Nude pictures

[zach_wilson]

So today I had a very extensive email conversation with someone wanting to book an appointment for an overnight with me. He asked if I could send specific nude pictures. I have had these kinds of request before and I simply ask for the contact phone number for the appointment so that i know that he is serious, as I already have nude pics up on my Rentmen ad which I referred him to. So anything past that to me is a specific request. He stated wanting to see what he is getting however the nudes on the Rentmen ad should cover that. I have had to many times where if those pics weren't enough and others were requested once sent they never actually booked. To me this just is like a pic collector who doesn't actually hire. What have y'all done in these kinds of situations also from a clients standpoint are specific pictures required for you to book if the pics on the ad are showing what he's working with?

[BSR]

I checked your Rentmen ad, and yes, the nudes posted should be enough to satisfy a potential client's curiosity. I find it odd that a prospective client (or so he claims) is seeking very specific nudes as the deciding factor for the hire -- as opposed to talking to you, getting to know you, and figuring out if you can provide the kind of overnight experience he's looking for. My advice as a client is that you tell Mr. More Pix Needed that you're happy to talk to him for a bit so that both of you can figure out if an overnight would work out. If he's not interested and just insists on more pix, politely inform him that it doesn't sound like the compatibility is there and that he should look for someone else.

[lerbut23]

Another possible explanation (although I lean towards thinking he was a picture collector). The number of fake escort profiles is staggering nowadays, and by fake I mean the picture is of someone different than the escort. He may have been trying to verify that it was you by requesting a picture you would have to create and couldn't possible fake.

[Diverdan]

I agree with BSR... it sounds like a picture collector, and not someone who is serious about hiring. If he does not want to talk with you, that is the first red flag. If he wants a specific nude picture, that is the second red flag. I rarely ask for additional pictures, and if I do, it is done when I call the person, so they have my phone number, and I am usually asking for a face picture and not a specific nude picture. Only rarely have I had someone refuse to send me a face picture, and if they do not want to send a face picture, they usually say, that if you don't like what you see, you can walk away with no questions asked. That is confidence in themselves, and I have never had to walk away!!! Trust your gut, and don't give in to the pressure that some of these guys try to put on you. They are not really interested in you, only in pictures to add to their collection, IMHO.

[instudiocity]

Zach, I've lusted over your fully clothed pictures, hell, I lust over your writing. You're correct to protect yourself, you've got enough hanging out for the serious gentleman caller.

 

But I have to ask, are those dimples over your ass cheeks? CUTE!

[leigh.bess.toad]

I have to agree with BSR and DD. They nailed it. This doesn't sound like a serious client to me at all. I remember at last year's DC luncheon, when Ace started getting these requests from a "potential client". Over and over, send me more, send me more. Then the sad song, I'm so lonely, I don't have money to hire you. Then after the refusals, they turned nasty. It got funny because Ace could almost to the minute predict when the next text message would arrive. The progression was so predictable. Your pics should be more than enough Zach. Enough.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

So today I had a very extensive email conversation with someone wanting to book an appointment for an overnight with me. He asked if I could send specific nude pictures. I have had these kinds of request before and I simply ask for the contact phone number for the appointment so that i know that he is serious, as I already have nude pics up on my Rentmen ad which I referred him to. So anything past that to me is a specific request. He stated wanting to see what he is getting however the nudes on the Rentmen ad should cover that. I have had to many times where if those pics weren't enough and others were requested once sent they never actually booked. To me this just is like a pic collector who doesn't actually hire. What have y'all done in these kinds of situations also from a clients standpoint are specific pictures required for you to book if the pics on the ad are showing what he's working with?

 

"Hey Bud, thanks for the interest in getting together for an overnight. I'm happy and excited to send you some additional pics of myself, just let me know what sort of poses and clothing you have in mind. Also let me know when you're ready to send a deposit to hold the time in my schedule, which is filling up fast. I ask for $___, which is completely refundable if I have to cancel. Some clients send this to me via FedEx, and some are comfortable using USPS. Just be sure to get a tracking number and let me know when it's in the mail. Thanks again, and looking forward to meeting up! Love, Zach"

[zach_wilson]

Thanks so much everyone for the responses. I feel he is a collector as well. I also looked back and he had contacted previously without hiring and kept asking for photos then too. I swear some people don't understand you now can just search the email inbox and everything ever sent between the two of you comes up.

