My first time being flown.

[jameswonderful]

Hey everyone,

 

I've been around for a little bit now, but this weekend I'm being flown from Atlanta to NYC. I've already had a chat with my client and got round tickets. I'm really nervous, and I would like to hear some others' stories or tips about travelling. -James

[+ azdr0710]

your first time being flown or the first time you've ever flown??

[jameswonderful]

both actually.

[Aarian]

both actually.

 

In that case ....

 

Going through security is what I always found the most unpleasant part. It's often a big crowd that needs to go through security. If you behave like "part of the crowd" then you'll get through it the smoothest. I wouldn't be worried about them finding your lube, condoms or dildo's. They are worried about terrorists and safety, not about what you stick up your *ss or what you stick up someone else's *ss.

 

Have fun in NYC!

 

Aarian.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Hey everyone,

 

I've been around for a little bit now, but this weekend I'm being flown from Atlanta to NYC. I've already had a chat with my client and got round tickets. I'm really nervous, and I would like to hear some others' stories or tips about travelling. -James

 

I'm on my iPhone and read this as "my first time being BLOWN."

 

Don't be nervous and sit in an aisle seat in case you feel sick or need to use the lavatory on the fly. Bring earplugs too.

[leigh.bess.toad]

I'm on my iPhone and read this as "my first time being BLOWN."

 

Don't be nervous and sit in an aisle seat in case you feel sick or need to use the lavatory on the fly. Bring earplugs too.

 

And chewing gum.

[ErieBear]

Just remember that you probably can't take your lube through security. They don't allow liquids more than 3 oz. It would have to be packed in your checked luggage.

[unsub2O17]

There are some lube containers, especially of the silicone type, that are less than 3 oz.

[nate_sf]

I'd suggest checking your bag, even if it's just for a short trip. Then you don't need to worry about what to put in your carry-on and getting through security. Most airlines will charge you about $25 for a bag and you'll have to wait for it at baggage claim, but then it's out of your hands and you don't have to lug it around and onto the plane.

 

Also if you haven't already, check with your client on how you will get from the airport to where you're meeting him. Cabs from the airport are easy, and the inbound fare is fixed. Transit from the various NYC airports probably takes a bit more skill to navigate so perhaps not for your first trip.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey James,

 

That's exciting! All I have to say is relax, breathe deeply and know that if you like what you do and are present, you are going to nail it. Soon you will look back at this thread and will realize that you have been travelling all over the place, a seasoned flier, a seasoned escort, having a blast.

All the best to you, stud!

Safe and exciting travels!

[Edward]

Flying the first time is like getting layed/laid the first time. Lay back, try to relax. But you won't enjoy being screwed by TSA. If you carry on bagage, take all liquids out of your luggage and put them in a plastic bag and put the clear plastic bag in the tray that goes though the scanner. This includes your 3oz bottles of mouth wash and lub. Get there plenty early. On a flight I was on Sunday they closed the plane door 15 minutes before they were scheduled to take off. (2HOURS AT A BUSY AIRPORT) Even more time than that may be need if you have to get your ticket at the airport.

[JoeyBryant]

If you squeeze a bit of air out, the bottle has room to expand when the surrounding air pressure is lower. Of course this doesn't work with glass bottles, but I'm not sure if you would want to take those with you anyway.

 

 

i think glass bottles work differently. i always carry an un-opened, emergency bottle of wine in my checked bag. the cork never pops out.

 

To add to whats been mentioned, if its your 1st time flying and flying to a client...that can be a potential stress ticking bomb (hopefully not on the plane itself...per the various articles about people losing it). Just don't skip any meals and bring along some aspirin and any other pills for any other body parts that may need a boost.

 

I used to like flying..but overtime it just got worse and worse. On my first flight, you were okay to bring your water bottles, cologne, lotions...everything you'd need throughout the afternoon. Eventually you're not even going to bring your phone. Just like in jail. And unless it's 1st class, the seats are just so tiny. My last flight I ended up sandwiched between 2 people for 3 1/2 hours. all the luggage racks were full...i had to shove my carry-on under my floor space. Of course it just depends on where/when you're going. On some flights, everyone had a whole row to themselves.

 

Funnily enough, I always meet someone interesting on my flights. Like a whole conversation as if we've known each other for years but are never going to meet again lol.

