Tristan Baldwin and Handlers

[Gar1eth]

The question here is; what hoops is a potential client willing to jump through in order to meet a given escort. I vividly remember a highly successful escort, now retired, who insisted that potential clients fill out a rather lengthy questioner. Additionally his fee was based on fifteen minute intervals. Now the guy was hot and had, at least in my eyes, a body to die for. Did I ever get together with him? – Absolutely not. I simply wasn’t willing to meet his precondition prior to meeting. Did my refusal destroy his career? -- Absolutely not. There were more than enough clients willing to meet those conditions and thus he made an outstanding living.

As a client I have always believed that if conditions are to be set I, the client, will set them NOT the escort. If that precludes me meeting a certain escorts; so be it. It’s a big pond out there with a multitude of fish – I’ll just keep fishing thank you

 

I've been around awhile, but my memory fails me. Who the heck was this?

 

Gman

[down_to_business]

this reply hurt more than helped. you need to learn how to actually deal with people if you're going to be his assistant

 

you ignored the cardinal rules of customer service with this response. you got defensive and it was the wrong way to handle it

 

OMG quit making me agree with jimboivyo.. but he nailed it on the head. If I were on the fence after reading your reply I would absolutely pass on Tristan too. As amatter of fact, striking him from the list right now.

 

Hope you learn from the good advice he gave you. Rick and TB you guys are self destructing in the forum right in front of us.

[MiamiLooker]

I've been around awhile, but my memory fails me. Who the heck was this?

 

Gman

 

 

Betcha it was Talvin Demachio

 

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[+ sf westcoaster]

I am the customer and am free to do business or not with the provider. In the case under discussion, I would not do business and would look for another provider. I may not agree with the provider's method of doing business, but that does not mean that he can't or should not do as he sees fit.

When arranging for an escort I want to be able to commmunicate directly with him and not with a third party. It is my opinion that the Mr. Baldwin's booking agent has not helped him with his defensive response and needs to get some training in public relations.

[bigvalboy]

Betcha it was Talvin Demachio

 

One of my first crushes....and yes, I would have filled out the questionnaire, and paid in increments of 5 min if he had asked.

[+ overeasy]

Ouch .... Rik, afraid that one was a fail....Would have been so easy to quit after explaining Why the scheduling was being done the way it was....Simply put, the priority, until after spring, has shifted from escorting to bodybuilding. done.

[jimboivyo]

OMG quit making me agree with jimboivyo.. but he nailed it on the head.

 

I might be a little one note and loyal as the day is long, but I'm certainly not irrational

[zach_wilson]

I have been reading this forum on the eoy and his handler and my only question I would have for rik is understanding that mr.baldwin has these routines, why not simply have where he is on a strict schedule and lets say he works out from 6am-8am then again from 6pm-8pm have that as a block that can not be scheduled for clients and maybe even until 9am and 9pm so that he has time to shower and get ready. Then allow for eat times from 5-6am and 5-6pm and then somewhere after working out this would still allow for some clients to book out multiple hours or for you as an assistant to forward his schedule to him during the day allowing him to know when he is going to be with someone. I just feel that in the case that you made there are easy ways to avoid displeased people by simply sitting down or calling baldwin and setting up an set schedule and lets say he is going to stray from it then he simply pulls out his smartphone(most have them now a days) and puts it into the schedule which is linked to you view outlook. Then you can set appointments accordingly with no more unpleased clients.

[Traveler North]

I do not see any problem with Rik handling Tristans business. Rik has always been very helpful in arranging my meetings with Tristan and Tristan is a wondefful guy both in and out of bed. The arrangement between Rik and Tristan works very well.

[Irish69]

I do not see any problem with Rik handling Tristans business. Rik has always been very helpful in arranging my meetings with Tristan and Tristan is a wondefful guy both in and out of bed. The arrangement between Rik and Tristan works very well.

 

 

Thank-you!

