Friends with an escort

[MiamiLooker]

Based on his response you'll know if you're "friends" or not.

 

"Sorry, I plan on washing my socks that week."

[operalover21]

Lol ...

 

It's possible to be "friendly" and have a better connection with a particular escort. This logic, of course, holds true with an accountant, lawyer, housekeeper, etc. Try this - ask him to go on a vacation with you (non sexual) as friends. Dutch treat. Based on his response you'll know if you're "friends" or not.

 

Actually I did that with a guy once that I initially met through a massage appt. The 2 hr. appt turned into 5 hours in which the "escort" mostly talked and talked. He seemed to be in a place where he needed to unburden himself. I listened. He eventually did the massage, gave me a blowjob, and started to get quite amorous which I must admit confused me a bit. I'm average. This guy was as smokin' hot as it gets. Anyway, we started to be "friends" after that. A few weeks later, I was renting a house (paid for) and the other person I was going with canceled. So I called up the "escort/friend" and asked him if he wanted to go with me for 3 days. He said sure. We split the meals and the driving. The first night, I was quite surprised when he asked me which bedroom I was going to sleep in. I told him. When the time came, he followed me in. That happened the entire time. He cuddled with me on the sofa, in the hot tub, etc. No money ever changed hands, he never asked for any. Let me repeat ... I AM NOT IN THIS GUY's LEAGUE by any stretch of any wild imagination.

 

That's continued off and on for a year. He's never asked for money, I've never given him any (oh, maybe a few bucks for a protein shake or something but I do that for everyone I know). He drifts in and out (he's 25 afterall). I wouldn't call us great friends but there certainly isn't any "escort/client" relationship going on.

 

Perhaps he feels grateful for the advice. It sure makes me feel good but I have no illusions that it will go on forever but I'm enjoying it while it does.