Marc Dylan

[citylaw1]

Really?? Then why would you let him in the door? I hire an escort and he showed up like the "review" says, we wouldn't much get past hello.

 

 

I'm with you BV, but many here are not as straight forward, and lack the courage, self esteem and strength it takes to kick an escort out of the room. I NEVER meet any new hire in my room, opting for a lobby or public place to assess the situation.

 

I'm at a loss as to why you are shocked by someone on here letting this go on? We hear about this everyday on this site. It doesn't shock me that a client would opt to let the clock tick until the hour was over, much like a victim of bullying waits for the abuse to end. A situation like this could certainly turn violent, or at least embarrassing in a hotel.

[jjkrkwood]

Actually no ML. Maybe it's just me, maybe you guys do this sort of thing. I don't know. Not with all the negatives that were supposedly apparent here. Max just started a thread. I happen to agree with his take on things. Why would a seasoned client, allow an escort through the door that is late, unshaven, unbathed, uncombed and smelly hair, smelly clothes, looks 10 years older than his pics, out of shape, almost refuses to get undressed, refuses to do anything except sit on the bed, and then sit on the bed with him naked and try to communicate with someone that he says has the "intellect of a child" while the escort questions the client about his wealth or lack thereof. How does that happen? I can understand him stepping inside for a moment before you sent him on his way, but I am really curious here, what goes through someones mind that lets a hire like this proceed on ANY level? You tell me.....what am I missing here?

 

Insecurity and Desperation !

[bigvalboy]

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'm with you BV, but many here are not as straight forward, and lack the courage, self esteem and strength it takes to kick an escort out of the room. I NEVER meet any new hire in my room, opting for a lobby or public place to assess the situation.

 

I'm at a loss as to why you are shocked by someone on here letting this go on? We hear about this everyday on this site. It doesn't shock me that a client would opt to let the clock tick until the hour was over, much like a victim of bullying waits for the abuse to end. A situation like this could certainly turn violent, or at least embarrassing in a hotel.

 

 

I agree, many members here are in that category of low self esteem, and a mindless lack of courage. I guess I just don't get that mentality or ever will. Not having the balls to send an escort packing is hard for me to understand. What I am having a hard time with, is the fact that this is supposedly a seasoned client. Now, that may or may not be a factor, but I would think that it is. I have been hiring since I was 18 years old, that is more than a few decades, but I'm with you, years ago I stopped having escorts know where I live or come to my hotel room without vetting them first in the lobby. I have never had a problem with saying no. When I was young perhaps, but not now.

[RexAll]

Why All The Brouhaha?

 

From this thread everyone can see what Marc is like. He seems like a normal young guy who isn't into out of shape guys- and I'm not even referring to his recent review. While it's not unusual for non-escort guys who look like Marc to feel this way, it's not the most usual attitude for the many of the most popular escorts out there. On the other hand there have been some well- known escorts in the past who have done fine with putting limits on whom they see.

 

What Marc needs to do in my opinion -which of course he is free to ignore- is change his ad, in a nice way of course, that for full passionate service, he's only into normal to thin guys. That way the non HWP won't make the mistake of calling him and getting shot down. Because as it stands now, his ad looks like he is ready for all-(average)-comers. And going by the bell curve within the average there are going to be some super skinny guys as well as full figured guys non HWP who are still less than say 300 pounds.

 

 

Rex

[down_to_business]

From this thread everyone can see what Marc is like. He seems like a normal young guy who isn't into out of shape guys- and I'm not even referring to his recent review. While it's not unusual for non-escort guys who look like Marc to feel this way, it's not the most usual things for the majority of escorts out there. On the other hand there have been some well- known escorts in the past who have done fine with putting limits on whom they see. What Marc needs to do in my opinion is change his ad, in a nice way of course, that for full passionate service, he's only into normal to thin guys. That way the non HWP won't make the mistake of calling him and getting shot down. Because as it stands now, his ad looks like he is ready for all-(average)-comers. And going by the bell curve within the average there are going to be some super skinny guys as well as full figured guys non HWP who are still less than say 300 pounds.

 

 

Rex

 

How about the following application required for all potential hires. Send the following application completed with a $25 non-refundable processing fee and a shirtless photograph showing your face and holding a copy of today's Wall Street Journal to be considered for an appointment.

 

Name:

Phone number:

Height:

Weight:

Race:

Sex:

Net Worth:

Marital Status:

Do you identify as gay, straight, or bi:

Position:

Do you have low self esteem:

Are you a fattie:

Do you have any relatives that are a fatty (does being a fatty run in your family):

In 50 words or less describe anything and everything you want to happen in our encounter:

 

 

Just kidding, love ya MD.. but do consider taking RexAll's advice and adding a simple statement like "Escort service only available to HWP gentlemen".