 

**Big Hug**

 

Rik

[+ deej]

Betcha it was Talvin Demachio

 

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Doubtful. He never asked me to fill out any questionnaire.

[EZEtoGRU]

OMG quit making me agree with jimboivyo.. but he nailed it on the head. If I were on the fence after reading your reply I would absolutely pass on Tristan too. As amatter of fact, striking him from the list right now.

 

Hope you learn from the good advice he gave you. Rick and TB you guys are self destructing in the forum right in front of us.

I have to agree with you. I found Rik's response quite off-putting. He isn't helping at all.

[KentuckyBoy]

My oh my, what a fuss!

 

Count me as one who did not find Rik's response off-putting. Next time Tristan comes to Atlanta, I'll call on Rik to help me set-up an appointment.

[Stagger]

I have know Tristan for several years and not only is he deserving of the EOY title, but he is a damn nice guy! I asked him about this scheduling situation a month or so ago when I saw him in DC and quite frankly he was getting overwhelmed with emails and calls and was relieved to have Rik step up to the plate to help him out. I went through Rik for this last meeting with Tristan and it couldn't have gone any smoother. Rik was very friendly and outgoing and couldn't have been any more helpful. I don't understand the vitriol being expressed here, if there is only an hour available than take it, but if that isn't to your liking move on. All of us have schedules and calendars of sorts and things don't always work out the way we want.

 

If you don't like this system there are other fish in the sea, but you'll be missing out on a real catch!

[+ poolboy48220]

The question here is; what hoops is a potential client willing to jump through in order to meet a given escort. I vividly remember a highly successful escort, now retired, who insisted that potential clients fill out a rather lengthy questioner. Additionally his fee was based on fifteen minute intervals. Now the guy was hot and had, at least in my eyes, a body to die for. Did I ever get together with him? – Absolutely not. I simply wasn’t willing to meet his precondition prior to meeting. Did my refusal destroy his career? -- Absolutely not. There were more than enough clients willing to meet those conditions and thus he made an outstanding living.

As a client I have always believed that if conditions are to be set I, the client, will set them NOT the escort. If that precludes me meeting a certain escorts; so be it. It’s a big pond out there with a multitude of fish – I’ll just keep fishing thank you

 

If it's Ricardo Milos (based on the questionnaire and "now retired" hints), I met with him. The first time I responded to his ad, I put in a LOT of time filling out his questionnaire, and he was a bit taken aback - if I recall, he said "it sounds like you want to get into more role-playing than a standard session", or something to that effect, and we never met up. A year or two later I contacted him again, he sent me the same questionnaire (either he did not remember or connect me with the previous response, or was just polite enough to overlook it), I filled it out much more briefly, and we met up and had a great time. He had his limits but he was an awesome top.

[ted]

I just booked an apt with Tristan for Feb. about a week ago Booking through Rik was easy and Tristan called less then 24 hours later to say hello. And I do remember the threads about the issues he had responding to emails before Rik entered the picture. Also, one of the more frequent complaints on here about booking escorts in general is the lack of timely response.

 

In case you don't know, if Tristan is looking to compete, we are talking about probably eating 6 times a day and 2 unreal workouts. By itself, preparing for competition is almost a full time job. Personally, I like the fitness model physique more than the true bodybuilder so here's hoping Tristan doesn't get too big.

[+ purplekow]

Doubtful. He never asked me to fill out any questionnaire.

As i recall Talvin had an oral examination but no questionnaire. i remebering getting an A and then a big "O" all over his chest Fun memories

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I don't usually jump into the fray on these types of debates, but I'm tired of comments that seem to be closed minded. Since I have worked with several individuals with disabilities in my career, this one just rubs me the wrong way. (Not that I'm aware of disabilities being part of why Tristan has Rik helping out - it simply echos the things I hear from those I work with that have disabilities.)

 

Professionally, I have worked with small business owners for years. I think most of the escorts that participate here, or are discussed here, would be classified as small business owners. (The exception may be those that work for one of the agencies.)