 

Chris I love how you stated that. If he continues emailing that may actually be perfect to send. Simply because it gets straight to the point of wether or not he is serious.

 

Instudiocity yes those are dimples above my butt

[VirginiaGuy]

Can the newbie ask a sort of reversed version of the question? It's not related to anyone on this thread, it's just that the conversation made me think of this. It actually did happen and I really would value advice.

 

So let's say you're a potential customer looking at an ad. Interesting guy, good reviews, etc. You exchange one or two emails and everything seems nice. And then you notice that his pictures are...well, kinda dated. All of them are pushing seven or eight years old. They were all taken when he was in his 20s, now he's in his 30s...

 

Is it fair to ask whether he would send an updated picture or two? Not multiple requests, and not specific shots, just one request for anything a little more recent.

 

If you ask and suddenly there's no response, radio silence, what should one think?

 

Thanks

[+ purplekow]

You may ask for anything you want or need. The escort's willingness to supply it should be part of the consideration used to determine if you are going to hire him.

[+ poolboy48220]

If you ask and suddenly there's no response, radio silence, what should one think?

This is a sign that you dodged a bullet.

[rvwnsd]

...So let's say you're a potential customer looking at an ad. Interesting guy, good reviews, etc. You exchange one or two emails and everything seems nice. And then you notice that his pictures are...well, kinda dated. All of them are pushing seven or eight years old. They were all taken when he was in his 20s, now he's in his 30s

 

Is it fair to ask whether he would send an updated picture or two? Not multiple requests, and not specific shots, just one request for anything a little more recent....

 

Absolutely yes. One way to phrase it: "Hey, I noticed your pics seem to have been taken during different time periods. May I see a current photo?

 

...If you ask and suddenly there's no response, radio silence, what should one think?

 

Thanks

 

One should think the escort did oneself a favor. It is very likely he has chnaged significantly and/or is a scam.

[Juan Vancouver]

You may ask for anything you want or need. The escort's willingness to supply it should be part of the consideration used to determine if you are going to hire him.

 

I agree. You should ask for anything you want or need, regardless of how outlandish this may be. If the escort considers the request justified and complies, then you have a good match.

 

I have been asked to do things that you would not believe before that my "potential client" feels "ready" and confident to book a session. I politely decline this kind of requests. I do not jump through hoops and we would have been an awful match in a real life session. Hopefully this kind of client kept asking other escorts and finally met with those escorts who happily complied with his demands. No doubt those escorts were a better match for him.

 

I invite you to think about your escort the way you think about a restaurant. Of course you expect a polite, friendly, fun, satisfying service. It is realistic to expect to be able to have the salad with the dressing on the side, add extra chicken or request for your favourite table. Nobody will think anything if you ask if it is possible to make a reservation for a large group at strange hours... all these are normal and justifiable requests. It is your right to ask.

 

You would not go into a restaurant, however, demanding they re-wrote the menu, redecorate the place, demanding that they hired different staff or changed their specialties. If it is a seafood restaurant you would not be outraged if they couldn't serve you ribs.

 

But... if you want ribs, I think it would be great if you do go to a ribs restaurant.

 

It is all about finding your perfect match. And regardless of how incredibly talented some escorts may be, it is impossible for them to be a perfect match for everyone.

 

As for old pictures... I don't think there is anything wrong with enquiring about new pictures. That is just fair game.

[VirginiaGuy]

Thank you purplekow, poolboy, rvwnsd, and Juan for the good advice. I kinda thought that was the case, but it helps to have the gut check. Juan, I liked the restaurant analogy. In this case, it's like choosing a restaurant based on the menu and reviews in the signboard out front, then sitting down to find out that's all ten years old, the chef has changed, and the new menu is completely different.

 

Thank you, gentlemen.