New Pissant in Alabama Listed on M4RN

[architectguy]

New guy in Alabama. One pic. Ad text is not as it was when I first saw the ad and contacted him yesterday with a question or four (since there was basically no info in the ad to begin with.)

 

I guess he grew tired of my questions in the several emails and changed his ad text as is current.

 

In the future, I'll thoughtfully gather my questions and compile them in a single, succinct email so as to not wear out my welcome cyber-ing.

 

Hmmph.

 

Yours truly,

Wimp

 

 

 

http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/index.asp?cmd=view&id=275389&Login=JoeyCarter

[bigvalboy]

New guy in Alabama. One pic. Ad text is not as it was when I first saw the ad and contacted him yesterday with a question or four (since there was basically no info in the ad to begin with.)

 

I guess he grew tired of my questions in the several emails and changed his ad text as is current.

 

In the future, I'll thoughtfully gather my questions and compile them in a single, succinct email so as to not wear out my welcome cyber-ing.

 

Hmmph.

 

 

 

http://www.men4rentnow.com/ds/index.asp?cmd=view&id=275389&Login=JoeyCarter

 

Seems awfully unprofessional, and actually I see his ad as down right nasty. I don't know how long it will stay up, but I can't imagine him benefiting from an ad like that. I would say you were the one who benefited here by not hiring him. There are a dozen more professional ways he could have chosen to address his complaints about your communication. I wouldn't let something like this bother me. I would just move on.

[architectguy]

I wouldn't let something like this bother me. I would just move on.

 

I'll try, I really will.

[robberbaron4u]

Skylar Weston, boy4privatesessions@yahoo.com, is a celebrated escort out of the "Magic City". He is in his early thirties, lithe of body and sensuousness of spirit, and, with long, flowing hair, possessed of the "Borgia prince" look. By last report, he was "sem-retired" with "restrictions" in place by a then lover, but, it certainly would hurt to "holler at him" for an update on his professional status and "menu" of services. He is the best "bottom boy" I have experienced in my lifetime.

[architectguy]

Thank-you, Robber, for that info.

[maxwellissmart]

boy4privatesessions@yahoo.com[/email], is a celebrated escort out of the "Magic City". He is in his early thirties, lithe of body and sensuousness of spirit, and, with long, flowing hair, possessed of the "Borgia prince" look. By last report, he was "sem-retired" with "restrictions" in place by a then lover, but, it certainly would hurt to "holler at him" for an update on his professional status and "menu" of services. He is the best "bottom boy" I have experienced in my lifetime.

 

I see someone is a proud graduate of the University of Phoenix's Certificate In Quote Management program.

[BaronArtz]

I must confess that I didn't know what the word 'pissant' meant. However, I know some French and it intrigued me. Then I googled 'PISSANT' and I LOVE it. Thank you for expanding my vocabulary!

[+ Archer]

architectguy,

 

Let's see if I understand your post. You sent this escort several emails with different questions in each all in one day. He grew tired of your questions and changed his ad text to something very blunt. Now you're calling him a pissant.

 

I can't imagine why he wouldn't want to meet you. You seem like such a catch.

[migueldeltoro]

I'm sure you meant well but in my experience if the conversation goes beyond 5 emails or texts chances are that the client isn't serious and it becomes a waste of time. It can be very frustrating from the escort's side. With that said, I'm not defending the escort's choice in updating his ad to reflect his frustration. That's just bad marketing.

[robberbaron4u]

The report from Alabama is that architectguy is correct in his assessment of the man,who also advertises on backpage.com, as a "pissant"; he is, to use another, good "Southern" colloquism, "mental".

[MFLV]

It doesn't sound to me that Architect guy was excessive in his emails to this guy. 4 emails is excessive ? I would think that would be somewhat typical. If you read this guy's ad he has some major attitude. I think Architect guy picked up on that and is lettIng the reat of us know. I say thank you Architect guy.

[architectguy]

Okay boys. I’d like to reply to my basher here.

 

I’ll cover the “catch” comment later in this post. Let me explain a few things:

 

Alabama has a dearth in the escort realm – basically none that are based here that are worthwhile save a couple. The surfacing of a new guy is bound to cause suspicion.

