Serious Question(s) For Clients Regarding No Show Escorts

[SmallTownJohn]

I really am truly, truly serious...

 

So far only two clients of mine have responded in the affirmative...

 

Do you find it "fun" or "hot" or "exciting" when you wire an escort money upfront & he doesn't show up for the appointment? Do you find that cocky & masculine & intriguing like he is some sort of rascal? If you wired him money and he didn't show up, would you hire him again? If he much later recontacted you and promised to show up a second time and stood you up again, would you attempt a third time?

 

Is that cat-n-mouse play sexy to you?

 

What do you think?

 

I'm fascinated.

 

Thanks for your input!!!

 

John/Atlanta

JohnAtlanta8by7@gmail.com

[Gar1eth]

I really am truly, truly serious...

 

So far only two clients of mine have responded in the affirmative...

 

Do you find it "fun" or "hot" or "exciting" when you wire an escort money upfront & he doesn't show up for the appointment? Do you find that cocky & masculine & intriguing like he is some sort of rascal? If you wired him money and he didn't show up, would you hire him again? If he much later recontacted you and promised to show up a second time and stood you up again, would you attempt a third time?

 

Is that cat-n-mouse play sexy to you?

 

What do you think?

 

I'm fascinated.

 

Thanks for your input!!!

 

John/Atlanta

JohnAtlanta8by7@gmail.com

 

 

Tell me you are kidding. This is ridiculous. This hobby is expensive enough as it is without dealing with no shows.

 

 

Gman

[uwsman2]

Nope. First off, I would never send a guy money in advance. Second, if I was foolish enough to do so and he didn't show, I'd feel abashed, stupid, exploited, and would never want any contact with him again.

 

Now, on the other hand, many years ago I had a wonderful time with you for an hour when you visited New York City. And I'd be up for a repeat, but I can't recall you visiting here very much in recent years.

 

But..... big but....... I won't send money in advance!! Ha!!!

[down_to_business]

No. I don't think it is fun.

 

Yes, it happens a lot more than one would think... one compelling argument never to wire money upfront. I have often agreed to pre-pay an advanced purchase fare (non cancellable/changeable) so at least if the escort is going to screw me over, he won't be able to profit off the airfare. And yes, I have been screwed over far too many times even doing this.

 

Depending on our past history, I might give him a second chance if he promised to make it up. One escort actually (finally) made it up about 1.5 years after! Others never made it up at all.

If we had no history, no absolutely no chance I would ever hire him again.

[+ poolboy48220]

I agree with Gman, totally. It's not hot in any way. I get annoyed enough at a no-show when there's no up-front money involved - it's also an investment of my time, and a huge let-down. Losing money would be that much worse. I've helped out n escort in a bind with money (to the tune of several thousand) with an assumption of reciprocation sometime in the future, but he appears to have retired. I'm not happy. But I'm still (unrealistically) hopeful.

 

But I'm not attracted to *that* bad a boy.

 

I'm dying to know how many clients have responded in the negative?

[SmallTownJohn]

Tell me you are kidding. This is ridiculous. This hobby is expensive enough as it is without dealing with no shows.

 

 

Gman

 

I am totally serious. Some clients find this hot & exciting. I'd like to know how members here feel and how many others enjoy this same type of situation.

 

Personally, I have never stood anyone up.

Recently, I have found out some dudes dig being stood up. It's part of the escorting game. Like guys who enjoy being (literally) shit on or barebacked.

Neither are in my skill set, but hey...to each his own.

[Frequentflier]

I am totally serious. Some clients find this hot & exciting. I'd like to know how members here feel and how many others enjoy this same type of situation.

 

Personally, I have never stood anyone up.

Recently, I have found out some dudes dig being stood up. It's part of the escorting game. Like guys who enjoy being (literally) shit on or barebacked.

Neither are in my skill set, but hey...to each his own.

 

And I suppose there are guys who like beating themselves on the head with a baseball bat or putting their nuts in a vice. Its an interesting thread just because I would have never thought a client would like just throwing their money away - and why can't they just throw it at the rest of us? I'll make believe I'm an escort for pay if that turns them on I've been fortunate to never have been stood up for an appointment where I've bought their airline tickets up front. Like others have said, I'd never send money in advance. If I got stood up, I'd submit a review here in a nanosecond. The escort is a goof to stand someone up given I have their real name (and yes that assumes I did a good job validating that).

[SmallTownJohn]

One client gave me the honey badger defense. Honey badger doesn't take any shit. Gets exactly what he wants w/o any conscience or guilt. Clients may see that as tough & sexy. Makes him a real go getter. He is inventive and not boring.

 

Like the old Anthony Holloway days...anyone from the Hoo years remember him? Mastermind!!!!

 

Speaking of the Hoo years, how many times did I read how some escort did some crazy shit and thought NO ONE will hire this guy ever again. The shit was true!

BOOM! Still hired. Clients said 'He started out so nice....I thought he'd be different with me OR his pix were so hot and his emails were even hotter, so I just..."

