Help a rookie hire an escort

[want2bwrestled]

Hi all - This is my first post and I decided to initiate a thread thinking that there may be others like me who need guidance, tips, what to say and what not to say. Others like me include middle age married (some happily like me) men who occasionally want to spend some private time living a desire with a desirable man. I've mostly been disappointed but I think that's because I don't know enough yet. My most recent appointment did more than live up to expectation but I considered that a stroke of good luck. Any help from the experts here is appreciated. Thanks!

[Keenan]

Hi all - This is my first post and I decided to initiate a thread thinking that there may be others like me who need guidance, tips, what to say and what not to say. Others like me include middle age married (some happily like me) men who occasionally want to spend some private time living a desire with a desirable man. I've mostly been disappointed but I think that's because I don't know enough yet. My most recent appointment did more than live up to expectation but I considered that a stroke of good luck. Any help from the experts here is appreciated. Thanks!

 

Read the reviews on this site and talk to the escort before hiring him. Ask all questions you need answered that would make the time most enjoyable for you. If you like to top and the escort only tops then maybe he isn't the one you pick. Having all the questions and expectations answered ahead of time and reading his profile and knowing some about him can help make the appointment that much more enjoyable.

 

Keenan

[+ FreshFluff]

Welcome to the M-F, Want2B! Is there something about the escort you hired that makes you hesitate about booking him again? That info might help people make recommendations.

[want2bwrestled]

Keenan - Thanks for taking the time to respond. I'm learning that this is a great site to find the right guy by relying on the information and the assistance offered by members like you. Cheers man.

[want2bwrestled]

Hi FF. Thank you for replying and thanks for the welcome. Like my post to Keenan, I'm feeling much better about this forum and my ability to find what I really want with the knowledge that comes with reviews. With past hires for me, I wouldn't book any of them again except the guy I connected with recently in Dallas. What's the protocol here - can I post his name?

[+ purplekow]

Hi FF. Thank you for replying and thanks for the welcome. Like my post to Keenan, I'm feeling much better about this forum and my ability to find what I really want with the knowledge that comes with reviews. With past hires for me, I wouldn't book any of them again except the guy I connected with recently in Dallas. What's the protocol here - can I post his name?

A general "I had a great time with Joe Buck" is fine. Greater details run the risk of the post being considered a review and might result in a hand slap. If you are looking for a wrestler, have you looked into Tristan Baldwin. I am not familiar with Tristan personally and he certainly has a way of polarizing people here, but take a look, he may be just the ticket for you. By the way, there are many married or formerly married men posting here, you are not alone. http://tristanbaldwinxxxdaily.tumblr.com/

[Glenn1441]

You may find that many escorts (hey, there are hundreds and hundreds advertising online at any given time) do not care to take the time to answer a potential client's specific questions. Or, the answers may be short and curt, coming across as rude perhaps. Leave those guys behind, so to speak. A pro-escort -- one who delivers the goods and loves his job -- will take a few minutes to answer your questions. Write down your questions, perhaps, so that you don't feel the need to recontact the escort, which could come across as badgering, or, that you are not serious about meeting and enjoy texting, e-mailing or speaking about your sexual interests or needs rather than actually hiring an escort. It's a fine line. Escorts have often complained to me of men who do not follow through, or who send endless messages or texts. I can understand their frustration, but, every job has its 'occupational hazards,' and the escort should not transfer that frustration to potential clients who follow. I'm a legit client and before I hire an escort who is 'new' to me, I have questions and I want them answered. And I try to do so in a way that does not take up the escort's time unreasonably. And, I don't tolerate monosyllabic, or one-word answers. That's my personal preference.

[whipped guy]

I obviously saw and responded earlier to your interesting posting in the Fetish Forum... so a belated welcome. If you see a guy that might interest you simply post the guy's name and as much info as you know about him such as Rentboy or website info in the Deli you will be surprised at how much knowledge exists on this site! Also, at times just posting a generalized query will get you a wealth of information... such as I like wrestling. Heck you already got the scoop on Tristan Baldwin!!! Also use the advanced search feature to do research on particular individuals and topics. All this in addition to the reviews of course...

 

You're gonna have a blast here!!! Enjoy!

 

PS: I agree... In general avoid the one word minimalist type response escorts... That's usually a red flag. Look for someone who can write in sentences or even better paragraphs!