A different kind of escort assignment

[Electra 225]

The holidays are here and the invitations to social functions and parties are starting to arrive. How would you, as an escort (or a client for that matter) feel about retaining the services of a well-reviewed escort to literally escort to me to various social functions and holiday parties? I would pay the escorts normal rate/fee, so that would not be an issue. What I am asking is how comfortable would a well-regarded escort be (assuming proper attire and proper social skills) in attending gay, or predominately gay, events and parties? Would the escort be uncomfortable at the prospect of possibly meeting former or current clients? As part of the hire, I would want to either go back to his place (or my hotel) for some post-event/post-party fun--again all at listed rates, so the total hire would be from four to eight hours. If you were the host of a social gathering or party and one of your friends brought a "friend" (assuming guests are allowed and encouraged), how would you feel if one of your guests brought someone with them that was performing as a date? Note: if I was the host, I would not care one way or the other as long as everyone was appropriate to the theme or spirit of the gathering. Further note: I am talking, predominately, about mid to upper scale social events or parties at nice private homes, up-scale hotels or restaurants, and even country or city clubs. Your thoughts and advice will be much appreciated.

[+ purplekow]

As long as you are comfortable, take the man of your choice. There will probably be speculation as to your relationship, which some, emboldened by holiday cheer, may make known to you or others at the party. You need to be ready for such bad behavior. But for my part, I would probably be speculating on how your guest looked naked and I would be jealous that you will know the answer.

[adannyboy]

I've played that game! It can be fun.

[bigvalboy]

The holidays are here and the invitations to social functions and parties are starting to arrive. How would you, as an escort (or a client for that matter) feel about retaining the services of a well-reviewed escort to literally escort to me to various social functions and holiday parties? I would pay the escorts normal rate/fee, so that would not be an issue. What I am asking is how comfortable would a well-regarded escort be (assuming proper attire and proper social skills) in attending gay, or predominately gay, events and parties? Would the escort be uncomfortable at the prospect of possibly meeting former or current clients? As part of the hire, I would want to either go back to his place (or my hotel) for some post-event/post-party fun--again all at listed rates, so the total hire would be from four to eight hours. If you were the host of a social gathering or party and one of your friends brought a "friend" (assuming guests are allowed and encouraged), how would you feel if one of your guests brought someone with them that was performing as a date? Note: if I was the host, I would not care one way or the other as long as everyone was appropriate to the theme or spirit of the gathering. Further note: I am talking, predominately, about mid to upper scale social events or parties at nice private homes, up-scale hotels or restaurants, and even country or city clubs. Your thoughts and advice will be much appreciated.

 

Over the years, I have had escorts accompany me to many holiday parties, some straight. I think that it is important that you properly vet the escort first and possibly ask for recommendations from members. I always tell the host who I am bringing and let them know the relationship first, in case there is a problem, but there never has been.

 

If you are unfamiliar with him, I would take him once to an upscale venue of some sort just to be safe. Nothing much worse than having an escort embarrass you during a special holiday party with special friends. A few years ago I even purchased the attire that I wanted him in. By and large I doubt that you should have any problems. All my friends know who these men are, but for those at the party, they are simply introduced as a friend of mine.

 

One particular year, several of the straight guest realized the relationship, and there were nods of approval from them. I tend to socialize with people who will not have attitude about those sorts things. Good luck, and have fun.

[MiamiLooker]

The holidays are here and the invitations to social functions and parties are starting to arrive. How would you, as an escort (or a client for that matter) feel about retaining the services of a well-reviewed escort to literally escort to me to various social functions and holiday parties? I would pay the escorts normal rate/fee, so that would not be an issue. What I am asking is how comfortable would a well-regarded escort be (assuming proper attire and proper social skills) in attending gay, or predominately gay, events and parties? Would the escort be uncomfortable at the prospect of possibly meeting former or current clients? As part of the hire, I would want to either go back to his place (or my hotel) for some post-event/post-party fun--again all at listed rates, so the total hire would be from four to eight hours. If you were the host of a social gathering or party and one of your friends brought a "friend" (assuming guests are allowed and encouraged), how would you feel if one of your guests brought someone with them that was performing as a date? Note: if I was the host, I would not care one way or the other as long as everyone was appropriate to the theme or spirit of the gathering. Further note: I am talking, predominately, about mid to upper scale social events or parties at nice private homes, up-scale hotels or restaurants, and even country or city clubs. Your thoughts and advice will be much appreciated.

 

Do you expect to get an unbiased reply? I believe most posters on this site have a much more liberal viewpoint on this issue than gays in general. If you’re talking about a private function, I’d suggest you check with the host first.

