Where do you find a bottom like this?

[Walker1]

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1342177818

[whipped guy]

Reminds me if a guy at the NYBC...

 

At the NY Bondage Club there is a who often attends and wears a speedo type brief that says SPANK ME on it. He positions himself at a place so he is bent over on a bench type object and waits for volunteers to have at him. He comes with a bag full of paddies etc which are laid out next to him. On more than one occasion I have spent at least a half hour putting a smile on his face... a half hour or until my arm fells like it is going to fall off... Whatever comes first! He is a tough SOB and I have told him so. Unfortnately he has not been there the last few times that I visited the establishment. Though the last time I was there I frankly did not notice if he were there as I was quite involved with two other very interesting individuals.

[Walker1]

Wow! that sounds extremely hot. I am getting interested in spanking now and have been in hibernation for a while. The above one and this one especially seems extremely sexy. In the situations you describe, does bruising occur? Or is this just for videos and IRL, we stop before? The action here is after 5 minutes.

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1608619248

[whipped guy]

Regarding excessive bruising, I always try to keep things sane. One can experience the pain as pleasure and live to play another day. Ideally only some redness should be induced... ideally that us. Still at times stuff happens, but the goal is to minimize such mishaps... at least in my book.

 

Guys who have had experiences as BDSM bottoms usually make the best BDSM tops. To take the scenario in the video as an example, I have been caned. The dom was totally irresponsible and the brushing lasted for over a week. It was so bad that I had to cancel a planned hookup with another escort I had previously scheduled for later that week. It would have been better if I could have enjoyed both sessions. In any event, I later attended a demo of how to properly cane an individual and it left no appreciable marks on the victim... Just pleasurable sensations of pain. So based on that experience and a few others I have gained the knowledge regarding how to determine how best to challenge a bottom... and do so safely. Of course everyone is different and there are many factors involved...

 

Using the example of the guy from the club, he has one of the firmest butts imaginable... Another individual with a more flabby bottom would bruise more easily. The type and size of paddle etc. is also a factor. Therefore one must properly gauge a number of parameters to keep things sane. Of course some guys like to enter the realm of insanity, but I prefer not to go there. One should be able to play another day... and soon. The same goes for flogging and I posted something a while back in that regard as well.

 

In summation, I think that the video was a bit over the top, but then again if the bottom indeed has a tough butt... and it was a beauty... he might just recover quickly from such a scene. However, I would guess there might be a bit more lingering bruising than I personally would prefer to see... Just my opinion and from someone who has been there... The old... or rather younger WG... who wanted to try almost everything... Who then gained experience when he realized that it would be best not to go there again... at least not with such intensity. So to answer your question... I like to see and experience a "healthy red glow"... cherry red... a burning and stinging sensation... one that will clear up within a reasonable time frame. That's how it is usually practiced in the real world...

[wisconsinguy]

At the NY Bondage Club there is a who often attends and wears a speedo type brief that says SPANK ME on it. He positions himself at a place so he is bent over on a bench type object and waits for volunteers to have at him. He comes with a bag full of paddies etc which are laid out next to him. On more than one occasion I have spent at least a half hour putting a smile on his face... a half hour or until my arm fells like it is going to fall off... Whatever comes first! He is a tough SOB and I have told him so. Unfortnately he has not been there the last few times that I visited the establishment. Though the last time I was there I frankly did not notice if he were there as I was quite involved with two other very interesting individuals.

I was just reviewing posts that I missed. The thought of the pain/pleasure thing is really enticing. Finding a good teacher will be the difficult avenue!

[+ dutchmuch]

I must say, expertly done.

[+ Funguy]

Finding a good teacher will be the difficult avenue!

 

I think not!

[whipped guy]

I was just reviewing posts that I missed. The thought of the pain/pleasure thing is really enticing. Finding a good teacher will be the difficult avenue!

 

I think not!

I know not!

[TruHart1]

You've already found the best teacher!!!

 

I was just reviewing posts that I missed. The thought of the pain/pleasure thing is really enticing. Finding a good teacher will be the difficult avenue!

 

I think not!

 

I know not!

 

So wisconsinguy, it would appear here that the consensus is that your escort of choice is considered quite the expert on what you would like to learn and that he can give you exactly the lessons you crave as his student!

 

TruHart1

[Topbreed]

I agree with whipped guy - the more tight and muscular the ass, the quicker the recovery. That said, often escorts will agree to this but not be " into it". Theres a fine line between abuse/ sexuality in this. Joseph Rough is a young pup who enjoys rougher play.

[marylander1940]

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1342177818

 

I respect whatever consensual act someone wants to do but this ain't for me, I'm vanilla!