How do you ensure...

[nikpmup]

Hi everyone. I'm new to this, both the forum and exploring the possibilities of hiring an escort.

 

What always concerns me is how to ensure that the potential escort is not somehow involved with law enforcement, not looking to "sting."

 

I've gotten general advice before, like "be careful," which isn't very helpful. Does anyone have specific advice about things to look for, etc.? If an ad has one or more nude photographs, can I take that as a good sign (i.e., could police looking to sting post naked pictures of themselves?)? Are the more reviews an escort has or the number of different sites they post to more evidence of a "legit" escort, or could reviews be faked?

 

Any specific advice anyone might have would be GREATLY appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to help a newbie out.

[BaronArtz]

Welcome to this board. I hope it will be a positive experience for you. There is no fool-proof method do avoid a 'sting'. However, stings involving male escorts are rare. Here are my suggestions:

 

1) Hire only escorts that have been reviewed on this site. There are 100s to chose from.

2) Never discuss (verbally, in text, or emails) 'money' and 'sex' in the same instance. It is OK, I think, to ask what the 'tip' is for time spent together. Better still, don't ask at all. The price should be in the ad.

3) Do not meet an escort (unless if he was reviewed as per the above) in a hotel or motel. These are favorite places for cops to set up stings. Especially in Florida, I understand.

4) Do not pick up an escort on the street. Do not even discuss with or make a proposal to an escort on the street.

5) Be very careful with escorts you find on discounted websites like backpage, craigslist, adam4adam.

6) Be suspicious of escorts asking substantially lower fees than what the market rates are. Especially if these escorts are new to your area. They could be cops trying to entice you.

7) If you do get arrested, by all means, don't admit anything. You have a right not to answer questions law enforcement asks you.

 

Don't worry too much, and by all means, have fun with this!

[wisconsinguy]

First of all, welcome! Although I am not an escort, I believe I went through the same situation you may be going through only a few months ago. This is the site to help you through these initial stages. I never really worried about the "sting" type of situation. I chose a real reviewed gentleman, and have not looked back since. So many members helped me out with my basic questions, you can't go wrong asking your questions here. Please don't hesitate to PM me if you would like.

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

All of BaronArtz's advice is sound.

 

The reviews in Daddy's are much more reliable than those published elsewhere. I don't recommend making a decision based on reviews on rent boy, m4r etc.

 

Start with an escort with a solid track record in the reviews here, and feel free to ask for more information about him in the Deli forum.

 

Some members are cautious responding to newbies, but this is a friendly and supportive forum. As you participate in conversations people will get to know you. You'll meet some remarkably intelligent, insightful, and accomplished men (and a couple of women) here who will share their wisdom and guide you toward good experiences.

 

There's no harm in approaching with caution. Schedule a short phone call with a prospective hire to get a sense of whether the two of you are a match. (That's as much for his benefit as for yours.) His initial response may be delayed or concise, because he's busy with his other job or on an extended booking with another client. But if he can't eventually find 5 minutes for a phone introduction, he's not a good first hire.

 

Meeting in hotels is a complicated subject. Search the forum archives for more information.

 

Be willing to pay full price when you're starting out. The experienced guys with solid reputations and consistently good reviews aren't cheap. In big US cities, a normal rate is between $200 and $300 for the first hour. If that sounds like too much, ask yourself how much you pay your therapist, lawyer, doctor...

 

Take as much time as you need.

[wisconsinguy]

All of BaronArtz's advice is sound.

 

The reviews in Daddy's are much more reliable than those published elsewhere. I don't recommend making a decision based on reviews on rent boy, m4r etc.

 

Start with an escort with a solid track record in the reviews here, and feel free to ask for more information about him in the Deli forum.

 

Some members are cautious responding to newbies, but this is a friendly and supportive forum. As you participate in conversations people will get to know you. You'll meet some remarkably intelligent, insightful, and accomplished men (and a couple of women) here who will share their wisdom and guide you toward good experiences.

 

There's no harm in approaching with caution. Schedule a short phone call with a prospective hire to get a sense of whether the two of you are a match. (That's as much for his benefit as for yours.) His initial response may be delayed or concise, because he's busy with his other job or on an extended booking with another client. But if he can't eventually find 5 minutes for a phone introduction, he's not a good first hire.

