A few questions on flying in an escort for an overnight appointment

[Michael Wayne]

whats with the attitude Ross? have i ever done anything to hurt you? This forum is better served with pleasant and positive conversation than with biting personal attacks.

[Michael Wayne]

fyi: four of my clients have been physically attacked and robbed by escorts in the last year. There is a danger. Having an escorts' last name and real date of birth gives the police a big help is arresting the attacker. I dont say things on here that are not true and are not a product of 20 years in the field. your sarcasm is extremely unfortunate........

[BryanKnight]

Hello,

 

Thank you for sharing this question.

 

On plane tickets: You need the professional's real name, and you have to arrange the time of arrival/departure before hand, same as any other travel arrangement.

 

Personally, I've never heard of a professional booking his own plane ticket to see a client. This is squarely the client's responsibility.

 

On overnights:

 

This varies from professional to professional.

I've had clients *Demand* I be ready and able to play ALL night long for the full time.

 

This is unrealistic. A man has to sleep, wash, relax, etc. It would take alot of convincing to get a seasoned professional to give up all their sleep and feel awful the next day just for work.

 

Also, it helps to clarify what do YOU want.

Do you want a casual, boyfriend experience?

Do you want heavy fetish play sustained for hours?

Do you want to break it up among the two or get meals or watch a movie?

 

A good guideline for overnight expectation.

Arrival. Dinner. Shower, A few hours of play. Healthy sleep (6-8 hours). Play time in the morning, a meal, then off to the airport.

 

On staying in their homes.

Again, this is up to the client.

 

On hiring out "new" versus "seasoned" professionals.

You're right, it doesn't make sense to fly someone out for a 2 hour test drive (unless you have the money to throw around).

A telephone conversation is your best bet.

When I want to interview someone for an overnight, I call and say I am looking to come into their city in the near future and wanted to find out more about them. After asking about their interests and their scheduling, I can ask, "How do you feel about overnight visits?"

 

Depending on their answer, I could follow up with, "What would be a fun way for you to spend the night with a client?"

This will give you an idea of the professional's style.

 

Ultimately, until you two MEET, you can't know the chemistry involved. You can talk, send photos, write letters, but ultimately it's about the body language and all the non-verbal cues that get you going, even for seasoned professionals.