411 on this escort ?

[dcman]

This guy sounds very different and I am interested. I emailed him and part of his reply is that he is a top only, which is great for me, but I am concerned as he said that he has sometimes bb but that there is no chance of Hiv exposure as he is a top.....

Have any of you guys ever been with him? I would like to give him a try but a bit put off by the bb comment.

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=326125&scid=80807807&sp=1&pos=0&locid=1501&iid=169326

Thanks Guys.

[Nvr2Thick]

This guy sounds very different and I am interested. I emailed him and part of his reply is that he is a top only, which is great for me, but I am concerned as he said that he has sometimes bb but that there is no chance of Hiv exposure as he is a top.....

Have any of you guys ever been with him? I would like to give him a try but a bit put off by the bb comment.

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=326125&scid=80807807&sp=1&pos=0&locid=1501&iid=169326

Thanks Guys.

 

Haven't been with him. Regarding BB though, I wouldn't sweat that he fesses up to bareback sex. This is, after all, sex with a stranger. You never know what any man does in his private life. It's fairly likely that he barebacks as a top, which is more than you'd know about other escorts. BB tops still take on some risk of HIV. Even if he or you believe its less or minimal risk you have nothing other than his word that he's exclusively a top.

 

No matter what an escort advertises or says you can't be sure that he plays safe. The cleanest-looking butchest escort insisting that he's straight, top and safe may be taking loads as a bottom. You just don't know.

 

If a guy says that he's POZ, he probably is. If he hasn't told you his status or he says he's negative he could be either.

If a guy says he's bottomed he probably has. If he claims to be a total top you'll never know for sure.

 

Safe sex is about planning around the information you don't have.

[tyro]

N2T,

Your comment "Safe sex is about planning around the information you don't have" is one of the smartest, sanest things I've read on this forum. Thank you.

T

[rvwnsd]

... I would like to give him a try but a bit put off by the bb comment...

 

Would you rather be blissfully ignorant about his engaging in and attitude towards bareback sex?

[Steven_Draker]

but I am concerned as he said that he has sometimes bb but that there is no chance of Hiv exposure as he is a top.....

 

It would be more prudent to say that statistically there's lower risk of exposure as a top.

 

I'd say the only "411" you need is: always protect yourself and use a condom.