 

Meeting in hotels is a complicated subject. Search the forum archives for more information.

 

Be willing to pay full price when you're starting out. The experienced guys with solid reputations and consistently good reviews aren't cheap. In big US cities, a normal rate is between $200 and $300 for the first hour. If that sounds like too much, ask yourself how much you pay your therapist, lawyer, doctor...

 

Take as much time as you need.

All great advice. I chuckle at the last one. Took me about two years!!!

[+ azdr0710]

great advice above.....there are so many good guys reviewed here at Daddy's that you should be able to stick with them and find a dude that will be to your liking.....one more thing about the money: come to an agreement ahead of time, then tell your escort, politely, that you will pay at the end of the meeting and that you don't want to discuss it (money) again....the good guys entirely understand this and will oblige....

 

stick with the well-reviewed guys here!!!

[jawjateck]

Begin every session like this......when the door closes, walk over to your stud of choice, and before you talk about anything else, embrace him body to body, and plant a big ole sexy sloppy french kiss on him, and say "pleased to meet you". ;-)

 

Then.....have some fun, enjoy his company, and take care of business at the end. Welcome to our world. It's a blast. Enjoy!

[wisconsinguy]

Begin every session like this......when the door closes, walk over to your stud of choice, and before you talk about anything else, embrace him body to body, and plant a big ole sexy sloppy french kiss on him, and say "pleased to meet you". ;-)

 

Then.....have some fun, enjoy his company, and take care of business at the end. Welcome to our world. It's a blast. Enjoy!

It really is a blast I agree, AND freeing. So much good advice here, and fun, fun people as well. Once I made the leap, like everyone said, the anxiety and trips to the toilet became a distant memory! Never had to worry about being "clean" inside, lol.

[Guy Fawkes]

It is however reasonable for them to come to your hotel room.

 

3) Do not meet an escort (unless if he was reviewed as per the above) in a hotel or motel. These are favorite places for cops to set up stings. Especially in Florida, I understand.

[Mark Gordon]

8) Hire an escort in Canada, where law enforcement is not an issue.

[cooldemo03]

Begin every session like this......when the door closes, walk over to your stud of choice, and before you talk about anything else, embrace him body to body, and plant a big ole sexy sloppy french kiss on him, and say "pleased to meet you". ;-)

 

Then.....have some fun, enjoy his company, and take care of business at the end. Welcome to our world. It's a blast. Enjoy!

 

I second this. NEVER pay upfront. If an.escort wants that, then say goodbye. Have fun first. No cop I've ever heard of will do the deed with someone, especially gay sex, just to catch them in a sting. So if they do anything with you, you're probably ok.

[+ Funguy]

Once I learned about this site and have stayed with gentlemen well-reviewed on this site, I've never looked back. After making the initial contact by text or email, whichever is preferred, always speak to the escort. Many do not wish to go into detail over the phone but there will usually be enough of a conversation to get a sense of how the two of you will get along.

 

Once you meet, as suggested above, a nice wet french kiss will start the meeting beautifully (of course his ad must state that he kisses - some do not!!!). Once you are both comfortable it is a good idea to be frank (and do not get embarrassed - they have seen and heard it all) and SIMPLY TELL YOUR MAN JUST WHAT YOU LIKE AND WANT TO DO. Be open about it, he'll talk too. If you are "interactive" and like to participate and lose yourself entirely, ask him what he likes but don't accept the, "Don't worry, this is all for you." You want to have him have a good time, too, so the moans and groans are a chorus not a solo.

 

When i am with one of Daddy's guys I have never talked money. Their ads give their rates (or you have discussed at the contacting time). The only question may be about a discount for multiple hours. I bring enough for no discount so i am covered. At the end, I simply ask, "How much do I owe you?" and hand him the cash. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER UP FRONT!

 

I have been comfortable meeting at their place and hotels but have done so ONLY if I found them here on Daddy's Reviews AND searched the Forum for mention, Positive or Negative.

 

Good luck and plant a sloppy one for me….