 

Many small business owners I have dealt with have great passion and knowledge for the industry that have chosen to enter, whether that be carpentry, dentistry, interior design, fitness, or cuisine. Many of these individuals don't have other business skills, such as bookkeeping, legal/contracts, cost analysis, or marketing. In these cases, they have others help them out, whether another business partner, spouse, or hired professional.

 

I have a customer who is a landscaper whose business was not enough to support his family financially. After some discussions, he admitted that he was dyslexic and had difficulty managing his appointment book, billing clients, and paying his vendors. It all took so much of his time that although his competitors and mentors were able to handle all of this independently, his disability required him to spend more time doing these 'administrative' functions and less time working with clients and earning an income. By simply allowing his wife to handle these tasks as a reliable partner, he had more time to work with clients and his business grew and thrived.

 

So let's take escorts. Some are tops and others are bottoms; some with tats and others with piercings; gingers, blonds, shaved heads, and brunette; some like vanilla and others enjoy watersports. They also have their own skills outside of the core skills to being an escort:

 

(a) one escort needs to hire a housekeeper to have a clean space for incalls and another handles it himself immaculately,

(b) one escort hires a tax professional and another files his own returns,

© one escort asks someone to help book appointments and manage his calendar and another keeps is own planner.

 

BIG DEAL!

 

As clients, we all have the right to choose to hire escorts that provide us the experience we are looking for - - anything from only scheduling appointment by directly with them to only seeing escorts who will accommodate an incall.

 

Bottom line in my rant: if you want to book with escort but don't want to book through an agency/representative and this is the only option, simply pass on that individual. But do not complain that other escorts can manage this on their own so Tristan should be able to do so as well.

[rvwnsd]

The question here is; what hoops is a potential client willing to jump through in order to meet a given escort...

 

Hoops, what hoops? Potential client calls/emails Rik. Potential client talks to Rik. Tristan calls potential client. Potential client talks to Tristan. Potential client becomes client. Client and Tristan meet. Client and Tristan [fill in the blank]. Client writes extremely detailed review, right down to the mililiters of cum Tristan spewed and the square footage of the area over which it fell.

 

I'm not seeing the problem here.

 

So now I'm a handler...

 

I read nothing off-putting in Rik's response. Some of the other responses, well...

 

...I would rather hear from someone who has partaken of the experience he has to offer and whether HE, not his handler, is worthy of EOY.

 

I hired Tristan in December, 2011. I had a great time. My only regret is not writing a review. That was a complete oversight. Next time I hire him I will write one.

[nycfan2003]

No problems here. I've dealt with Rik and with Tristan personally. Both have treated me well. I look forward to talking with Rik and meeting Tristan again.

[rossthebosssf]

Some of the conversations in here, I swear...

 

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[mmk123]

what type of oral exam would Talvin give?

 

Two years ago Ricardo was coming to Pittsburgh and when I inquired about meeting up with him he sent me his questionnaire. I did save it and have posted it here before but here it is again

 

 

 

 

 

 

[/b] Questionnaire for 1st time- potential clients w/ Ricardo Milos

 

Please answer these quick questions, as it is my process in screening my clients, to make sure I am the right professional companion to fit your needs.

 

 

1. Please tell me briefly yourself? (I.e. describe yourself height, weight, age, nationality-race, current location, hobbies etc)

 

 

 

 

2. What do you like to get into?

 

 

 

 

3. Have you ever hired a professional escort?

 

 

 

 

4. Why do you choose to hire a professional escort, from my experience in this business most men have various reason I.E. do it for convenience- easier , hobby, don’t go out to clubs, very discreet, fantasy fulfillment, 1st time experience with man to man sex? Tell me your reason?

 

 

 

 

5. If your answer #3 was yes, how has your experience been in hiring professional escorts good or bad? If bad it’s ok to elaborate on what happen in the situation. (Not necessary name the particular escort or escorts involved )

 

 

 

 

6. What is your expectation in the session with an escort, or even with me?

 

7. If interested in pre-booking appointment please list at least 3 possible dates an window of time available, also provide a confirmation telephone number.(no phone number, I do not book an appointment).