[Juan Vancouver]

Hi Electra,

 

While there are many escorts whose bailiwick is confined to the bedroom, there are a few out there who not only enjoy but thrive in the kind of occasion you are describing. There are a few guys who fluently speak a few languages, who are as travelled as the most seasoned of your wealthy friends and will be perfectly comfortable either navigating the room perched on your arm or thrive alone if you have to focus on one to one with your friends. Such an escort will be able not only to dress accordingly to your wishes, but will adapt with ease to any situation he might be in.

 

On the other hand, you have to be aware of the possibility that some of your friends may be suspicious as to the nature of your agreement, and I recommend you to go ahead with it only if you would feel comfortable if in the end the truth about the situation came out. There is absolutely no shame in enjoying the company of talented people, and I personally (but I see how my opinion may be slightly influenced by my career of choice) don't see anything wrong with leaving the evening's success to a professional.

 

To calm your nerves a little, I hope, I have to say that this kind of arrangement is much more common than you may think. Companionship escorts often have engagements like this and will be very comfortable navigating the sometimes prying questions of the other suspecting guests. Agree on what story you both want to tell, talk about it beforehand and know that you may have to improvise a little if you don't want to come out and disclose the truth. Ask him if he would be comfortable if you tell some friends, (some escorts would be mortified, some would be happy) and in the same way make sure that you let him know whether you would.

 

Lastly, most escorts who do companionship and long engagements may know some of the other guests in those events. Even though there are no written rules, it is the common consensus that neither your escort nor the other client should ever disclose their past relationship, and they almost never do. Some smile and nod but most simply act as if they had never known one another.

 

If I were hosting a gay event and some of my friends brought men who I knew were not their boyfriends but were handsome, wordly, polite, fun, engaging and cultured, I would make sure do two things: I would try to make my best so that my friend and his companion know and feel that they are really welcomed, and I would make sure to keep inviting my friend to every single event I organize.

[+ Travis69]

Definitely ask the host. You would hope in a crowd of grown ups everyone would act grown up but add a few drinks and you never know.

[maxwellissmart]

How would you, as an escort (or a client for that matter) feel about retaining the services of a well-reviewed escort to literally escort to me to various social functions and holiday parties?

 

So I'm an escort who is hiring another escort to escort you to the party?

 

My head hurts.

[Kevin Slater]

My head hurts.

 

Try using less teeth.

 

Kevin Slater

[+ Travis69]

So I'm an escort who is hiring another escort to escort you to the party?

 

My head hurts.

 

Get a padded headboard. Certainly stopped my headaches.

[rickp]

I've been asked on several occasions to attend both personal as well as work functions with clients and it's always worked out very well. The other guests at the function have always been pleasant and very welcoming. Several clients have asked me to say that I am their cousin/nephew, while for guys with 10-15 years of my age, we've always just said friend.

[jjkrkwood]

Maybe its just me, or maybe I'm crazy but the holidays are a time when I want to be with special people that have a very special place in my heart and life. For ME, thats not a hired escort, although i do realize many of you do have special relationships with your escorts. I would rather fly solo than schlep around some eye-candy who is merely there to carry my purse.....and stick his cock in my mouth later.. Thats not Festive to Me ......

But, Happy Holidays to All !

[SteveEscort]

Maybe I am just a "bounce his buns around the bed" type of hire but I have never been booked for a social occasion with no sex involved. I have been hired for social occasions with sex involved many times, so even if the main part of the appointment was to socially attend a function, party etc with a client, he's always wanted to be serviced afterwards.

[jjkrkwood]

Maybe I am just a "bounce his buns around the bed" type of hire but I have never been booked for a social occasion with no sex involved. I have been hired for social occasions with sex involved many times, so even if the main part of the appointment was to socially attend a function, party etc with a client, he's always wanted to be serviced afterwards.

 

AMEN for honesty !

[maxwellissmart]

Maybe I am just a "bounce his buns around the bed" type of hire but I have never been booked for a social occasion with no sex involved. I have been hired for social occasions with sex involved many times, so even if the main part of the appointment was to socially attend a function, party etc with a client, he's always wanted to be serviced afterwards.

 

I thought that the OP said he expected some "post-party fun." And JJ—did you not watch that Debra Messing movie? He was an escort and still—they fell in love! He was THE ONE! I don't know how many times I've watched movies with escorting and thought: yeah, that doesn't happen.

 

I haven't attended social occasions with a client—however, I have been to a social occasion at a client's house with a real date, and had to quickly pull Mr. Client aside and tell him what was going on. I even pretended not to know where the bathroom was, just to be cute.

[jjkrkwood]

I thought that the OP said he expected some "post-party fun." And JJ—did you not watch that Debra Messing movie? He was an escort and still—they fell in love! He was THE ONE! I don't know how many times I've watched movies with escorting and thought: yeah, that doesn't happen.

