Awareness

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Recently I've been contacted by and had the pleasure of seeing a number of younger clients… much more so than usual. And I also had an awesome encounter with a younger twink escort (Tyson in LA, be sure to check him out if you have the opportunity), who now stands as the youngest person with whom I've been intimate. All the experiences above were excellent from start to finish and surprising since 1) I don't get many younger clients at all and 2) when I do they tend to not go as well as I would like.

 

All of these guys seemed so sexually complete for lack of a better word, much more so than I feel like I was at a similar age. I feel like I have grown a lot in the past year or two compared to how I was even five years ago, and it makes me wonder the following:

 

When did you feel like you entered into your sexual prime, both in skill and attitude? What do you feel like you excell at, and in what area would you like to improve? This last question is where I've really appreciated having the opportunity to be around and work with some other escorts, particularly one who quite rightly told me to "loosen the fuck up" and another who was compared to being an older, wiser version of me.

[biguy]

WHAT A GREAT THREAD....makes me want to think (and remember....) Back in a while to post

[big-n-tall]

Tyson in LA[/url], be sure to check him out if you have the opportunity), who now stands as the youngest person with whom I've been intimate. All the experiences above were excellent from start to finish and surprising since 1) I don't get many younger clients at all and 2) when I do they tend to not go as well as I would like.

 

All of these guys seemed so sexually complete for lack of a better word, much more so than I feel like I was at a similar age. I feel like I have grown a lot in the past year or two compared to how I was even five years ago, and it makes me wonder the following:

 

When did you feel like you entered into your sexual prime, both in skill and attitude? What do you feel like you excell at, and in what area would you like to improve? This last question is where I've really appreciated having the opportunity to be around and work with some other escorts, particularly one who quite rightly told me to "loosen the fuck up" and another who was compared to being an older, wiser version of me.

 

First, I think in terms of the younger guys you've encountered and them being sexually... "complete," I think that has a lot to do with society and the internet.

 

I once read an article on how the Chinese, to some degree, were going out of their way to try and emulate our society. What they were trying to emulate is our confidence. We may not be the best in a lot of things anymore, but the one thing this article said America's youth absolutely excelled at was confidence, overtly so. With that, I think more than ever youth are willing to experiment with stuff sexually (and otherwise) because they have access to it. Something like Grindr comes to mind. They are emboldened by this acessiblity, especially when it gives them/us instant gratification. Now I could be completely off basis with my assumption, so don't quote me. LOL!

 

Now, when did I enter my sexual prime (in skill and attitude)... honestly, I don't know if I have. Just like in every day life there are things that I can improve whether I'm good at it or not. I'm always learning at my job. There are things I know I do well and have the upmost confidence in doing. And there are things I know I will never be the best at. The same thing can apply for me sexually. I would say I'm continuously honing my skills because what one thing makes someone happy (sexually), might not make the next person feel the same way.

 

The thing I most need to improve is certain aspects of my shall we say sexual confidence. I need to believe in myself more. I'm told continuously I'm a great kisser and very orally skilled. I guess, because I see my partners response in that... I believe it without question. On the flip side I've been told I have a big dick, even been told it is a thing of beautiful (by escorts and non-escorts). Not that I'm saying that I have a monster cock, but I don't think its that big. Maybe that has more to do with my body type compared to it. My moniker isn't big-n-tall for nothing. So what it boils down to is that shy boy in me rears his head and causes me to doubt sometimes, even though I'm told otherwise how good I am. It doesn't stop me from enjoying myself but I do need be more confident in my abilities... sometimes.

 

Good topic. I hope I gave some measure of an adequate answer.

[biguy]

Lots of thinking and remembering...A long time ago I thought I was bi. Then I went into the army. The testosterone flipped the switch but the difficulty was privacy. It took a very long time to become comfortable with the sexuality (and the sex, when possible). Just when I thought I thought I was getting adjusted, I lost part of one of my legs below the knee and out I went.

 

That's when everything changed! First I lost all of the confidence I had gained and I became celibate. Encounters at bars and clubs predictably ended badly. I was almost 40 and inexperienced and frustrated. Then, on my 40th birthday, I discovered ESCORTS! It took a while but I found some very understanding souls who have restored my confidence, my pleasure, and are teaching me, at this age more than I think I could ever have learned or found at an earlier age and without their skills. My experience with sex has rotated 180 degrees from just enjoying mostly passive sex at my younger/more closeted circumstances to lusty, sweaty, thoroughly satisfying encounters.

 

Before these fabulous guys, with what I thought was a disability, I always doubted my skill set. Now, with confidence, my skill set has expanded exponentially and I feel there is always more out there to learn.