 

Always a Funguy

[down_to_business]

Just always keep in mind that a cop can lie to you with no consequences. So many people actually believe that if someone asks you if you are a cop (and you are) that you have to say yes because they saw it on TV somewhere. Well, they don't have to, and the bust will still be good.

 

My favorite case ever , and I wish I could find a link to share, was a john arrested who claimed the cop was so good-looking that he was enticed into doing something he never would have done otherwise. The judge agreed. Apparently it was a very attractive cop!

[Steven_Draker]

Have fun first. No cop I've ever heard of will do the deed with someone ...

 

This is about to change ...

 

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/hawaii-law-lets-police-sex-prostitutes-22997456

[instudiocity]

This is about to change ...

 

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/hawaii-law-lets-police-sex-prostitutes-22997456

Actually the fight is in the opposite direction. Hawai i' police can engage in sex now. The debate is to outlaw their ability to engage in sex during an investigation.

[nikpmup]

Thanks everyone, for the great advice. It is really helpful and I appreciate it.

 

nik

[bomerrang]

I am a bit uncomfortable with this thread.

[+ FreshFluff]

7) If you do get arrested, by all means, don't admit anything. You have a right not to answer questions law enforcement asks you.

 

Yes, and I would go even further than that. Don't talk at all until you talk to your attorney, even if you have not broken the law. Don't deny or tell your side of the story. Simply say, "I'd like to speak to my lawyer." I'm not an attorney, but the last time we discussed this, a forum member who is a lawyer posted similar advice.

 

Here's a video (which I posted a while back) "Don't talk to the police." A law professor gives you all the reasons that talking can't help you, even if you've done nothing wrong. A police detective then gives a practical perspective.

[video=youtube;6wXkI4t7nuc]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wXkI4t7nuc

[Gar1eth]

I am a bit uncomfortable with this thread.

 

Why if you don't mind me asking?

 

Gman

[Steven_Draker]

Nikpmup, you've got some pretty good advise above from BaronArtz and VeryHappyCustomer.

 

If you stick with guys who have been (positively) reviewed, you don't risk a police entrapment.

 

Escorts on the other hand are much more vulnerable, because we don't have a resource like the reviews to identify an undercover agent from a potential first-time client.

[Steven_Draker]

In you're in a big city, you probably don't have to worry about this. Law enforcement are probably only looking to go after agencies. It costs time and money and resources to pull off a "sting". I don't think a cop would be proud to put a single person bust on his list of accomplishments.

 

Don't kid yourself, Killian.

 

Police stings do exist. More often targeting escorts than clients.

 

Ask your peers in New York City, Las Vegas, Florida and the Midwest who have been around the block. I know personally 5 guys who have been entrapped in such stings. Do a search within the Forum as well. I hope this helps.

[BaronArtz]

Nikpmup, you've got some pretty good advise above from BaronArtz and VeryHappyCustomer.

 

If you stick with guys who have been (positively) reviewed, you don't risk a police entrapment.

 

Escorts on the other hand are much more vulnerable, because we don't have a resource like the reviews to identify an undercover agent from a potential first-time client.[/color]

 

I agree with this. It's much harder for the escorts. I thought - for a moment - that it might make sense to establish a website with a list of 'vetted' clients. But then, clients would not want their nickname, phone and email listed on such a site, probably! When I sense that a first time escort/masseur is a bit nervous, I have said that they could call 'X' (another escort or masseur that I have worked with before) for a reference. I don't think anybody ever has actually called to verify the reference, but it helps.

[cooldemo03]

This is about to change ...

 

http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/hawaii-law-lets-police-sex-prostitutes-22997456[/color]

 

Well, unless the cop is gay (which the chances of that are highly unlikely) then no way is he going to have sex with another man just to bust him for soliciting. No way.

[jimboivyo]

Don't kid yourself, Killian.

 

Police stings do exist. More often targeting escorts than clients.

 

Ask your peers in New York City, Las Vegas, Florida and the Midwest who have been around the block. I know personally 5 guys who have been entrapped in such stings. Do a search within the Forum as well. I hope this helps.[/color]

 

from what others escorts have told me stings still happen and if you're really putting yourself in the spot light, guess who they're going to target?

 

my advice for you just getting your legs in this biz is to talk with the long time majors and ask how they've kept safe