How do most escort duos handle things?

[Ryanquinn]

My bf is interested in escorting. We are both in our last year of grad school and we recently had a talk about escorting together. What I am wondering is if anyone can offer any suggestions for how to go about advertising as a duo without overwhelming clients. We are in Detroit which is maybe a smaller and more conservative market.

 

We are both a bit into exhibition...and enjoy being watched. is this a service that should be stated in the ad? or is it more of a niche service that we should only offer after receiving a client request?

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey sexy,

 

Responding your question as asked is a bit difficult, since every single duo handles things in very different and unique ways. I guess to answer your question as you asked it, the answer would be: most duos learn about their own comfort zones, their specific areas of expertise, their bodies, their market and the boundaries they want to work with and they try to implement this knowledge in practice.

 

Some couples are very jealous and dislike doing duos and charge more than double for a duo session, some love working together and their duo rate is cheaper than double the single price, and it's not unheard of that there are duos that charge what other single escort's charge. This is just one example of the incredible variety when it comes to duos.

 

Here are the suggestions that I have to make sure that everything runs as smoothly as possible and that the duo escorting experience becomes an experience that brings you closer instead of ripping apart on the fabric of your relationship:

 

Agree on very clear, easy to enforce boundaries. What are you both comfortable with doing, having done unto you, charging, negotiating, witnessing the other do. When you talk about this let your imagination run wild and discuss possible "what if's" and make sure you understand to the best of your ability where your partner stands on most subjects so when you are faced with making a decision on the spot with a hard on and a lubed up client you can make choices that are comfortable for both.

 

Communicate before, during and after every session. If you have trouble reading body language during a session, make sure you have ways to tell the other if you are comfortable or not with what is happening but try to develop the skill of saying -even in the middle of a double fucking session- if you want things to go different or if you want things to stop.

 

Prioritize: your partner -always- comes first, before any gig, any client, any amount of money. If you don't honour your partner and treat him respectfully there is no way you will ever be able to offer a respectful and honourable service to your clients. Some clients who hire couples like setting them up against one another. Whether this is for fun, for malice or lack of awareness doesn't matter; never compete with your partner. You are a team not adversaries, and if one of you wins everyone will lose.

 

Make sure you are in it for the same reason. If one of you is in for quick cash while the other is in it to fulfill a calling, you are going to butt heads again and again and your clients will suffer. There are many reasons to be an escort and all are valid but sometimes they are conflicting and exclusive. Off the top of my head I can think of a few: wanting to satisfy a hunger for adoration, wanting to explore one's sexuality, being of service to others, getting one's rocks off, wanting to understand the human psyche, paying the bills, etc. While it is true that most escorts will recognize a couple or more of these reasons as their own, an escorting duo will only work if both are coming with similar intentions.

 

Remember that there is a market for everything. Even in Detroit there are many people who will want to enjoy the service that you offer. If you want to give shows, advertise it. Picture what would be the perfect fantasy escorting practice for you two. How would it look like? What would you be doing? How much would you be making? Then make an ad that clearly communicates that and people will come to you. You both are beautiful and complement each other real well. The more honest and clear you are in your ad, the more people will be moved to spend time with you.

 

Lastly, Your relationship and the love you feel for one another is a blessing, and sharing this blessing and letting people join in is generous and fun. Never lose sight of who you are, be yourself, together, and you will have a great career.

 

Best wishes to you both!

[rvwnsd]

My bf is interested in escorting. We are both in our last year of grad school and we recently had a talk about escorting together. What I am wondering is if anyone can offer any suggestions for how to go about advertising as a duo without overwhelming clients. We are in Detroit which is maybe a smaller and more conservative market.

 

We are both a bit into exhibition...and enjoy being watched. is this a service that should be stated in the ad? or is it more of a niche service that we should only offer after receiving a client request?

 

I suggest you contact Rick Munroe and Derek Ross. I have hired them and aside from being sexy as hell they are very sweet guys.

[seeker630]

 

We are both a bit into exhibition...and enjoy being watched. is this a service that should be stated in the ad? or is it more of a niche service that we should only offer after receiving a client request?

 

Right now, your ad indicates you do massages together (and also separately) and implies (?) you are willing to do a threesome with clients? Would this exhibiton be offered as another alternative?

[SteveEscort]

My bf is interested in escorting. We are both in our last year of grad school and we recently had a talk about escorting together.

 

I personally hate offering duo's with another escort, I am not comfortable with them but will see two guys together if they want to hire me to join them. I received an email from an escort duo a while back in Leeds, which is about 80 miles from me, they had loads of enquiries but their stumbling block was their enhanced fees because the guy was booking two escorts. They even reduced it to the fee a client would normally pay to see one escort and they still had hassle with it. They wouldn't work separately and they admitted it was their downfall. If you're flexible to see guys separately and offer duo's as an extra then go for it but it's not everyones cup of tea or in everyones budget.