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New to the forum and to escorting -

 

Since I currently work in a bathhouse and previously as a bartender, I can safely say that empirical evidence is showing the preponderance of porn is now headed to (or at) BB. And casual sex is significantly BB between not just gay men, but Bi and "straight" men as well. OTOH, we still do have a lot of condoms used each day & night...

 

As noted, I'm new to escorting, but I know the question is going to come up... As is the question of "clean/negative." And to that, almost every escort I've ever personally known is both positive, and hiding it if possible.

 

This is shocking material...

 

I don't know if people are just trying it on or bullshitting or what, but I've ironically had 3 guys recently in a short period of time on different websites ask whether I do bareback or not. 2 declined because they just 'like it natural"

 

Time to start using giant, capitol letters letting people know because it's not getting through.

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I've had several turn-downs already because I won't. Usually it's in the first set of questions they ask along with "Do you party?". I actually enjoy saying no to those!!!

 

Does "party" mean anything beyond drug use? Any particular drugs?

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And to that, almost every escort I've ever personally known is both positive, and hiding it if possible.

 

That may be true, but not all of us are positive. Last time I was checked in February 2013 I was negative. But I'm positive-friendly and I have many positive friends. No need to start some segregation here. Few are open about their status, for reasons that are not hard to comprehend. Nobody should be blunt about it.

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Exactly.....You mean there are actuallly hot male TSA agents?

 

Few and far between, but yes I've seen them (LA, NYC and Denver in particular). I agree most are not hot. Its probably just my imagination but the hot ones usually (while they are scanning the crowd) catch my eye and smile (they probably know what I'm thinking about them or my expression is giving me away). And if one is checking my ID, I always get a great laugh from some joke I crack. How does my phone number randomly end up in their possession? :) I'd try the opt out of scanner but with my luck I'll get the aforementioned 50 + year old butch lesbian that wants to try out her latest style of sandpaper rubber gloves.

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Ok, you ever get a comment card given to you by a TSA agent? I have (New Orleans). I went through the process and complimented one of the agents about courtesy, efficiency and they said "PLEASE fill out a comment card because all we get is complaints". If TSA really wants to improve its favorability rating - three lines 1) Women traveling alone (who cares who searches them), 2) families (old grandfather and grandmother types) and 3) gay men (interviewed and screened by only the hottest male TSA agents). Imagine the look on the face of the TSA office worker who reads that card. Hmmm...and can I apply for the job interviewing applicants for these TSA agents for # 3 (part of the test is flip/flop pat downs)?

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In my private time I have never ever BB, and I am DD clean. as I do care for others and realize people do have wife's or professions if they did catch something. They could loose there jobs, also with partying its risky because you can loose your judgement. ace I like that you stick to your guns, I think you should be fine if you say no it's understandable.

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That may be true, but not all of us are positive. Last time I was checked in February 2013 I was negative. But I'm positive-friendly and I have many positive friends. No need to start some segregation here. Few are open about their status, for reasons that are not hard to comprehend. Nobody should be blunt about it.

 

Thus the very specific wording of "almost every escort I've ever personally known." I wasn't casting aspersions on anyone, nor segregating. In fact, segregating would be specifying that one is negative, wouldn't it? Otherwise, I agree with your sentiments.

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Lol...I usually do travel prepared for light bondage!! Maybe that would work nicely in this case!! Lol

 

I'm getting confused regarding the original question. Did he want you to bareback him or did he want to bareback you--or did he want reciprocal barebacking? While I know you are versatile, I figured most guys are hiring you to top--since the general wisdom around here is that most clients are bottoms. Because if you are topping him missionary style and have your hands on his arms--it's going to be quite difficult for him to pull a condom off your tallywacker.

 

Gman

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There was a comment on here which may have been deleted - where someone said he'd like to think you could go bare in a committed relationship but included a link to a Huffington post article about guys who use the social apps - a large percentage of them have unsafe sex.

 

An acquaintance of mine that I met last spring, if he could be believed, said he was newly HIV positive because his former partner had played around unprotected behind his back. Now I doubt that I will ever be lucky enough for a relationship. But even if pigs and donkeys started flying, and there was a cold day down below, and I somehow managed to have a relationship- stories like that make me afraid to ever bareback even in the context of a relationship.

 

Gman

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There was a comment on here which may have been deleted - where someone said he'd like to think you could go bare in a committed relationship but included a link to a Huffington post article about guys who use the social apps - a large percentage of them have unsafe sex.

 

An acquaintance of mine that I met last spring, if he could be believed, said he was newly HIV positive because his former partner had played around unprotected behind his back. Now I doubt that I will ever be lucky enough for a relationship. But even if pigs and donkeys started flying, and there was a cold day down below, and I somehow managed to have a relationship- stories like that make me afraid to ever bareback even in the context of a relationship.

 

Gman

 

It was I who ye speak of! I thought it was just meaningless information no one would pay attention to:

 

Huff Post Grindr

 

I as a rule always turn down BB requests and put those that request it on my do not reply list.

 

That's very good. I know people are going to want to beat me up for this, but 2 cities I would be VERY cautious of bareback in would be San Francisco and Atlanta. And South Beach, Miami. You can probably add New York to that, except in New York I heard they practically give away condoms for free. Actually, just add the whole world to that list.

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