 

- Vague info was contained in the profile.

 

- No phone number in M4RN ad or emails.

 

- He stated in the profile that he’s straight. What all does he get into?

 

- He included the phrase “light escorting” in the profile narrative. What is that?

 

- His home base city is about 2 hours from my home city (yes, there are cities in Alabama) and he said he’d charge his overnight fee for a visit.

 

- Single headless upper torso pic – nice but not very telling.

 

I may have emailed more times than any of you would have but I was trying to eke out a little more information.

 

I’ve found that with these communications (even with business and personal emails) if you pose too many requests for info not all questions get answered. Thus, I would have to repeat myself myself.

 

I have communicated with rentguys who’ve sent messages which cover any and all questions I could have. I’m not taking a cock up my ass or down my throat without knowing a little about the guy. Sorry.

 

Now about the “catch” phrase and I won’t extol my virtues as I do have strikes against me. One – I’m 53, two & three – I’m married with children so I can’t suck at the drop of a hat.

 

But I’ve treated all guys I’ve hired with the same respect I would expect from them. Several have stayed in contact and I have been welcomed to be a regular.

 

I may not go about hiring in the same fashion as all of you but my method has suited me and the guys I've met with.

[architectguy]

To be clear - current profile narrative is toned down from yesterday's diatribe, included below:

 

SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. NO ENDLESS EMAILS. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU AREN'T READY TO BOOK WITH A DATE AND PLACE IN MIND. I AM NOT HERE TO CYBER WITH YOU OR SPEND VALUABLE TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU TO HIRE ME. IF YOU'RE A WIMP DON'T BOTHER ME

[bigvalboy]

To be clear - current profile narrative is toned down from yesterday's diatribe, included below:

 

SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. NO ENDLESS EMAILS. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU AREN'T READY TO BOOK WITH A DATE AND PLACE IN MIND. I AM NOT HERE TO CYBER WITH YOU OR SPEND VALUABLE TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU TO HIRE ME. IF YOU'RE A WIMP DON'T BOTHER ME

 

architectguy, there will always be bashers. Don't worry about that! I can't imagine what you could have possibly done wrong in communicating with this guy. If you irritated him so much that he actually changed his ad, then I would say as robber has said that the guy is "Mental"...I wouldn't give him a second thought.

[+ Travis69]

To be clear - current profile narrative is toned down from yesterday's diatribe, included below:

 

SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. NO ENDLESS EMAILS. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU AREN'T READY TO BOOK WITH A DATE AND PLACE IN MIND. I AM NOT HERE TO CYBER WITH YOU OR SPEND VALUABLE TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU TO HIRE ME. IF YOU'RE A WIMP DON'T BOTHER ME

 

Perhaps toned down but still obnoxious. I wouldn't contact him based on that ad.

[seeker630]

Okay boys. I’d like to reply to my bashers here.

 

I’ll cover the “catch” comment later in this post. Let me explain a few things:

 

Alabama has a dearth in the escort realm – basically none that are based here that are worthwhile save a couple. The surfacing of a new guy is bound to cause suspicion.

 

- Vague info was contained in the profile.

 

- No phone number in M4RN ad or emails.

 

- He stated in the profile that he’s straight. What all does he get into?

 

- He included the phrase “light escorting” in the profile narrative. What is that?

 

- His home base city is about 2 hours from my home city (yes, there are cities in Alabama) and he said he’d charge his overnight fee for a visit.

 

- Single headless upper torso pic – nice but not very telling.

 

I may have emailed more times than any of you would have but I was trying to eke out a little more information.

 

I’ve found that with these communications (even with business and personal emails) if you pose too many requests for info not all questions get answered. Thus, I would have to repeat myself myself.

 

I have communicated with rentguys who’ve sent messages which cover any and all questions I could have. I’m not taking a cock up my ass or down my throat without knowing a little about the guy. Sorry.

 

Now about the “catch” phrase and I won’t extol my virtues as I do have strikes against me. One – I’m 53, two & three – I’m married with children so I can’t suck at the drop of a hat.

 

But I’ve treated all guys I’ve hired with the same respect I would expect from them. Several have stayed in contact and I have been welcomed to be a regular.