 

 

 

8. Is there any questions you have for me? I open to anything you wish to know ?

 

****Note* ***I am Hiv -negative and I provide a total Safe Sex only enviroment, we all are responsible for protecting ourselves so I practice SAFE SEX. Due to my heavy physical fitness and professional companionship service very detailed check ups regularly because my safety and health is most important.

 

 

 

Thank you for your time and patience in answering these quick questions.

I do work by appointment only... You can click on link to read my nationally acclaimed reviews http://www.daddysreviews.com/newest.php?who=ricardo_milos_tampa and you can find all about me on my official mega website http://www.RicardoMilos.net Prebooking is encourage as I get booked up fast.

 

***If this is too much for you and you wish not to do this I understand totally, basically shows that we will not work out in a session. I am very structured and 100% professional. A quality person wants and appreciates a quality professional for a quality experience.***

 

 

 

My Rates as follows

 

General Companionship (includes hot erotic play & rubdown massage, oral play, passionate kissing everything but penetration)

 

$250 Hour

 

$170 Half/Hour

 

Full Service companionship (hot erotic play & rubdown massage, mutual oral play, kissing, me topping you)

 

$320 hour

 

$200 Half/hour rate

 

 

 

 

***Some Outcalls is $50 extra due travel time, address must be verifiable, pending location from my central base.***

 

Couples-3-way - additional person $150 hr. extra

 

***Pre-booking is encouraged due to limited time in area as I do get booked up quickly ***

 

CLICK HERE READ MY REVIEWS

 

 

 

***$$ Discount rate Specials $$***

 

 

 

$50 Discount

 

 

 

If you place a $50 deposit via paypal will be $50 off of rate of session.

 

 

 

*EARLY BIRD SPECIAL DISCOUNT $50 off on ALL appointment made between the hours 7am & 12:30 pm

 

** To get the early bird special discount you must PREBOOKED the appointment and confirm your appointment in advance. The appointment can be set anytime between the hours of 7am – 12:30pm

 

 

 

 

 

$100 Discount

 

$100 off Multi hour appointmentment (deposit is required)

 

 

 

(discounts do not apply to 1/2 hour sessions)

 

 

 

 

 

Overnight Rates

 

1300- overnight 9 hours

 

1500- overnight 12 hours

 

3700- Weekender (3 day & 2 night)

 

***standard $500 deposit required plus travel if required***

 

 

 

OVERNIGHT RATE SPECIAL

 

$300 OFF IF PREPAY half of rate in advance

 

$400 off if prepay the total amount of overnight in advance

 

 

 

Anything else is negotiated upon your needs discretion is assured & satisfaction is my specialty..

 

 

 

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My Objective as a Professional Companion-Escort

 

To accommodate my clients needs, not misrepresenting something that I am not, I enjoy the company of respectful individuals of any age, race, gender and body type. I like to create an environment where men can express their desire & fantasies w/o fear of embarrassment, shame or judgments. With all the social baggage surrounding sexuality, which sometimes causes unhappiness, discontent, and for people generally not living the life they want. I like to supply that for people, even if it’s only for short moment, leaving with a smile on their face, and memories that will last a lifetime.

 

Note of advice:

 

There're many guys in this business that should not be, research and make your choice wisely…make it a good experience.

[bigvalboy]

Some of the conversations in here, I swear...

 

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lol lol...Perfect!!

[Gar1eth]

Some of the conversations in here, I swear...

 

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I was wondering what movie that was from. I love Ryan Reynolds. I'd love to top him.

 

Gman

[+ purplekow]

I believe it is the one with Sandra Bullock where she marries him to become a US Citizen. She is his boss and Canadian and he is from Alaska. Betty White plays his grandmother. Do not recall the name but I am sure someone will answer right away.