[shadowcatzxxx]

Now look guys ...

 

I am WAY past my glory days, my great head of hair is long gone, and I am nowhere near in-shape ... and could stand to lose a few pounds. Once upon a time, I was considered quite handsome; now it is a matter of individual opinion, and depends on whether or not the individual likes mature gentlemen.

 

All this is to say that I look about as different from MD as one possibly could ... and he was gracious, friendly, engaging, interactive, (and more) with me. He probably does have limits, but if I didn't test them, I wouldn't think that anyone who practices good hygiene and doesn't need to buy two seats for himself on airplanes would have any trouble with Marc ... or vv.

 

Ease up on the guy, woudjah, please?

[jjkrkwood]

I dont really get WHY guys cant come to terms with an escort saying NO to them ???? You face rejection in every aspect of your life, why cant you accept it from an escort, who has absolutely NO obligation to Service you...even for your money ! WTF is wrong with you people ????

[RexAll]

Now look guys ...

 

I am WAY past my glory days, my great head of hair is long gone, and I am nowhere near in-shape ... and could stand to lose a few pounds. Once upon a time, I was considered quite handsome; now it is a matter of individual opinion, and depends on whether or not the individual likes mature gentlemen.

 

All this is to say that I look about as different from MD as one possibly could ... and he was gracious, friendly, engaging, interactive, (and more) with me. He probably does have limits, but if I didn't test them, I wouldn't think that anyone who practices good hygiene and doesn't need to buy two seats for himself on airplanes would have any trouble with Marc ... or vv.

 

Ease up on the guy, woudjah, please?

 

 

After reading through this massive thread, I was just trying to summarize what was my impression and offer a helpful suggestion to keep Marc from being bothered by clients he didnt want and keeping those clients from feeling rejected.

 

 

 

Rex

[RexAll]

I dont really get WHY guys cant come to terms with an escort saying NO to them ???? You face rejection in every aspect of your life, why cant you accept it from an escort, who has absolutely NO obligation to Service you...even for your money ! WTF is wrong with you people ????

Because that is not the usual expectation from an escort. And because many people go to escorts when they've been rejected by others, and for those of us who don't live in NYC, LA, SF, Chicago, or the like- the escort pickings can be mighty slim- so it's not like there are 50 others to choose from.

 

Rex

[bigvalboy]

After reading through this massive thread, I was just trying to summarize what was my impression and offer a helpful suggestion to keep Marc from being bothered by clients he didn't want and keeping those clients from feeling rejected.

 

 

 

Rex

 

Well first of all nice to chat with you Rex, I don't believe to my knowledge we ever have. Perhaps, but at this stage of my life many things escape me. At any rate, while there is always two sides to every story, I have heard Marc's side of the encounter with regard to one of the posters who complained about his limitations. In fairness Marc did explain that there were HWP limitations, and when the client said that he could not meet those, Marc offered a massage instead of a sexual encounter and then offered to go to dinner with the client on Marc's dime. Marc has told me that the client did have self esteem issues and was feeling sorry for himself on the phone. Marc felt bad for the client, so he did offer these services. I thought that he handled it about as professional as he possibly could. The client did ultimately decide to pass on the offer, but I felt that it was professional and generous.

 

Again that is what I am hearing from Marc, but one need only spend a little time with Marc and you would walk away with the feeling that he is a pretty straight shooter...Just my opinion.

[operalover21]

Now look guys ...

 

I am WAY past my glory days, my great head of hair is long gone, and I am nowhere near in-shape ... and could stand to lose a few pounds. Once upon a time, I was considered quite handsome; now it is a matter of individual opinion, and depends on whether or not the individual likes mature gentlemen.

 

All this is to say that I look about as different from MD as one possibly could ... and he was gracious, friendly, engaging, interactive, (and more) with me. He probably does have limits, but if I didn't test them, I wouldn't think that anyone who practices good hygiene and doesn't need to buy two seats for himself on airplanes would have any trouble with Marc ... or vv.

 

Ease up on the guy, woudjah, please?

 

Your first paragraph describes me and my experience with Mr. Dylan as well. I am WAY past my glory days, what hair I have left is gray, the last time I was "in-shape" Barack Obama was in college, and I need to lose 25 lbs. Marc never let me feel any of those things during our various encounters.

 

It sounds to me that he doesn't want to take on "obese" clients, not ones that are just older and out-of-shape. I don't blame him. I can't stand being around "obese" people either. Sorry.

