How Do I Ask for What I Want a Head of Time?

[+ Letmeworshipit]

I admit it. When I engage an escort I want to ensure that we are both happy and satisfied. I am into ORAL COCK WORSHIP (and have a blog by that name). I love to spend some serious quality time between a guy's legs, sniff poppers and jet feed on his dick as much as I can. Now, the problem is that some escorts are, frankly, con artists. They hook you in with promises and then when you get there they hedge their bet and it kills the whole buzz. If I hire a guy, I want a real oral top who honestly LOVES getting services and CUMMING! As I've often said, "Sperm is a terrible thing to waste" and I really mean it. Taking my top's load is HUGELY important to me. Otherwise, I could just buy a dildo and suck until my heart's content. Anyway, does anyone have any advice on how I can best broach the subject beforehand to avoid any weirdness during the session?

[JoeyBryant]

I would email your next escort exactly how you are mentioning it here. Everything except for the con artist part.

[bigvalboy]

I would email your next escort exactly how you are mentioning it here. Everything except for the con artist part.

 

 

I agree with Joey. Communication is critical, and how you worded your question here is fine. I don't think it is possible to shock an escort, I'm sure they have heard it all. Most are very accommodating and willing to make your expectations to be realized. Just be clear, and say what you really want out of the session. The upside is that if the escort doesn't do what is promised, then the misunderstanding won't be on your end. Good luck.

[nate_sf]

I would email your next escort exactly how you are mentioning it here. Everything except for the con artist part.

 

Ditto. You could cut and paste pretty much what you've written here (except the con artist part, yep!). If someone has very specific or detailed requests I've always been happy to learn about it beforehand and focus the appointment accordingly. If he agrees, you can confirm with him one more time asking if he's sure, and emphasize how important it is that he comes through.

 

How he responds will probably give a good indication of whether he's really into it, or just willing to go along. If he's less than totally enthusiastic, keep shopping. I'm sure there are lots of guys who would not only be willing, but be totally into it.

 

Nice blog btw!

[gallahadesquire]

not meaning to grab this thread, but I don't think it merits a separate one:

 

When one is in medias res, as the saying goes, especially with a particularly taciturn Man-of-the-Hour, who coincidentally is straight: How does one ask for things? He's always complied with my requests (handjob / blow job once, but he instigated that; anal is RIGHT out until I drug him appropriately, and I know how to do that, but lack the resources) and is generally passive, which is odd, as he was a Sergeant in the Army.

 

Any suggestions?

[JoeyBryant]

Ditto. You could cut and paste pretty much what you've written here

Nice blog btw!

 

I guess we should probably add to not send that in the first email you send to a guy. Sometimes it can come across as form or fantasy mail...but certainly mention it before meeting up. I personally love the feeling of a guy getting me off orally. If you can do it, go for it...

[Jscott]

I've never had trouble, thankfully, getting what I "want" or "expect." But -- quite understandably --just about every escort will state that money is for time only. And won't necessarily respond, saying, "YES! That's just what I'll do to you." So, sure, you can ask. You can spell out exactly what you want. But honestly, are escorts here telling me that they'll agree to such specifics with a total stranger? Other than a circumspect reply like, "I'm sure you won't be disappointed?"

 

Now, I'll confirm that a price is, shall we say, all-inclusive. I can even double check to ensure the escort is properly, ahem, supplied.

 

But sorry, other than that, there's almost no way to guarantee you'll get what you pay for until prostitution is legalized. Or am I missing something in the tacit "money is for time only" understanding?

[+ Tygerscent]

Money IS for time only... What two or more consenting adults do during that time is up to them~ correct~? Escorting is not illegal. Prostitution is insite states~

It is a little disturbing though when guys leave or adjust their rates because the "sex" part is over~ That tends to be more like prostitution by definition as the fee is then specifically designated for a sexual act~

Getting back to the point, (though the above is related), its helpful to say and be defined about what you, (as two or more consenting adults), want to do during your shared time together~

If that cream pie for dessert is a necessary part of your meal together, definitely make that clear~

While I really like, want,enjoy and need to cum with my Clients, (since I rarely masturbate on my own), I tend to believe that there are quite a few lads that take multiple, one hour appointments daily and don't want to cum for many of their clients as it effects their randiness with following up cumless cuming appointments that day~

Hire boys who like to cum~ :-D ...or catch them as their last appointment of the day/night so you get that big load O' cream filled Eclaire that satisfies yer sweet tooth~

P.S. Really enjoy how playful you and your responders are on your blog~ Great Fun Mr.~! Thanks~!!!

 

Tyger~

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Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

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[+ Chris Eisenhower]

OT, but I love your avatar. And that blog has some nice pics.

[+ Tygerscent]

The sweet boy one with big load on the table was really great~ big straight up dick and sloppy wet load all over the table~ heheh~

Tyger~

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tygerkink@yahoo.com

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Ty in Portland on Daddys Review's

 

Travel: Northwest: (PDX, Seattle, Bend, Salem) July 14th

Vegas: July 15th - 19th

LA: mid August.

Mid West: October and possibly August.

Iceland, Amsterdam, Brussels, Brugge: Sept. 4th - 24th

[Tighty]

If its your first time with the escort. If you email your wish list won't they be wary that you are a cop?

[+ azdr0710]

never mention money in association with a "wish list"....in fact, avoid money talk before and during a meeting except for arranging the "for your time" fee in an email separate from any "wish list" discussion....and tell the escort ahead of time you'd like to not mention money at all at the meeting and tell him you'll be paying at the end - all very politely, of course....well-reviewed escorts will handle all this perfectly

[Tighty]

Thanks azdr. What about if escort prefers phone call? 2 separate phone calls? One for financial matter, one for wish list?

[+ azdr0710]

Thanks azdr. What about if escort prefers phone call? 2 separate phone calls? One for financial matter, one for wish list?

 

well, just keep sex talk well apart from money talk.....(but make sure you'll get what you want with no upgrade fees halfway into the meeting!).....you can use familiar safe terms like "for your time", "donation".....again, politely tell your guy you will pay at the end and that you don't want to mention money at the meeting......later, as you find regulars you like, you'll be telling US what to do.....again, if you deal with well-reviewed guys here, they'll handle it perfectly and you can come right out and tell those type guys that you are new and they'll help you out.....pre-meet communication is key!!!