Does anyone use a separate bed for clients/escorts and another for sleeping/BF?

[JoeyBryant]

Although I usually prefer the Cal King bed at hotels, I also don't mind getting the '2 doubles' either. For obvious reasons.

 

However, I'm finding myself considering a 2nd bed for 'guests' and another bed for sleeping and boyfriends. Most likely the option would be another aerobed. I found myself at a crossroad when a guy I've been seeing wanted to have sex for the 1st time recently. I just couldn't bring myself to do it in my bed, thinking of all the things that have gone down there lol. I suggested we plan a trip and let a hotel be our 1st time together (although Lord knows what may have happened in the hotel bed with other guests too...but that's different).

 

I always change the sheets after every guest...even if we didn't do much. But something about having sex with a guy I'm serious about into the same bed I see guests, kinda doesn't sync with me subliminally. It's not a big deal though if we're just sleeping or cuddling. Is that odd?

 

Btw...I actually got the idea because a guy I met couple years ago had 2 bedrooms: the play room and the 'sleeping room'. On our 1st and 2nd encounters he used the play room, but then we worked up to the more comfortable 'sleeping room'.

[Guest Starbuck]

Doesn't sound odd to me, Joey. I think it's your sensitive side showing. Flipping this coin over, I'm sure there are clients in relationships who would never share the bed they use with their life partner for an encounter with anyone else. Congratulations on the new special guy.

[Keenan]

Although I usually prefer the Cal King bed at hotels, I also don't mind getting the '2 doubles' either. For obvious reasons.

 

However, I'm finding myself considering a 2nd bed for 'guests' and another bed for sleeping and boyfriends. Most likely the option would be another aerobed. I found myself at a crossroad when a guy I've been seeing wanted to have sex for the 1st time recently. I just couldn't bring myself to do it in my bed, thinking of all the things that have gone down there lol. I suggested we plan a trip and let a hotel be our 1st time together (although Lord knows what may have happened in the hotel bed with other guests too...but that's different).

 

I always change the sheets after every guest...even if we didn't do much. But something about having sex with a guy I'm serious about into the same bed I see guests, kinda doesn't sync with me subliminally. It's not a big deal though if we're just sleeping or cuddling. Is that odd?

 

Btw...I actually got the idea because a guy I met couple years ago had 2 bedrooms: the play room and the 'sleeping room'. On our 1st and 2nd encounters he used the play room, but then we worked up to the more comfortable 'sleeping room'.

 

When I see clients at home I always have a second bed that I used for meeting with clients as it provides a certain level of privacy I feel. Luckily though I also work for a small local agency and they provide an incall location with a few beds so when I can I make use of that location to meet clients.

 

Keenan

[whipped guy]

When I hire in a hotel situation I always get a room with two double beds... One for play the other for sleep... Though I usually lay out the toys on the sleeper bed... but that's as much action as that bed gets.

 

So separate beds is totally normal even this client's perspective. Regarding escorts, some use their personal bed... Others have even had a separate guest room. So I guess it depends on the escort's comfort level...

[Mark Gordon]

Massage sessions happen on my professional Oakworks massage table. Escort sessions happen on my bed or anywhere else in my condo that we may choose. Personally, it causes me no angst to use any part of my home for both personal and business purposes, but I can understand this may not hold true for others.

[JoeyBryant]

Ah, I've been forgetting to get back to this one.

 

You know, I might have come to a compromise. Doing it the primitive way...on the floor. The bed is only comfortable if you enjoy the extra firm mattress.

[Becket]

Hey Joey, do you have a different policy when you are in Indiana or Ohio.

[JoeyBryant]

Hey Joey, do you have a different policy when you are in Indiana or Ohio.

 

Yes, the policy is to not go there lol.

[Bosguy]

When I travelled, I always insisted on a king size bed when by myself or "entertaining" Last year I spent an overnight with one of my favorite guys in his city. Made my reservations early at a very nice hotel. When I arrived, there was a major mixup by them--there was only 1 room left and it had 2 double beds. I was BS, but decided just to stay there (with a very nice discount). That night turned out to be just amazing. We only used 1 bed but it saw a lot of activity and sleeping together very closely was wonderful. I'd certainly take a 2 bed room again with the right guy.

 

Boston Bill