 

Unfortunately, I have also continued to experience disappointments in the "pick-up" or meeting situations. But, now I know it's them, not me!! Sex is not nearly as satisfying as with "my guys" and I am always learning a thing or two, even now. I think I excel now as a student, in my 40's, and i hope it never ends. What can i improve on? Everything. I certainly hope i haven't reached my prime. I also have found that I think I have the confidence to "fly," even if it is just to expand my family of "go to guys."

 

I have watched your posts, Chris, and your humor, thoughtfulness, and attitudes are what all you escorts out there should strive for. I have been EXTREMELY lucky to have found those escorts who actually nurtured me at my lowest and have taught me what I know now about sex and about confidence and plain, old, having a great time.

[rentboytyson]

I would agree that Chris is an expert as an escort and very wise. I honestly wish he was closer to Los Angeles so that I could hang out with him as a big brother/mentor more often. Like most older men I've met, Chris is one of those uninhibited guys that just seems to get into everything and that is so hot to watch and participate in. I feel pretty lucky and blessed to have met someone like Chris to give me amazing perspective and information about the escort world. From my perspective I would easily consider him a giant in the industry and definitely going to be one of the legacies of escorting from what I know about him

[+ purplekow]

I feel that i reached my prime as a human being when I discovered that there were times that i had to unflinchingly put the needs of others above my own.

I feel that I reached my prime as a sexual being when I discovered that there were times that I could unflinchingly put the needs and desires of my partners above my own and then realized that there were times when the best way to do that was to make sure that my needs were being met.

As a lover, you need to be giving and considerate but then there are times that you need to be selfish. The better I became at balancing these competing needs, the better I became at having my lover join in the ebb and flow of pleasure from one to another, and the better lover I became.

So, when did it stop being all about me and much more about we? At about 30 when the testosterone finally stopped completely clouding my sensibilities and reached a level that I was able to harness for short periods of time.

As for technique, I continue to get better with age. I may no longer be able to do a handstand while my seated partner gives me a blow job, but damned if I don't have a filthy manner of sexual improvision

[gallahadesquire]

I feel that i reached my prime as a human being when I discovered that there were times that i had to unflinchingly put the needs of others above my own.

I feel that I reached my prime as a sexual being when I discovered that there were times that I could unflinchingly put the needs and desires of my partners above my own and then realized that there were times when the best way to do that was to make sure that my needs were being met.

As a lover, you need to be giving and considerate but then there are times that you need to be selfish. The better I became at balancing these competing needs, the better I became at having my lover join in the ebb and flow of pleasure from one to another, and the better lover I became.

So, when did it stop being all about me and much more about we? At about 30 when the testosterone finally stopped completely clouding my sensibilities and reached a level that I was able to harness for short periods of time.

As for technique, I continue to get better with age. I may no longer be able to do a handstand while my seated partner gives me a blow job, but damned if I don't have a filthy manner of sexual improvision

 

Interestingly, I've gone on Testosterone Supplimentation. M y numbers were low. it's been amazing what the replacement has done.

[operalover21]

Tyson in LA[/url], be sure to check him out if you have the opportunity), who now stands as the youngest person with whom I've been intimate. All the experiences above were excellent from start to finish and surprising since 1) I don't get many younger clients at all and 2) when I do they tend to not go as well as I would like.

 

All of these guys seemed so sexually complete for lack of a better word, much more so than I feel like I was at a similar age. I feel like I have grown a lot in the past year or two compared to how I was even five years ago, and it makes me wonder the following:

 

When did you feel like you entered into your sexual prime, both in skill and attitude? What do you feel like you excell at, and in what area would you like to improve? This last question is where I've really appreciated having the opportunity to be around and work with some other escorts, particularly one who quite rightly told me to "loosen the fuck up" and another who was compared to being an older, wiser version of me.

 

Fantastic question and thread. I guess it would have to be my late 30s, after I came out. In my 20s, I was still "straight" (ha, ha) and doing sex with women (wife) which I realized later was COMPLETELY unsatisfying.

[Amoco]

Chris...you and Tyson must have had a client of extraordinary insight and taste to put you two together...my guess is that it was one of those rare occurrences when all of the planets aligned and everything came together easily, and with gusto. Review is in Daddy's hands and should be out shortly...keep your foot on the gas...A

[rentboytyson]

Amoco,

 

Chris and I had an amazing client who is as chill and easy going as it gets...eager to talk and get to know one another and even more eager to just dive right into bed...easily one of the best and most generous with his time, charity, and intellect.

 

Tyson

[Rod Hagen]

I disagree. My sexual experiences with Millenials have only confirmed how disconnected from experiences, from life, they actually are.