Texting vs. speaking

[Guest boiworship08]

Occasionally, a hot guy shows up in the LA area Backpage listings. I realize that these young studs prefer texting to speaking live; however, I require a live conversation before meeting for a number of reasons. I want to discuss the session and mutual desires and my requirements. I also find that it's valuable for both parties to hear each others' voices. This has rarely been a problem. There's a cute guy who's been recommended to me. He asked if today would be a good day to speak. I said yes. Then he asked what I wanted to speak about, all in texts. I give up.

[josephga]

I get allot of clients that would rather text too most of my massage clients text me over just calling.

[tyro]

Hi Avatar!

I like to hear my guys' voices too, especially before we meet in person. You can tell a LOT from a voice. I hope some of the younger folk figure that out.

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[Jaker27]

Occasionally, a hot guy shows up in the LA area Backpage listings. I realize that these young studs prefer texting to speaking live; .

I think you just answered your own post. I use text messaging allot myself but see the point in talking to someone equally for all the reasons you state. I think it just comes down to maturity.

[bigvalboy]

Years ago when I started the whole texting thing, I really wanted to hear someones voice before I hired. All the masseurs and escorts understood and would accommodate me. Now however, it no longer matters. I love texting and email and find all of it so much faster and more efficient. If I am communicating with an old friend, then perhaps talking by phone, but just to finalize plans, I think email or texting is so much more simple.

[EXPAT]

I prefer a live conversation at first, but from that point forward, I prefer texting myself. It's just much easier and faster frankly.

[jawjateck]

Before a first time meeting with a provider, we will speak on the phone, but after a successful appointment, I often schedule repeats via text/email with no phone conversation needed.

[body2body]

Several years ago I hired a very handsome guy with whom my only communication was e-mail. He arrived on time and just as handsome as his pics. When he spoke the sound that emerged was in a tone so high only dogs could hear it. Ever since I must speak with my potential hire before we finalize our arrangements.

[Guest boiworship08]

That's exactly what I prefer. Initial contacts by text, then a live call before the first session. After the initial session, exclusively text works for me perfectly.

[Bosguy]

Always have and always will make initial contact via text or emails (whichever he prefers) but will not set up a firm appointment without speaking. This procedure has worked extremely well for me and the working guys.

 

Boston Bill

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

While I've hired without speaking to someone, I find that guys I want to repeat with are the guys that I spoke to before hiring. Maybe they are better prepared so I have a better experience.

[rvwnsd]

Occasionally, a hot guy shows up in the LA area Backpage listings. I realize that these young studs prefer texting to speaking live; however, I require a live conversation before meeting for a number of reasons. I want to discuss the session and mutual desires and my requirements. I also find that it's valuable for both parties to hear each others' voices. This has rarely been a problem. There's a cute guy who's been recommended to me. He asked if today would be a good day to speak. I said yes. Then he asked what I wanted to speak about, all in texts. I give up.

 

If I am reading this correctly, you like to speak with a guy before hiring him and this guy agreed to speak to you. Then you gave up. I fail to see the problem other than you decided not to speak with him after he asked what you wanted to speak about. Could you have texted back "I would like to speak about likes and dislikes and get a feel for how you sound before we meet?"

[Guest boiworship08]

If I am reading this correctly, you like to speak with a guy before hiring him and this guy agreed to speak to you. Then you gave up. I fail to see the problem other than you decided not to speak with him after he asked what you wanted to speak about. Could you have texted back "I would like to speak about likes and dislikes and get a feel for how you sound before we meet?"

 

Sorry, I did text him that I wanted to speak live about the expectations for the session and he said ok. Ten minutes later he texted back "what do you want to talk about?". He was probably high.

[traveling]

At some point, I want to speak on the phone before meeting for the first time. I follow my instincts. Written and verbal communication help let my instincts guide me.