Regarding GP's thread about 10 escorts..well 9, in 7 days...

[maxwellissmart]

This reminds me of the post I made in the Dos and Don'ts thread—that is, don't come to me when you've spent your spunk and get frustrated because you can't come, or you're too fucked out to perform normally.

 

Did this happen in GP's case? Did it directly affect his sessions with the latter escorts on his list a lot, some, not at all? Only GP can answer these questions for sure—but personally, I don't want to the be the last escort in a client's 7-day Tour d' Hedonism any more than a client wants to be the last in mine.

 

And while I applaud GP for sowing his oats to his heart's (and wallet's) content, as well as hiring a variety of escorts, I wonder if he would have enjoyed any particular one more if he hadn't had so many recent encounters to cloud his judgment. That's what the coffee beans are for in the cologne store—to cleanse your palate so you can start fresh. But then again—spending time with an escort and 10 seconds with a cologne are two different things.

 

Just a thought—not a bitch-fest by any means.

[jimboivyo]

This reminds me of the post I made in the Dos and Don'ts thread—that is, don't come to me when you've spent your spunk and get frustrated because you can't come, or you're too fucked out to perform normally.

 

Did this happen in GP's case? Did it directly affect his sessions with the latter escorts on his list a lot, some, not at all? Only GP can answer these questions for sure—but personally, I don't want to the be the last escort in a client's 7-day Tour d' Hedonism any more than a client wants to be the last in mine.

 

And while I applaud GP for sowing his oats to his heart's (and wallet's) content, as well as hiring a variety of escorts, I wonder if he would have enjoyed any particular one more if he hadn't had so many recent encounters to cloud his judgment. That's what the coffee beans are for in the cologne store—to cleanse your palate so you can start fresh. But then again—spending time with an escort and 10 seconds with a cologne are two different things.

 

Just a thought—not a bitch-fest by any means.

 

 

u bring up good stuff. the whole thing felt quantity over quality to me. like he was doing it just for some kind of notch on the belt.

 

I don't know, but thats just how it read. I'd rather spend a few days with just ONE of those men. personal pref

[unsub2O17]

He did say that what he was into was worshiping and conversation. Not actually cumming. And there were overnights for rest. So, hopefully, he pulled it off just fine.

[Steven_Draker]

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More power to GP !

[+ azdr0710]

I wanna party with GP!

[Decatur Guy]

I really don't see anything wrong with his hiring spree and I don't think a client, as the person forking out a lot of money, necessarily owes it to the escort to be all horned up the same way the escort, who is receiving a lot of money, should be.

 

If a client hires a bunch of guys and is a bit spent by the time the last escort comes along, that's really the client's loss.

 

I'm not sure I'd be up for 9 guys in 7 days or whatever the final countdown was, but I'm hoping to do a trip within the next few years that's a tourist by day / client by night thing and maybe hire four or five guys in a week's time. I guess escort no. 5 will just have to hazard the encounter.

[jawjateck]

As long as the client treats the provider respectfully and properly compensates him for his time, the client's performance abilities and/or stamina are irrelevant. If the client is wiped out from a week of sexing it up, blames his last provider for his dysfunction, then goes public by submitting an unsat review, then the client deserves to be called out for the injustice.

[maxwellissmart]

I really don't see anything wrong with his hiring spree and I don't think a client, as the person forking out a lot of money, necessarily owes it to the escort to be all horned up the same way the escort, who is receiving a lot of money, should be.

 

If a client hires a bunch of guys and is a bit spent by the time the last escort comes along, that's really the client's loss...

 

This is where we'll have to disagree. As an escort I can definitely say an one element that will make or break an appointment is whether or not the client brings his excitement to the table. I'm not implying that every client should have a rock-hard erection with 5 days' worth of abstinence in his scrotum either. And to be fair, using GP's tour as an example—I don't know the details of every appointment he had with all the escorts, and his level of engagement with each one. But I've had clients who saw another escort just hours before they saw me, and they were worn out when it came down to performing.

 

But I don't think there's anything wrong with his hiring spree if he was able to enjoy each encounter with a clean slate. But you have to admit that many clients would not be able to do this, and by the last escort they'd be worn out.

[gp0560]

This is where we'll have to disagree. As an escort I can definitely say an one element that will make or break an appointment is whether or not the client brings his excitement to the table. I'm not implying that every client should have a rock-hard erection with 5 days' worth of abstinence in his scrotum either. And to be fair, using GP's tour as an example—I don't know the details of every appointment he had with all the escorts, and his level of engagement with each one. But I've had clients who saw another escort just hours before they saw me, and they were worn out when it came down to performing.

 

But I don't think there's anything wrong with his hiring spree if he was able to enjoy each encounter with a clean slate. But you have to admit that many clients would not be able to do this, and by the last escort they'd be worn out.

Max, I think you make a really valid point about late-week meetings, but please remember, I wasn't looking for cum-spattered walls. (At least, not MY cum.) Here's a quote of a post I made in the Deli thread that might clarify my point:

 

Some posters seem to assume, perhaps reasonably, that I indulged in super-human sexual marathons in Boston. If only! No, my idea of a successful visit is to kiss, cuddle, and have a couple of drinks, some laughs, and a decent conversation. In addition, the guy should be handsome, muscular, and enjoy the attention I give his body.

 

As JJ says, each of us has his own preferences. I make no apology for mine, nor for my once-in-a-lifetime muscle marathon.

 

Finally, Max, do you think we could share some time soon? You can spatter the wall all you want, I'll just talk and drink and smile benignly. And then we can do it again. I can, can you? :p Just tell me who and where you are, and we can make some plans.

