How should I handle this bad experience?

[bigvalboy]

Well MM...I am a little late to this party. I have been out of town, however in the future, my advice would be to post an honest review. Asking for a partial refund certainly eases the pain. I posted a very negative review once on a maaseur. The massage was terrrible, but that was only half of the many many things that went wrong. When he was alerted to the very negative review that was coming, He called immediately. It was going to be his first negative beview. He was really hurt and upset. We talked it over, and I told him that I would pull the review, but I wanted half of my money back, he agreed immediately....

 

Looks like evevery one is

[RockHard]

Sorry, don't have time to read any of the responses.

 

Here's what I'm thinking:

 

1) Write honest reviews here & on M4M.

2) Request a refund from him (I'd hope for at least a partial refund).

3) Give him a second chance.

 

 

1) Since everyone knows the gay massage sites are rigged in favor of those who pay for the advertising, what is the point of wasting your time?

 

Does Daddy accept reviews for massage therapists? I thought this was an escort review site. Was this a licensed massage or an unlicensed erotic fantasy? The information you leave out suggests to me this query is not serious.

 

2) A refund? You are kidding? If the massage was non-licensed and "erotic," everyone knows what the deal is there. Asking for a refund would classify you as a nut case. (But if you succeed in getting your money back, in spite of what it will take to do so, I will tip my hat to you.)

 

If the massage was licensed and legit, and the guy is self-employed, good luck with your effort.

 

If you had the massage at a licensed business, and you paid by credit card, chances are you could negotiate a refund. All bets are off if you paid with cash.

 

3) Are you a glutton for punishment?

[newportbeachdude]

Who was the masseur? Was there a link to his ad and I missed it? It actually sounds a lot like a massage I got a few months ago.

[Guest Marathon Man]

Ok, I haven't had a chance to do anything yet, but I am planning to take bigval's tack and call the masseur to advise him of the bad review. Ideally, he'll agree to another session. I'll look for a good massage training video so he can see how it's done.

[bigvalboy]

Ok, I haven't had a chance to do anything yet, but I am planning to take bigval's tack and call the masseur to advise him of the bad review. Ideally, he'll agree to another session. I'll look for a good massage training video so he can see how it's done.

 

Well MM, if you are in LA, you know that it is 1:30 am...ugh. I am not sure how or why I stumbled on to this thread so late or early as it were, but here I am, and I am very curious who the masseur is. I have used quite a few masseurs in LA, and by knowing a name I might give some more accurate advice... my pm is closed for now...had a few trolls trying to get through, but you can email me if you wish...Cheers, BVB