[+ azdr0710]

if you check a bag rather than carry it on, do that out front at the curb (these people are NOT airline employees and should get a $2-3 tip per bag) or right inside at the airline's main counter....you can print your boarding pass ahead of time at home (or at a self-serve station near the counter) and bypass the front if you are not checking anything (i.e. go directly to security)

 

remember, no liquids bigger than 3 oz can go thru security and they all need to be in a clear zip-lock bag...no water bottles...have your boarding pass and photo ID ready at first....wear shoes that you can quickly slip out of as you approach the detectors, but do this after you first showed the first person your boarding pass and ID....take your toilet kit out of your carry-on (if you carry it on) and put it in a bin along with all electronics, stuff in your pocket, metal, belt, shoes....and make sure you pick it ALL up at the other end of security....check for everything before you leave security....the TSA agents can help you, though they may appear busy or humorless....other passengers will get impatient at a newbie like you ahead of them, but don't rush.....watch what others do ahead of you.......

 

at the gate, an airline employee can help you with any questions....

 

and your client can help you, too, I hope!.....

 

here's some security info from the TSA:

 

http://www.tsa.gov/traveler-information

[Atlantagaguy]

Is this your first overnight/Travel gig? Make sure you have a contact person, always keep in contact with them until you feel comfortable with your client. Never let your guard down. Always be aware of your surroundings and what you’re drinking and eating. It would be great if you have a local go to person in NYC. Enjoy the big city!

[Guy Fawkes]

Don't check your bag (There's an assumption there)

 

I travel with a bag the just fits in the overhead bin, and a computer bag with enough for me to survive for a day.

 

I take it up all the way to the door and sweetly say: "Oh, this looks like a full flight! Want this one down below?" They almost always agree, put your seat number on it, and 9 times out of 10 its waiting for you next to the door when you exit the plane.

 

I'd suggest checking your bag, even if it's just for a short trip. Then you don't need to worry about what to put in your carry-on and getting through security. Most airlines will charge you about $25 for a bag and you'll have to wait for it at baggage claim, but then it's out of your hands and you don't have to lug it around and onto the plane.

 

Also if you haven't already, check with your client on how you will get from the airport to where you're meeting him. Cabs from the airport are easy, and the inbound fare is fixed. Transit from the various NYC airports probably takes a bit more skill to navigate so perhaps not for your first trip.

[Aarian]

Oh, I forgot ...

 

At most airports, just before you leave the airport, there's often a stand with flyers that show you what the city has to offer. You may want to check it and see what the two of you can do in NYC in the daytime or in the evening. Errr, I mean when you're not in bed doing crossword puzzles ...

 

Aarian.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

And I forgot to tell you that this is an adventure, so treat it like one since your next flight won't be your first. Look out the window. Savor going up in the air and try to figure out where you are. Be amazed when you finally get to see the Statue of Liberty from the air, and the NYC skyline.

 

And lastly, ask for the entire can of soda or juice.

[+ azdr0710]

And lastly, ask for the entire can of soda or juice.

 

jesus, I gotta meet this Chris guy everybody is talking about.....

[EliLewis]

Is this your first overnight/Travel gig? Make sure you have a contact person, always keep in contact with them until you feel comfortable with your client. Never let your guard down. Always be aware of your surroundings and what you’re drinking and eating. It would be great if you have a local go to person in NYC. Enjoy the big city!

 

Atlantaguy makes a great point about having a contact person on call at all times. I'm a Manhattan-based RentBoy so if you do run into any snags along the way I can always point you in the right direction in terms of restaurants, bars, and other activities and outings. This should be a fun and exciting trip, though - I hope you packed, or have your client purchase, a winter jacket since it's still a little chilly and windy here in NYC! Have a blast and welcome to the Big Apple!

[+ AceBanner]

Arrive an hour early in ATL, 75 min in NYC. Wear something comfortable. Use easy-to-remove shoes. Check in 24-hours early to get the best seat (exit rows don't recline). Check your departure gate and at the time you check in and know if you need North or South Terminal in ATL. Pack your keys and phone charger in something that is with you on the plane. Take a protein bar with you in your bag. Use carry-on luggage when possible. Don't forget the clear plastic bag for liquids (Wet platinum's small bottle works fine). Don't count on having on-board entertainment so be prepared if you don't think you'll be able to sleep. Have a car service pick you up at the airport (A1 limousine is the best--client pays).

[Atlantagaguy]

James, How was your first trip to NYC?

[Xander]

James, How was your first trip to NYC?

 

Guy flaked on him

[Atlantagaguy]

Guy flaked on him

When did James find out? I hope he didn't get to the NY Airport and find out.

[jameswonderful]

We had set up that he was going to email me my plane tickets. The day before my fight I called him and he said he'd send them in 45 min. After an hour I called him back with no reply.

[Diverdan]

Better that he flaked now... saved you a trip, and probably an even worse experience when you got there. Guys like that give clients a bad name. So sorry for you, James.