I Think I'm Strange...

[ErieBear]

... well I know I am actually.

 

Due to some physical ailments, I normally have to get a therapeutic massage every week. If I don't, my shoulder and back lock up and it's hard to even move.

 

I'm also extremely tactile and really enjoy the feel of a man's skin next to mine.

 

So, next month, I'm going to be traveling and I'm trying to find a massage therapist who would be willing to give me a therapeutic massage, but naked. I'm not looking for release or to get laid. I'm looking for therapeutic massage and skin-to-skin contact.

 

But it seems like most guys that are advertising on the masseurfinder.com or massagem4m.com are either in the "I'm a real massage therapist and I would never get naked" or "I'll rub your body and make you feel good."

 

Anyone else notice this?

[jjkrkwood]

Erie, sounds like a situation of "wanting your cake, and eatting it too"...... With a little extra homework, you should be able to uncover that gem that will give you WHAT you want ...

[josephga]

I've had clients like that. some are nudest or just want to see eye candy. they want me too be nude, they like the feel of your skin against there's but don't want a release or anything. I had a guy like that last week. I have one at 11:30 this morning for 90 minutes deep tissue hot stones both nude but no release needed

[ErieBear]

I've had clients like that. some are nudest or just want to see eye candy. they want me too be nude, they like the feel of your skin against there's but don't want a release or anything.

 

And how do you respond to this?

[josephga]

I have no problem with it. Only time i have a issue is if someone try's to abuse it. Even with erotic massage I market my services as hand contact only. some will try to stick your dick in their mouth or their finger in your ass which I don't allow. those 2 things arn't a massage imo.. I have allot of guys that ask if I don't mind could I skip the release. not sure why they would ask if i mind. its not suppose to be about me..

[ErieBear]

I got an email back from the guy I'm interested in. He's not bothered by nudity or "respectful touching". The only thing he said is that he doesn't make appointments more than 2 weeks out, so I have to contact him closer to my trip, which isn't any problem for me.

[josephga]

Yeah most who book massages tend too book last minute or a few days b4 at most. I actually had a guy book one year in advance once. he only comes to Atlanta once a year and wanted me free during that day..

[instudiocity]

Erie, sounds like a situation of "wanting your cake, and eatting it too"...... With a little extra homework, you should be able to uncover that gem that will give you WHAT you want ...

 

JJK - EZE didn't say anything about eating the masseur... fyi, one t would suffice (just so I earn the 'Troll' and Grammar maven designations for this post)

[CowboyUp]

Erie,

I get it. Your request seems perfectly natural and is not in any way strange. There's an escort here in Dallas/Ft. Worth that I hire occasionally and he gives an excellent therapeutic massage in the buff and uses lots of his body parts (not just his hands) during the massage. I love it when he straddles me and covers his warm, smooth body with mine. Skin-to-skin can be very therapeutic, as well as highly erotic.

[Lohengrin1979]

This is not a strange request at all. Most of the massages I get are therapeutic/nude with maybe a little touching. My favorite therapist in my area doesn't go past that and gives an amazing massage. He's certified and very well trained. Granted, sometimes I want a more erotic experience but I think, for me, it works better when the massage is the focus. Well 8 times out of 10, it works better.

 

 

Lohengrin

[RexAll]

While I want more than just skin to skin contact--I would be the last to say skin to skin doesn't feel good. And depending on where you are, it may not that be hard to find. Look for the guys who have ads on both the therapeutic and sensual/erotic masseur sections--by the way--I have yet to determine the difference between sensual and erotic as I have been gotten off with both types of guys. Often the pictures between the therapeutic and sensual/erotic are different--but you can tell that it's the same massage guy because they have the same phone number.

 

Rex

[bigvalboy]

While I want more than just skin to skin contact--I would be the last to say skin to skin doesn't feel good. And depending on where you are, it may not that be hard to find. Look for the guys who have ads on both the therapeutic and sensual/erotic masseur sections--by the way--I have yet to determine the difference between sensual and erotic as I have been gotten off with both types of guys. Often the pictures between the therapeutic and sensual/erotic are different--but you can tell that it's the same massage guy because they have the same phone number.

 

Rex

 

I like that skin-on-skin contact also, however it does bother me a little when the guy has shaved and you feel the stubble. I think chest hair is incredibly sexy, and I don't know why so many guys shave...as for me, guilty as charged. I do trim a Little and every time I am with someone, they tell me that I should not have. So going into the new year I am trimming less and less.

[Irtwo]

What do you guys mean by "skin to skin" Do you mean their full body lying against your body?

[bigvalboy]

What do you guys mean by "skin to skin" Do you mean their full body lying against your body?

 

Yes...many masseurs will actually climb up on your back and massage you with their body weight. Not everyone likes that, but I find it very erotic.

[Steven_Draker]

I do trim a Little and every time I am with someone, they tell me that I should not have.

 

What about your pubic and ass hair? Do you trim it, shave it or leave it au naturel ...?

[Steven_Draker]

What do you guys mean by "skin to skin" ?

 

I think a little clarification is needed here. "Skin to skin" massage is often confused with "skin-on-skin" contact which is a code name for unprotected raw sex a.k.a. barebacking (at the same level as "uninhibited"). I hope this helps.

 

[citylaw1]

Erie, sounds like a situation of "wanting your cake, and eatting it too"...... With a little extra homework, you should be able to uncover that gem that will give you WHAT you want ...

 

How is this helpful? Your tone is always an angry one, desperate to belittle (that word has 2 "t's") anyone at any chance. "wanting your cake and eatting (sic) it too" makes no sense at all here. The OP was looking for a good masseur that offers skin contact. What's the problem with asking about that here?

 

Amazing that you were the first response to this post, offering absolutely no useful advice ... seems to be a pattern. I don't get it.

[RexAll]

I think a little clarification is needed here. "Skin to skin" massage is often confused with "skin-on-skin" contact which is a code name for unprotected raw sex a.k.a. barebacking (at the same level as "uninhibited"). I hope this helps.

 

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Steven, Thank you for that very helpful and most likely needed clarification on those terms. It would definitely be easy to confuse them. I would hate going in for some skin-TO-skin contact and have someone try to bareback me unexpectedly because that's what they thought I wanted.

 

Rex

[Irtwo]

Yes...many masseurs will actually climb up on your back and massage you with their body weight. Not everyone likes that, but I find it very erotic.

 

A lot or people would call that frottage or dry-humping, and would consider it to be full on sex. I know guys who pay escorts full price for that, so if your getting it at a "massage" rate, sounds like a good deal.