The á la carte escort.

[maxwellissmart]

All right, I just read a thread that had an instance of where an escort stopped or refused to do a particular thing unless he got more money.

 

How often does this happen to you guys? Was it because you misrepresented (not necessarily intentionally) what you wanted? This happens to me occasionally with massage clients, who sometimes quite aggressively try to change a massage appointment into escorting. Or did the escort try to scam you by bait-and-switching?

 

From an escort's perspective, it seems like this is a big fat speed bump in the middle of the interstate. Unless there's a significant difference in the amount of cash that we're talking—I would be afraid that I couldn't get things back on track after stopping in the middle and saying: "oh, well you'll owe me more money for that," and the appointment would go swiftly downhill from there or even stop.

 

If it happened to you, how did you handle it?

 

And on a side note—I get clients who contact me on occasion wanting individual services as well—do any of you do this, or do you always go for the deluxe package, as it were?

 

(Note: Naming names is not necessary).

[BostonPhil]

All right, I just read a thread that had an instance of where an escort stopped or refused to do a particular thing unless he got more money.

 

How often does this happen to you guys? Was it because you misrepresented (not necessarily intentionally) what you wanted? This happens to me occasionally with massage clients, who sometimes quite aggressively try to change a massage appointment into escorting. Or did the escort try to scam you by bait-and-switching?

 

From an escort's perspective, it seems like this is a big fat speed bump in the middle of the interstate. Unless there's a significant difference in the amount of cash that we're talking—I would be afraid that I couldn't get things back on track after stopping in the middle and saying: "oh, well you'll owe me more money for that," and the appointment would go swiftly downhill from there or even stop.

 

If it happened to you, how did you handle it?

 

And on a side note—I get clients who contact me on occasion wanting individual services as well—do any of you do this, or do you always go for the deluxe package, as it were?

 

(Note: Naming names is not necessary).

 

What are you talking about? The last time I hired you, you stopped and told me it was an extra 100 to eat my ass! WTF get your story straight!

[jjkrkwood]

Thats exactly the reason I usually go for the "Prix Fix" escorts.....

[maxwellissmart]

What are you talking about? The last time I hired you, you stopped and told me it was an extra 100 to eat my ass! WTF get your story straight!

 

It was actually $10, but I certainly appreciated the tip.

[robberbaron4u]

Good-bye.

[BostonPhil]

Good-bye.

 

I am assuming this is your response when an escort asks for more? If so, GOOD!

 

The only way I would do something like that is if the request were something I would not normally do AND is unusual or out of the ordinary, like sucking dick. EEEW

[BostonPhil]

It was actually $10, but I certainly appreciated the tip.

 

Does that mean I am all paid up so over our next nine sessions I don't have to pay for it? You should have given me one of those "Frequent Ass Eating" loyalty punch cards.

[jjkrkwood]

I am assuming this is your response when an escort asks for more? If so, GOOD!

 

The only way I would do something like that is if the request were something I would not normally do AND is unusual or out of the ordinary, like sucking dick. EEEW

 

Well Duh BP, logistics will tell you that its physically impossible to suck did when you are Face down, and isnt that your signature position ?

[maxwellissmart]

Does that mean I am all paid up so over our next nine sessions I don't have to pay for it? You should have given me one of those "Frequent Ass Eating" loyalty punch cards.

 

No.

[gallahadesquire]

How about leaving a pile of $50's by the bedside, and have the Escort take some everytime he does something that costs more.

 

And make sure they are counterfeit.

[josephga]

imo á la carte is fine with massage because escorting falls under money is for time only where that slogan doesn't apply to massage.

[cany10011]

In my experience when you get a massage from a legit source, the escort services provided afterwards are really not at the same level as the quality of massage and often, lacking in the requisite passion to make it worth my while.

 

If you want escort service, get an escort! Or get a massage from an escort who can massage and pay a little more for the convenience.

[+ azdr0710]

gee, wondering if the snappy wit of BostonPhil will soon outshine that of Max and Lookin.....is that even possible?.....

[BostonPhil]

gee, wondering if the snappy wit of BostonPhil will soon outshine that of Max and Lookin.....is that even possible?.....

 

For all you know, Max is me!