 

I haven't attended social occasions with a client—however, I have been to a social occasion at a client's house with a real date, and had to quickly pull Mr. Client aside and tell him what was going on. I even pretended not to know where the bathroom was, just to be cute.

 

OH YEAH, RIGHT, THAT DEBRA MESSING MOVIE DID MAKE ME TAKE MY WEDDING DRESS OUT OF STORAGE, where its been sitting at the foot of my bed ever since, and its been YEARS...

 

Sorry, for me, personal social obligations and functions are not conducive for taking a virtual stranger. But I have always looked at hiring different than Most on this site. Its recreational for Me....Period ! I dont need it to be anything more.

[maxwellissmart]

OH YEAH, RIGHT, THAT DEBRA MESSING MOVIE DID MAKE ME TAKE MY WEDDING DRESS OUT OF STORAGE, where its been sitting at the foot of my bed ever since, and its been YEARS...

 

Sorry, for me, personal social obligations and functions are not conducive for taking a virtual stranger. But I have always looked at hiring different than Most on this site. Its recreational for Me....Period ! I dont need it to be anything more.

 

"Hiring" does not mean "paying the 15 bucks to get into the Sex Den."

[jjkrkwood]

"Hiring" does not mean "paying the 15 bucks to get into the Sex Den."

 

Its $16....:o

[maxwellissmart]

Its $16....:o

 

That's a bargain compared to here.

[down_to_business]

:}

[citylaw1]

Maybe its just me, or maybe I'm crazy but the holidays are a time when I want to be with special people that have a very special place in my heart and life. For ME, thats not a hired escort, although i do realize many of you do have special relationships with your escorts. I would rather fly solo than schlep around some eye-candy who is merely there to carry my purse.....and stick his cock in my mouth later.. Thats not Festive to Me ......

But, Happy Holidays to All !

 

I think it depends on the party. Most of my friends enjoy my escort addiction and usually get a kick out of my "date." I always choose fun, young, chatty, social guys. I'm 42, and I usually would bring along a 22-25 year old so it's plausible ... sort of. Now, if it was at Mommy's club in Florida I would not take along an escort. My friends in the city ... for sure.

 

Now, JJ, if my liquor soaked brain servers me correctly, I believe that we confirmed that you were at the sex den in Queens ON Christmas last year. Happy Holidays!

[bigvalboy]

I also recently had one escort confuse me on this point as he asked to come on a trip with me and I actually had to ask in what capacity this would be. His response was "as friends but you get to suck me". I will not be paying any fee but I will be picking up his travel costs-- so like I said-- this one does confuse me!

 

I liked your post d2b. I recently invited an escort on a vacation and was told that his travel expenses was all that was required. It did throw me for a moment. I wanted to clarify, so we did talk about specifics of the 'possible' trip and did come to an understanding which would work for the both of us. Every travel arrangement is/can be different depending on the client. Traveling with a paid companion from time to time can be a wonderful break from the routine, so long as all parties concerned are in 'total' agreement on everything. Sounds to me like your arrangement is most satisfactory indeed...lol Hope you enjoy!!

[maxwellissmart]

I think it depends on the party. Most of my friends enjoy my escort addiction and usually get a kick out of my "date." I always choose fun, young, chatty, social guys. I'm 42, and I usually would bring along a 22-25 year old so it's plausible ... sort of. Now, if it was at Mommy's club in Florida I would not take along an escort. My friends in the city ... for sure.

 

Now, JJ, if my liquor soaked brain servers me correctly, I believe that we confirmed that you were at the sex den in Queens ON Christmas last year. Happy Holidays!

 

Alas, if I weren't out of your age bracket...

[jjkrkwood]

I think it depends on the party. Most of my friends enjoy my escort addiction and usually get a kick out of my "date." I always choose fun, young, chatty, social guys. I'm 42, and I usually would bring along a 22-25 year old so it's plausible ... sort of. Now, if it was at Mommy's club in Florida I would not take along an escort. My friends in the city ... for sure.

 

Now, JJ, if my liquor soaked brain servers me correctly, I believe that we confirmed that you were at the sex den in Queens ON Christmas last year. Happy Holidays!

 

You are absolutley CORRECT (I LOVE their eggnog) , but I dont consider that a typically "social" setting with friends or colleagures, nor did I "hire" a date to take with me there to perpitrate a charade. If I'm solo, I'm solo..... but in your case City, a young, fun, chatty date would make YOU more palatable. :p

[SteveEscort]

I LOVE their eggnog

 

Do you know that in England it's virtually impossible to buy Egg Nog, the real stuff isn't available anywhere. All you can get is

 

http://www.thedrinkshop.com/images/products/main/321/321.jpg

 

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