Bad Reviews of Popular Escorts

[bigvalboy]

I want to reiterate how important communication and vigilance are for both the client and the escort during an encounter. The first time I hired, the escort was ready to enter me and asked if I was OK. I was facing away from him and assumed he had put on a condom. When I said I was OK, I thought I was answering this question: Are you ready for me to get inside of you? He was asking this question: Are you ready for me to get inside you raw? We talked about that afterward. This particular escort has had a vasectomy, gets tested regularly, and is STD-free, but what if he weren't? What if that assumption had cost me my health? No amount of blame or finger-pointing would have helped me.

 

The second time I saw this escort (yes, I did go back, and yes, I did let him bareback me with my knowledge and consent) ended very, very badly for both of us. It was a role-play gone wrong. We both threw each other up against every rough emotional edge we had. Such an experience can be healing and cathartic, but it wasn't for me. I started to do something that could have seriously injured or killed both of us. At that point, he told me he had to drop me as a client. I have told a few people privately what I did; I have no idea if he has.

 

It's been over a year since that appointment. There is no point of writing a review. What am I going to say? He got mean and I got dangerous? There is, however, a point in writing this: We can never really know another's true intentions. For a year, I berated both myself and him for what happened that night.The other day, he was alerted to this thread and immediately contacted me. I was finally able to talk about it. I do believe now that he meant me no harm and was doing his best for someone who needed something more than and/or different from what he could give. It was a hard conversation to have. But it was healing.

 

Some of you know this escort. Some don't. If I have caused him pain, I apologize for that. I am better off -- and a better woman -- for having known him.

Tyro

PS Because this experience also applies to the "barebacking" thread, I have posted this message there also.

 

Damn it 'T'...that was absolutely a wonderful post. I am sitting here just almost at a loss for words over this. You were always better off and a better woman, I hope that you know that. I personally know that this has been a healing experience for you, and I also know that you have grown from this. Posting a review immediately after the encounter could have proven disastrous, since neither party would have had time to process this event.

 

Some members here have taken a hard line on posting reviews regardless of the forum of public opinion. I have always maintained that every single person is an individual, and no one here has the right to tell someone else what they should or should not do in a situation like this, especially given the fact that we know nothing about one another, absolutlely nothing, except some anonymous username, on an anonymous forum. I think that all of this is coming out at the proper time. My hat off to LBT for first acknowledging the problem publicly, and for taking a neutral position on this, and for being the head of reason here. As always' T' I will remain in your corner...no matter what people say or do. God bless you baby. Allow time to heal, and listen to no one but yourself.

[Epigonos]

I began posting on this site in December 2003. I thought I had been posting for ten years, however, in reality it has only been nine. When I first decided to begin positing I selected to name Epigonos. I have posted on all forums using ONLY that name. During those nine years I have written and submitted dozens of reviews. EVERY review I have had posted has been signed with the name Epigonos. I have NEVER used another name. Frankly I don't understand what the fucking point of doing so is!!!!!

[seeker630]

Is anything in life ever that black or white?

 

Gay or straight, according to some.