some if not all of the full two-hour price. If he was ready to go after an hour, then I'd say pay for the hour.

[+ WhamIAm]

If the escort starts dressing of his own accord an hour before the session ends, in my book he's stopped the clock. You could ask "Wanna have another go?" or "What time is it anyway?" But, if he's explicitly or implicitly decided to leave before the time that you'd agreed to compensate him for ends, that's on his dime. In an hourly arrangement, you don't get paid when you decide to leave work early. If you end it early, of course, another matter entirely.

[Guest Starbuck]

Am I missing something? Can you clarify what the issue/question is?

 

You hired him for two hours. He packed his things to go after one hour. You paid him for an hour (plus a big tip). He contacted you the next day about the payment (AND SAID WHAT?), acknowledged that you had only spent ONE hour together (not TWO), and declined an offer of more cash that you made for some reason that eludes me. Is there actually an issue here? Or has the whole exchange been concluded to the satisfaction of both parties?

[+ WilliamM]

Any thoughts on how I could have handled this better?

 

If I am reading your message correctly, you did not mention a concern about a hour appointment rather than the expected two-hour session while he was still there. I understand your reluctance, but you do know him -- it was the second time & you had communicated with each other before meeting again.

 

Note: I agree with Starbuck though about needed clarification.

[Amoco]

Respectfully, I'd suggest that the issue appears ilusive because it's probably related to that feeling new clients get when they feel they've disappointed or offended their new friend and lover. I can clearly remember my earliest hiring experiences and wondering why my new buddy wasn't nearly as excited as I was, and frequently wondering if I had, in fact, done things - both in and out of bed - that might have upset him. Starbuck makes a good point in regard to what seems to be an absence of an issue. Despite that, I take the way you feel seriously and would suggest that you consider a brief note along the following line....

 

Dear XXXXXX

 

I'm new to the escort scene and wanted to take a minute to tell you how much I enjoyed our Two sessions together. I felt badly about the financial aspect of our last meeting and am sincerely open to learning the correct way of handling these situations. To my mind, I paid for our time together and tried to show my appreciation with a generous tip. Please tell me if you were expecting me to pay for a two hour session, and if so, why we didn't remain together for the second hour? Honestly, I'm not clear on proper protocol and just want to make sure that it doesn't interfere with future appointments.

[sincitymix]

Im of the mind, if im hiring someone for 2 hours, and they get dressed and are looking to leave after an hour.. they get paid for 1 hour.

If after an hour, I get up and decide to leave, after hiring for 2 hours, ill pay for 2 hours.(unless there is some very mitigating circumstances on why im leaving after 1 hour)

Otherwise the escort can sit there and look pretty for the 2nd hour.

[goodbeingbad]

At the end of the hour, he had reached a climax, but I had not. He jumped in the shower and afterwards, started getting dressed. I was a little surprised, and honestly, a little bit hurt. I acknowledge this to be my own insecurities coming up: did he not want to do another hour? Was he not having at least some fun? I wanted to bring it up, but at the time I did not. I completely admit this was my fault and I should have.

 

I see this forum not only as a place to learn more about the people behind the image, but also where we can learn to be better clients. I guess that is what I was asking advice for. The whole situation of hiring is still new to me. This is the first repeat I have tried.

 

Starbuck, in reference to your question, I think the whole exchange has concluded to the satisfaction of both parties, I am just asking for suggestions to make it better next time.

[sincitymix]

At the end of the hour, he had reached a climax, but I had not. He jumped in the shower and afterwards, started getting dressed. I was a little surprised, and honestly, a little bit hurt. I acknowledge this to be my own insecurities coming up: did he not want to do another hour? Was he not having at least some fun? I wanted to bring it up, but at the time I did not. I completely admit this was my fault and I should have.

 

I see this forum not only as a place to learn more about the people behind the image, but also where we can learn to be better clients. I guess that is what I was asking advice for. The whole situation of hiring is still new to me. This is the first repeat I have tried.

 

Starbuck, in reference to your question, I think the whole exchange has concluded to the satisfaction of both parties, I am just asking for suggestions to make it better next time.

 

I think some escorts are of the mine, when they cum, the session is over.

[Guest Starbuck]

I think some escorts are of the mind, when they cum, the session is over.

 

Whereas the better ones see a second hour as a chance to cum again.

[gallahadesquire]

At the end of the hour, he had reached a climax, but I had not. He jumped in the shower and afterwards, started getting dressed. I was a little surprised, and honestly, a little bit hurt. I acknowledge this to be my own insecurities coming up: did he not want to do another hour? Was he not having at least some fun? I wanted to bring it up, but at the time I did not. I completely admit this was my fault and I should have.

 

I see this forum not only as a place to learn more about the people behind the image, but also where we can learn to be better clients. I guess that is what I was asking advice for. The whole situation of hiring is still new to me. This is the first repeat I have tried.

 

Starbuck, in reference to your question, I think the whole exchange has concluded to the satisfaction of both parties, I am just asking for suggestions to make it better next time.

 

His " jumping in the shower and getting dressed" signaled play-time was over. HE decided that it was done. I'm not entirely sure why you even tipped him; but he did not deserve two hours pay for one hour's work

 

You did nothing wrong, except maybe (erroneously) tipping him. If you want to see him again, make sure it's going to be for time spent together: one hour vs. two.

[Guest countryboywny]

His " jumping in the shower and getting dressed" signaled play-time was over. HE decided that it was done. I'm not entirely sure why you even tipped him; but he did not deserve two hours pay for one hour's work

 

You did nothing wrong, except maybe (erroneously) tipping him. If you want to see him again, make sure it's going to be for time spent together: one hour vs. two.

 

In my opinion, a GOOD escort is well aware of the length of time that was booked, is a good communicator, provides the requested service and makes sure you are satisfied. I don't think your experience was at all typical of a session with a real pro, and when you experience a different guy, I think you'll see the difference. I understand that this guy pushes your buttons, but I think he did you a disservice. Seek out a guy with a stellar reputation and give him a try. Depending on your location, the poster's here are very knowledgeable, ask for information.

[gregkidman]

Being a good communicator is KEY. Both client and escort have to rise to that level. That being said, next time, say that you would like an hour with an option to extend for another hour. My dick and ass can be fickle. Once an hour has passed, both you and the escort can re-assess the situation and decide whether to continue or not. This has worked very well for me.

Aside: once I mis-counted the $20 bills to an escort. Once I was heading out from his hotel, he told me that I paid him too much and asked me to come back to get my excess $$$. So sweet.

[+ purplekow]

I hired an escort in DC for a two hour session and close to the end of the first hour, he sped things up and I had come. He slipped off to get me a warm towel and came back with the warm towel and dressed, I said that I thought we had booked for two hours and he stripped down and jumped right back into bed and he made that second hour more memorable than the first. It could be that he was confused about the length of the appointment. It could be that he was the one come not one session kind of guy, In any case, he was accepting of the payment as payment in full, so move on. Next time you hire him, you can assuage you guilt with another generous tip or you can just chalk this up as a learning experience.

[+ dutchmuch]