 

I may not go about hiring in the same fashion as all of you but my method has suited me and the guys I've met with.

 

I've looked back through these posts, and I see only 2 people who weren't 100% supportive - and one of those politely explained how it might look from an escort's perspective (but agreed that the ad response was inappropriate.) So, I see only one poster who 'bashed' you.

 

I usually ask multiple questions (3-4) but in one or 2 emails. Like you, I have had the experience of incomplete responses to mutiple questions in one email - and i assume that if they can't take the time to answer 3 or 4 questions in an email, they're not likely to be that concerned with pleasing me.

 

Some escorts are denitely more patient (or less busy) than others when it comes to responding. All the indicators are that you dodged a bullet with this guy.

[architectguy]

So, I see only one poster who 'bashed' you.

 

I've de-pluralized the word "bashers."

 

It is now "basher."

 

Thanks!

[+ Archer]

Sending four emails in one day and calling someone a pissant on a message board is considered respectful, but calling that person out for his actions and referring to him as a catch is bashing.

 

Thank you for correcting me. I will remember that in the future.

[architectguy]

Sending four emails in one day and calling someone a pissant on a message board is considered respectful, but calling that person out for his actions and referring to him as a catch is bashing.

 

Thank you for correcting me. I will remember that in the future.

 

Wow! Someone put on their sassy pants this morning!

 

I don't get the angst I'm receiving from my sending several emails to gauge the fuck/suck worthiness of someone who stated they'd charge me $1000 for a visit?

 

A brand-spanking-new advertiser with no reviews and very little profile info.

 

Why did you feel that you needed to call me out? Huh?

[robberbaron4u]

I have the acquaintance of a gentleman who makes his home in the vicinity of Birmingham, and, by his representation to me, he sometimes "hires" off the http://www.modelmayhem.com listings for that area. Too, as the local inventory is something less than saturated with desirable hires, he "imported" something "special" once a year for a weekend for a number of years.

[+ poolboy48220]

To be clear - current profile narrative is toned down from yesterday's diatribe, included below:

 

SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY. NO ENDLESS EMAILS. DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU AREN'T READY TO BOOK WITH A DATE AND PLACE IN MIND. I AM NOT HERE TO CYBER WITH YOU OR SPEND VALUABLE TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU TO HIRE ME. IF YOU'RE A WIMP DON'T BOTHER ME

 

With a diatribe like that I wouldn't have expected "you're" to be spelled correctly. I have to give him minor props for that. :-)

[+ Archer]

Wow! Someone put on their sassy pants this morning!

 

I don't get the angst I'm receiving from my sending several emails to gauge the fuck/suck worthiness of someone who stated they'd charge me $1000 for a visit?

 

A brand-spanking-new advertiser with no reviews and very little profile info.

 

Why did you feel that you needed to call me out? Huh?

 

There is no angst in any of my posts. Read the headline of your post and think again why I called you out.

 

As I mentioned in my last post, calling someone a pissant on this message board is considered okay and respectful. Calling someone out for using that word is clearly very bad. Even at my age, I can learn and consider myself corrected.

[robberbaron4u]

I daresday the lad is going to go hungry as an "escort" for lack of a clientele. I surmise there is always the option for him of picking up brain surgery to supplement his income as a "personal trainer". . .

[Ezoros]

Oh wow. I emailed him a few days ago when his ad first went up (and still had his face in the picture at the time) I asked for him to elaborate on the meaning of light and he was very rude. I didn't expect to see any posts about him on here though!

[robberbaron4u]

I had a conversation with my friend in Alabama, and, he informs me that a number of well-reviewed escorts have expressed to him an interest in coming to Birmingham, but, lack of potential clients, has deterred them in making the trip. Among those who have contacted him are Woody (WM, M4RN 176014) out of Nashville, and, several escorts out of Atlanta: Logan Heart (BM, M4RN 263728), a "wild child" Brazilian-Italian import (M4RN 273740), and a bi-racial fellow (M4RN 255986). He cited an escort by the name of "Marcus" (M4RN 160471) who is in residence at Birmingham as a dependable, mature "hire". Perhaps if you could get a number of clients together who could "guarantee" a take at the box office for the lads, one or more of them might make the trip.