[Gar1eth]

Well first of all nice to chat with you Rex, I don't believe to my knowledge we ever have. Perhaps, but at this stage of my life many things escape me. At any rate, while there is always two sides to every story, I have heard Marc's side of the encounter with regard to one of the posters who complained about his limitations. In fairness Marc did explain that there were HWP limitations, and when the client said that he could not meet those, Marc offered a massage instead of a sexual encounter and then offered to go to dinner with the client on Marc's dime. Marc has told me that the client did have self esteem issues and was feeling sorry for himself on the phone. Marc felt bad for the client, so he did offer these services. I thought that he handled it about as professional as he possibly could. The client did ultimately decide to pass on the offer, but I felt that it was professional and generous.

 

 

I just happened to look at this thread again to see why it seems to have taken on a life of its own. I was going to private message you my side of the conversation, but you have your private message option off. And I really have no desire to further the already unnatural life of this thread with a public 'he said-he said' fight. But rest assured you do only have only one side of the story.

 

Gman

[bigvalboy]

rest assured you do only have only one side of the story.

 

No doubt, but after what is it, like four days now? I really think much of this will go unresolved. Most everyone has chosen sides, formed opinions, got up on stage, ranted and raved and vented, and drew their line in the sand. For me, I took the information available to me, much formed after talking with Marc in SF over the course of an evening, and like every other single person involved in this thread, whether they posted once or dozens of times, formed an opinion. That opinion is well documented.

 

Please don't take it personally that my pm has been shut off. It has been off for several months now. It was a necessary personal choice, and has nothing to do with this thread. Gar I sincerely wish you the best in your future hires. After meeting Marc however, it was a personal choice to defend him against what I believed to be unfair criticism.

[jjkrkwood]

Because that is not the usual expectation from an escort. And because many people go to escorts when they've been rejected by others, and for those of us who don't live in NYC, LA, SF, Chicago, or the like- the escort pickings can be mighty slim- so it's not like there are 50 others to choose from.

 

Rex

 

Rex, that rationale is just plain ole silly. Escorting is a business, and ANY businessman has a right to refuse service to someone. The fact that a client may get rejected in his Real life encounters in no way obligates the escort to "do" him IMO... Its like saying an escort should take in every guy that ends up homeless. They are escorts, not Mother Teresa. And as far as expectation, I dont have it, nor ever did. I expect when I contact an escort he will either agree to see me or not. No big deal. And just because there may be slim pickins in a particular town, that doesnt mean an escort becomes the town Welcum wagon. If the client gets turned down, and has no other option, then he should stay home, look at porn and jerk off, like most of the world does.

[jimboivyo]

Because that is not the usual expectation from an escort. And because many people go to escorts when they've been rejected by others, and for those of us who don't live in NYC, LA, SF, Chicago, or the like- the escort pickings can be mighty slim- so it's not like there are 50 others to choose from.

 

Rex

 

that response says more about you than it does about the situation

 

you always have a choice in life. you just gotta have the balls to pipe up and speak

[Guy Fawkes]

It's time to start thinking about putting our night drag on...

 

http://www.photosshow.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/african-sunset-640x400.jpg

[RexAll]

that response says more about you than it does about the situation

 

you always have a choice in life. you just gotta have the balls to pipe up and speak

 

I didn't say it doesn't happen. I said it's not the usual occurrence.

 

Rex

[RexAll]

It's time to start thinking about putting our night drag on...

 

http://images5.fanpop.com/image/photos/25500000/Silhouettes-in-the-Sunset-inspiration-and-creativity-25581226-550-368.jpg

I'm sorry Daddy. I didn't understand this. What's a night drag?

 

Rex

[maxwellissmart]

I'm sorry Daddy. I didn't understand this. What's a night drag?

 

Rex

 

Night drag—as in a nightgown—as in let's put this to bed.

[RockHard]

I'm sorry Daddy...What's a night drag?

 

Something like this but with the lights out:

 

http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8201/8222962510_622c3c7116_z.jpg

[unsub2O17]

I just had a wonderful session with Marc. I will save the "contact" and "scene" scenarios for the review, but, suffice it to say, that in most particulars, it will corroborate BVB's take on Marc. That, at least, was my personal experience.

[Guy Fawkes]

What we're going to wear when we go out to the clubs.

[bigvalboy]

What we're going to wear when we go out to the clubs.

 

No Kilt?? I thought that to be most becoming on you.

[bigvalboy]

I just had a wonderful session with Marc. I will save the "contact" and "scene" scenarios for the review, but, suffice it to say, that in most particulars, it will corroborate BVB's take on Marc. That, at least, was my personal experience.

 

Thanks unsub...I sent you a pm....sleep well.

[sfguy]

I wonder if all this Marc Dylan chatter is a marketing tactic. All the talk about him is making me consider hiring him just to see what's he like.