How long do you keep it going?

[McLeanspider]

A lot of my time is being spent with endless texts, e-mail, and photo sending to guys that don't seem to be serious. My nature is to never be unkind or disingenuous, but some of this is obviously not serious. How long do you let it go before you put on the brakes?

 

I think a phone call is needed for you to ask and be asked all the possible questions, you can also get the feeling of whether the guy is serious or not.

 

I'm sure you have a sixth sense already developed to know how serious the guy is after all if you seem to be as educated and of course a real D.I.L.F hottie.

[Frequentflier]

I won't keep it going long at all, I don't show nudity to avoid this problem. After three messages and no app, I drop them. I pay attention to people who mean Business, ex Hi names joe was wondering if your available. I learned from a fellow friend it is important to not write short messages which I don't. However I think my fellow partners would agree when I say "Radar"

 

Likewise. I work and travel near constantly and anyone who can't reply with a sentence, can't provide an answer to what was requested without bunches of emails and/or won't get on a phone which makes it a lot faster is "dropped". If I ask a question and don't get an answer, not a good sign. Can you send a face photo (I'm ok to take it by text too) is an example - it's yes or no - not "no answer" and I have to ask again. I only hire for overnights and weekends and if the guy seems like a zero in his responses, that's my level of interest. Those I've been with, once or multiple times, stand out from how they've conducted themselves from the start. Don't want to type the standard responses, cut and paste. Cmon, the playtime isn't non stop for an overnight or a weekend (the escorts I hire can't keep up) so what the guys face looks like (no face, no hire) and some vibe that he can hold a conversation beyond the weather outside is important. We don't need to discuss physics (although happy to listen), but you get my point. Playtime activities (what's in the RB ads works), picture, rate and nothing that tells me he's a dud in his communication and we're done and meeting.

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Communication, as with all interpersonal situations, is vitally important. Intimate situations like this are especially sensitive to nuanced interpretations of meanings that can get lost in text-only conversations. Phone or even Skype are definitely appropriate, I think, when initial meetings are being arranged.

[Tim FTL]

A lot of my time is being spent with endless texts, e-mail, and photo sending to guys that don't seem to be serious. My nature is to never be unkind or disingenuous, but some of this is obviously not serious. How long do you let it go before you put on the brakes?

 

They do this to me on adam4adam from time to time. They'll message you and say nice cock or pics, etc.

 

I usually answer the First message with, "Do you need an appointment?" If they say no, etc. then don't respond anymore.

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Excellent idea

[Gar1eth]

They do this to me on adam4adam from time to time. They'll message you and say nice cock or pics, etc.

 

I usually answer the First message with, "Do you need an appointment?" If they say no, etc. then don't respond anymore.

 

Just remember to be polite and not too abrupt. An initial 'No' might turn into a potential yes thirty minutes or a day or so later with some additional thinking by the client. I think I stared-I'm sorry I meant drooled- at Ace Banner's pictures for about 24 hours before I decided I had to meet him.

 

Gman

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