[Guest countryboywny]

I have been with one escort who tried the "ala carte" thing when I hired for an overnight. He told me if I wanted him to suck my dick, it was an extra charge. Well, needless to say, I didn't get sucked, but when he wanted me to suck him, I told him it would cost him the same $100. LOL After our session, he contacted me, saying he wanted to see me again, to which I nicely explained that it wouldn't be happening and why. He learned a valuable lesson.

[Phil_musc]

In my experience when you get a massage from a legit source, the escort services provided afterwards are really not at the same level as the quality of massage and often, lacking in the requisite passion to make it worth my while.

 

If you want escort service, get an escort! Or get a massage from an escort who can massage and pay a little more for the convenience.

 

This has frequently not been my experience. If things evolve into something more carnal than a mere massage, that is a fine bonus in my book.

[Boner]

You should have given me one of those "Frequent Ass Eating" loyalty punch cards.

 

His "hanging Chad" loyality punch card is much more popular. From what I hear.

[BostonPhil]

His "hanging Chad" loyality punch card is much more popular. From what I hear.

 

he could use me for his punch card

[Boner]

Well Duh BP, logistics will tell you that its physically impossible to suck did when you are Face down, and isnt that your signature position ?

 

That's untrue. If you're laying face down in a wooden box (think sex-den) with glory holes on both sides, on the top, and from the bottom, it's quite enjoyable. I'm looking for that video right now. It's quite logistically hot.

[robberbaron4u]

Yes, "wave my fingertips and kiss it goodbye", that is my response in such a situation. . .

[Boner]

For all you know, Max is me!

 

That's probably the kind of remark, after the past few days here, which might make some people here uncomfortable. The "for all you know" games are fun, until they become boring repeats of past apologized for threads.

 

If gay people on the beach scare you more than sharks in the water, I can only imagine what a forum of unhappy and disgruntled gay men here might bring your way.

 

But, that's just me.

[JackTwist]

I don't mind if an escort works á la carte, as long as he makes it clear upfront, either in his ad or in our pre-session correspondence. What I detest is when the punk shows up, gets naked, things start getting hot-n-heavy, and then he holds out on oral, rimming or fucking and demands more than the agreed upon fee. That's bullshit and both times it's happened to me (once in Vegas and once in Weho) I sent the guy packing. In all the years I've been hiring, I'm surprised it hasn't occurred more frequently. But, I now insist on a phone conversation with the escort before a first-time hire to clarify precisely what kind of experience I'm seeking and to ensure we are sexually compatible.

[seeker630]

That's probably the kind of remark, after the past few days here, which might make some people here uncomfortable. The "for all you know" games are fun, until they become boring repeats of past apologized for threads.

 

If gay people on the beach scare you more than sharks in the water, I can only imagine what a forum of unhappy and disgruntled gay men here might bring your way.But, that's just me.

 

Is that how you see the members here?

[Boner]

Is that how you see the members here?

 

I don't see members here any one way - or another. The only thing you can see is an expression of a member in a snap-shot of time. Over time.

 

If what you are asking me is in relation to what has occurred here in the past few days, in another thread, where Max has already apologized for playing the"what if I am Mike" card - coupled with Phil's remarks today about "sharks in the water being less threatening than gays on the beach", (I do get the campy reality there) - and then his rhetorical, "What if I'm Max", type card, then yes, - based upon what seemingly sets people off around here - This is how I see members here.

 

Confused, frustrated and tired of purposeful misdirection.

 

It now feels disingenuous, disrespectful and playing with people's best interests.

[seeker630]

I don't see members here any one way - or another. The only thing you can see is an expression of a member in a snap-shot of time. Over time.

 

If what you are asking me is in relation to what has occurred here in the past few days, in another thread, where Max has already apologized for playing the"what if I am Mike" card - coupled with Phil's remarks today about "sharks in the water being less threatening than gays on the beach", (I do get the campy reality there) - and then his rhetorical, "What if I'm Max", type card, then yes, - based upon what seemingly sets people off around here - This is how I see members here.

 

Confused, frustrated and tired of purposeful misdirection.

 

It now feels disingenuous, disrespectful and playing with people's best interests.

 

I was trying to determine if you saw ALL members that way, or just some. And to understand the context of your remarks.

 

None of the phrases you quote bothered me, but I'm sure they did some people.

 

But I am totally confused by your last sentence about 'playing with people's best interest'.

 

I don't want to re-animate the entire discussion, but If you'd like to PM me....