 

To paraphrase the greatest MC poster of all-time, Truthteller, on psycho escorts:'He sounds completely insane and totally hot. What is his phone number? I need it immediately'

[Bart]

John interesting post. If clients were to check out forms of domination this what they term financial domination where the client willing turns money or an account over to the escort to draw from with no intention of paying it back. There are escorts who offer this in some of the adds for guys into domination

[Xander]

John if you meet someone like that let me know and I'll PM you my routing number ;D

[SmallTownJohn]

John interesting post. If clients were to check out forms of domination this what they term financial domination where the client willing turns money or an account over to the escort to draw from with no intention of paying it back. There are escorts who offer this in some of the adds for guys into domination

 

Excellent point! I knew nothing about that. But I don't think this was a planned situation. Hey, maybe after the first time, it felt good and became such.

 

Reminds me of that cheap gay movie on late night (probably Showtime6) where the client washed the escort's dishes and then he got off on the escort yelling at him for doing such a shitty job and breaking a plate. The client loved it and paid more.

 

A my bitch thing I guess.

 

I got to lose my conscience. haha

[SmallTownJohn]

FUCK YEAH! Let's teach a grad course online at Shannen Doherty U too!

[Decatur Guy]

Hey, I like a dominating, cocky, surprise-pulling, top escort as much as the next guy, but he kind of has to be THERE -- doing unspeakable things to me -- to feel like I've gotten my money's worth.

[essjay]

Interesting thread...not sure if you are referring to a situation that has been discussed numerous times on this forum.

 

Has happened to me once, will never happen again.

 

Make up visit would depend on escort being honest about what happened and be sincere about trying to make things right.

[rvwnsd]

...Do you find it "fun" or "hot" or "exciting" when you wire an escort money upfront & he doesn't show up for the appointment?

 

I have never paid an escort in advance. However, if I did and he did not show, I would not find it fun, hot, or sexy.

 

...Do you find that cocky & masculine & intriguing like he is some sort of rascal?

 

No. In my opinion, "rascal" would be an escort who remembered a conversation where I expressed an interest in watersports and decided to surprise me by taking a piss on me. Failing to show for a pre-paid appointment would signal a crook.

 

...If you wired him money and he didn't show up, would you hire him again?

 

No

 

...If he much later recontacted you and promised to show up a second time and stood you up again, would you attempt a third time?

 

If he was offering an appointment in return for the money I already paid me, I might.

 

...Is that cat-n-mouse play sexy to you?

 

No

[corndog]

I'm totally mystified, shocked, even gobsmacked that someone would get off on being stolen from. On a related note, I'm also baffled by escorts who seem to intentionally show pictures that make them look mean, unfriendly or thuggish. I like to try to understand everyone's point of view, but these things I just don't comprehend.

[anotherjohnindupont]

John if you meet someone like that let me know and I'll PM you my routing number ;D

 

Brilliant! A sucker is born every minute!

 

"Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me."

[Gar1eth]

Tell you what John,- I'm a 'chubby' ( Internet for 'fat') middle aged guy. But I could make up a fake ad with dynamite pictures. You have this client of yours contact me. I'll put on a good show-have him send money to my Pay Pal Account- will obviously never show up- and will pay you a 10% finder's fee. Is that a deal or what?

 

Gman

[JoeBlow]

No, it's no fun at all---it's a total waste of time. I understand when an escort has to cancel at least 24 hours in advance for a legit reason, but there is almost NO viable excuse for a no show/no call. I had the same guy do it to me twice. I know, I know...I shouldn't have hired him again after the first no show, but he had a few good reviews so I thought the first time was just a fluke. Never again, I've learned my lesson! Now, the math is really very simple: Show up and treat me well--I'll tip generously and call you back when I'm next visiting your city. No show on me once and you'll never hear from me again.

[JT Brooklyn]

Hell No!

[Guest verymarried]

I have to get off subject and say that STJohn is about the coolest companion for French Quarter bar hopping than exists anywhere. Whatta guy. When ST says he will show, he shows, and he knows how to have great fun! Sorry to interrupt but had to plug this good guy.

[BaronArtz]

I wouldn't even begin to contemplate sending money to a guy in advance. Absolutely not. And in case he attempts to screw me over, cheat or steal in any other way I'll make every effort to destroy his reputation on message boards. That's my take on this.

[Michael Wayne]

In my long career in this biz I have never asked for and never accepted any money upfront. Asking a new client for a deposit is telling him you dont trust him and is in fact insulting the client. I also would rather wait and be paid AFTER the session. I am delivering a product and a service and until I deliver I have not earned anything. Also..... in life things come up and cancellations occur on both ends. If money has been exchanged then it really complicates things. I think this is why many leading escorts are now arranging their own flights. When you do that if you have to cancel then the client is not out the airfare. These are just my time tested business practices and I am sure other guys do things differently. http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop

[kjun]

I have never advanced money but if I did and he didn't show then I would be very unhappy and certainly not hire the man again. That's psychological masochism.

[MalcomXpark]

In my long career in this biz I have never asked for and never accepted any money upfront. Asking a new client for a deposit is telling him you dont trust him and is in fact insulting the client. I also would rather wait and be paid AFTER the session. I am delivering a product and a service and until I deliver I have not earned anything. Also..... in life things come up and cancellations occur on both ends. If money has been exchanged then it really complicates things. I think this is why many leading escorts are now arranging their own flights. When you do that if you have to cancel then the client is not out the airfare. These are just my time tested business practices and I am sure other guys do things differently. http://www.rentmen.com/mikeyusatop

 

Would you ask for the client to get your plane ticket for a weekend trip? What if he "paypals" you the money in advance for you to get the ticket?