What is the protocol reguarding money and hiring?

[Edward]

This is a take off of another recent post. What is the protocol for how money is exchanged when renting. What should be and not be said. There are two conflicting things that I continuely hear on the forum. 1) dont mention sex acts and money at the same time and 2) be specific about what is expected. Really like to see a "how to guide" on how to rent a guy and at the same time minumize the possibility of a police sting.

[Mark Gordon]

I accept payment before, during or after. You can hand it to me, leave the bills fanned out on the table, discreetly pass me an envelope, or tuck it between my butt cheeks. As long as I'm in Canada.

[KMEM]

Is that the same as being in Nirvana which is where your clients will be with you.?

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[bigvalboy]

I accept payment before, during or after. You can hand it to me, leave the bills fanned out on the table, discreetly pass me an envelope, or tuck it between my butt cheeks. As long as I'm in Canada.

 

I prefer the butt cheeks, kinda like I do with the dancing boys. It's a nice touch and lets them know that I really like them...

[RobertV]

This is a take off of another recent post. What is the protocol for how money is exchanged when renting. What should be and not be said. There are two conflicting things that I continuely hear on the forum. 1) dont mention sex acts and money at the same time and 2) be specific about what is expected. Really like to see a "how to guide" on how to rent a guy and at the same time minumize the possibility of a police sting.

 

Thank you for asking that question. I've been trying to figure it out myself. There's lots of great advice on hiring an escort on this site, but I still haven't untwisted how to solve the problem you mention. How do you express what you're interested in and looking for and inquire about rates without discussing money and sex acts at the same time? Perhaps those who hire often can explain how they manage to discuss the two items when they are hiring a new escort, and/or escorts can weigh in what information they would like to receive and discuss when being contacted by a new client (and what should not be discussed/asked).

 

Don't escorts need to know exactly what the client is looking for before they meet, and isn't it important for a client to know what the escort expects in renumeration before they hire?

[down_to_business]

Personally, I only discuss acts in emails but never in terms of specific acts for money. For example, what is your rate for your time would be one question. What activities do you get into might be another question. I would never ask what would the following activites cost.

 

I also NEVER discuss specific acts or money over the phone with an escort. I repeat NEVER NEVER NEVER.

 

In person, I prefer to start any session off with a hug and kiss immediately. Straight cops do not like to kiss guys on the lips, not even to make an arrest. If the escort started any meeting off with something like "Did you bring the money" or "Show me the money" or " We agreed on X$ for X, right?" I would immediately end the session and leave without saying another word.

 

Finally, if the escort you are meeting is unreviewed by someone you trust, does not show their cock in any pictures, and never will discuss anything remotely sexual in nature over the phone and/or email the entire time you correspond with them-- I would not make an appointment. It may be they are just shy and respectful, but I wouldn't take the chance.

[Electra 225]

I have avoided potential problems in this arena (our playground) for years by following a couple of simple rules or guidelines:

 

1. I rarely, if ever, contact a provider (masseur or escort) who does not advertise or list their rates in their ad. By posting their "asking" prices, it takes a lot of the guesswork out of booking a session. If the rate is out of line with what I am interested in paying for perceived service/services, then I simply pass without bothering the provider (not wasting time for either of us).

 

2. When I do make the call (or email), I generally try to find out what the provider is interested in doing (likes and dislikes) and let them ask questions about me as well. This usually gives me a decent idea of what to expect.

 

3. Whenever possible (as in most of the time--if not all of the time), I only hire recently and well-reviewed providers (usually from this site) OR those that have been advertising in my market (or in the market where I will travel) for an extended period of time.

 

4. When making payment, if the provider is new to me and, likewise I am new to the provider, I will show the provider the agreed-upon fee and let them know that they will be paid, in full, at the end of the session. However, when I am with a provider I know (and who knows me), then no mention of payment is made as they (and I) know that payment in full will be made at the end of the session. I NEVER pay for services "up front" before the service(s) are rendered.

 

These "Simple Rules to Play By" have almost always (99.99%) resulted in an excellent, quality experience.