 

Thanks for your comments, everyone.

[unsub2O17]

For me, both my cumming and the escort's cumming are biggies. So, I couldn't do what you did, gp, even if I had the money (which I don't), but I sure like the general idea (and DG's too), and I fully intend to work on my own version.

[jjkrkwood]

Max, I think you make a really valid point about late-week meetings, but please remember, I wasn't looking for cum-spattered walls. (At least, not MY cum.) Here's a quote of a post I made in the Deli thread that might clarify my point:

 

 

 

gp I share your attraction and fascination with muscles, and as I said before, I am glad your adventure met your expectations, and you arrived home happy and safe. The only thing that confuses me about your post is why in hell, based on your stated "preferences" would you hire a skinny, self professed Bottom guy ??? (eventhough he is cute as a button). That encounter was doomed to be a failure, and for that reason alone should NOT have been included in your RECAP, in all fairness to THAT escort. There is no possible way, or anything he could have done to meet your expectations. And any negative inference in his respect was Unfair IMHO.

[gp0560]

gp I share your attraction and fascination with muscles, and as I said before, I am glad your adventure met your expectations, and you arrived home happy and safe. The only thing that confuses me about your post is why in hell, based on your stated "preferences" would you hire a skinny, self professed Bottom guy ??? (eventhough he is cute as a button). That encounter was doomed to be a failure, and for that reason alone should NOT have been included in your RECAP, in all fairness to THAT escort. There is no possible way, or anything he could have done to meet your expectations. And any negative inference in his respect was Unfair IMHO.

 

Not exactly, jj. I tried to explain in my notes in the Deli section that I set up the meeting with Phil sight unseen. This is the only time I've ever done such a thing, and I'm not sorry I did. Phil is an entertaining person, and for most of what I want (that is, excluding the muscle thing), he was a good fit. It was fun talking to him.

 

Now, as to a repeat meeting as client/escort, no, I would not plan on that. But I would welcome his contributions in a social setting, for example, if a bunch of us all decided to go out for drinks.

 

Please reread my post on Phil and tell me where I could make it clearer.

 

And thanks as always, jj, for your contributions. --Well, the sniping? Not so much. :p

[jjkrkwood]

Not exactly, jj. I tried to explain in my notes in the Deli section that I set up the meeting with Phil sight unseen. This is the only time I've ever done such a thing, and I'm not sorry I did. Phil is an entertaining person, and for most of what I want (that is, excluding the muscle thing), he was a good fit. It was fun talking to him.

 

Now, as to a repeat meeting as client/escort, no, I would not plan on that. But I would welcome his contributions in a social setting, for example, if a bunch of us all decided to go out for drinks.

 

Please reread my post on Phil and tell me where I could make it clearer.

 

And thanks as always, jj, for your contributions. --Well, the sniping? Not so much. :p

 

I am confused gp when you say you hired him "sight unseen". His pic has been on his Avatar here from day 1, and in his profile as well. And you DID view his Ad well before the meet.

 

So I am missing something here. Nevertheless, I wont fault you for your honest assessment of the situation with him, but knowing what you LIKE, I wouldnt say the fit wasnt right, and the non-repeat thing would have been fairly obvious to me from the start. I also took issue with the "deceptively sweet" comment. Although I finally got the gist of your meaning, perhaps you might has said that "he is extremely Proud of his sexuality" ? That comes off more positive than using a word like "deceptive". And I am not sniping at you. I respect that you are sharing your intimate details, although there is still a part of me that questions the motive.... But hey, I cant control those voices in my head ! :o

[Decatur Guy]

This is where we'll have to disagree. As an escort I can definitely say an one element that will make or break an appointment is whether or not the client brings his excitement to the table. I'm not implying that every client should have a rock-hard erection with 5 days' worth of abstinence in his scrotum either. And to be fair, using GP's tour as an example—I don't know the details of every appointment he had with all the escorts, and his level of engagement with each one. But I've had clients who saw another escort just hours before they saw me, and they were worn out when it came down to performing.

 

But I don't think there's anything wrong with his hiring spree if he was able to enjoy each encounter with a clean slate. But you have to admit that many clients would not be able to do this, and by the last escort they'd be worn out.

 

Well, I am confident that I could go four or five nights in a row with four or five escorts. But on my fantasy trip ... let's say I've overestimated my sexual energy level for the week when I've set up the appointments. It's night No. 5 and I've definitely peaked from guys 1 through 4. ... I'm not sick, I don't have a family emergency. I'm just somewhat sexually spent. I'm not going to call up a guy with a firm appointment and cancel it. I feel like I owe the escort xxxx amount of money for xxxxx amount of time much more than I owe him a full-on, 100% hot encounter.

 

As the person getting paid, I don't see where there's any loss on your part as long as I don't write a bad review.

[gp0560]

I am confused gp when you say you hired him "sight unseen". His pic has been on his Avatar here from day 1, and in his profile as well. And you DID view his Ad well before the meet.

 

Here's why I say "sight unseen." His avatar shows only his face. Nice face, but to me it does not hint at his body type. We made arrangements to meet well before I looked for and found his pics on Rentboy. I did not want to cancel on him for his body type alone, not when his personality was so attractive. (Please remember, I'm the guy who doesn't need wall-splattering cum shots.) I'm glad I hired him and I had a good time. Would I repeat? No, as I tried to explain before.

 

And I am not sniping at you. I respect that you are sharing your intimate details, although there is still a part of me that questions the motive.... But hey, I cant control those voices in my head ! :o

 

Agreed, you're not sniping at ME. But then, I am a perfectly reasonable man and always express myself with the utmost clarity. And wit.