Eyes shut or open?

[Bart van de Hogelanden]

As a client i always have my eyes open when having sex with an escort but most escorts have there eyes shut when the action takes place. In my opinion the reason for that van be that they have to imagine a guy who has the look they prefer.

[SteveEscort]

No, it's usually because we're concentrating very hard on making your time perfect.

 

I do find myself closing my eyes sometimes and make a conscious decision not to. I try never to close my eyes when giving a blow job because I like to look into his eyes as I am performing it. It makes a connection with the client unlike any other.

 

Clients often say "Steve, your cock has gone soft", well sometimes when you're giving a client oral for 20 minutes and he just lies there watching the porn on TV or telling you what to do to him you can't concentrate on the act and yourself at the same time. It helps when the client interacts and tweeks your nipples or suggests 69 to keep you aroused too.

[jgoo]

As a client i always have my eyes open when having sex with an escort but most escorts have there eyes shut when the action takes place. In my opinion the reason for that van be that they have to imagine a guy who has the look they prefer.

 

Interesting question and I had to actually think about it for a bit. I also always have my eyes wide open for the most part (except maybe while deep kissing). I honestly don't think I have ever noticed if the escort has his eyes open or not. I think it is probably a good thing because I believe that I would feel somewhat let down if I saw him with his eyes closed for the reason you state...thinking he is imagining he is with someone else.

[Diverdan]

It can be both... eye contact is a very intimate experience... but closed eyes in the middle of passion can also be simply reveling in the experience of the moment... I have seen that with my partners too...I don't read much into it either way, unless there are other clues either positive or negative. Sometimes closing my eyes forces me to focus on the other senses of touch, smell, etc. I notice that when I am getting a massage, I often have my eyes closed for part of the time so I can concentrate on the feelings generated by my masseurs hands and body on mine. It heightens the sensations and allows me to "loose" myself in the sensations. I have had a couple of experiences with blind masseurs that were incredible, and asked them after the massage about their experiences. It was very interesting and enlightening to me to hear them share about how they "see" and I began to appreciate much more the ability to "see" with my fingers and with sounds. And, by the way, some of the most incredible therapeutic, sensual and erotic massages I have ever experienced came from those guys.

DD

[rvwnsd]

I've had experiences both ways - escort with eyes open and with eyes shut. One guy who shut his eyes at times called attention to it after our playtime was over. He said he shut his eyes when he felt like he was ready to have an orgasm prior to the appointment being over. The next time he kept them open. Sure enough, he shot within twenty minutes.

[joeyboy107]

I almost always have my eyes open. I really very much enjoy the connection.

[Mariner45]

I almost always have my eyes closed when I'm kissing an escort, so I don't really know what they prefer. But I like open eyes when sucking and being sucked and prefer it if they do too, although everyone's different.

I'm more turned off if the escort has his eyes open but is looking AWAY from me, like at the television, clock, or his iPhone.

[+ beethoven]

I like to have my partners cum on my chest, and I don't like it when they are behind me, and I can't see their face. Part of the enjoyment is seeing the orgasm they are experiencing, as well as feeling the cum on my chest. I rarely have my eyes closed, and never when my face is visible.

[SteveEscort]

I like to have my partners cum on my chest, and I don't like it when they are behind me,

 

 

I love it when they're shagging my arse stupid from behind, there's something animalistic and masculine about it

[Francois]

Depends for me. Sometime My eyes are open but if Im really enjoying it they will be closed for atleast 2 minutes

[+ nycman]

One of my favorite quotes, suppposedly from Paul Lynde while he was fucking a young male escort...

 

“When you get fucked by Lynde, baby, you keep your eyes open!”

[SteveEscort]

A few nights ago I had a nice hotel appointment with a very upper class gentleman, who looked incredibly shy, but wasn't LOL

 

I was very self conscious of closing my eyes because of this post and when deep kissing I noticed that he did indeed have his eyes closed but both of us didn't seem to close our eyes at any other point during the appointment, well not that I noticed anyway.

[Keenan]

I typically have my eyes closed while sucking but as a bottom during anal I'll typically keep my eyes open and look into the clients eyes.

 

Keenan

As a client i always have my eyes open when having sex with an escort but most escorts have there eyes shut when the action takes place. In my opinion the reason for that van be that they have to imagine a guy who has the look they prefer.

[down_to_business]

According to Bruno Mars:

 

Should've known you was trouble

From the first kiss

Had your eyes wide open

Why were they open?

 

courtesy of lyrics for his song "Grenade"