What made you start? What would make you stop?

[maxwellissmart]

I don't know if this has been asked before (I'm sure it's been tossed around most likely)... but what made you start escorting/seeing escorts?

 

Money, fame, nothing better to do, opportunity dropped in your lap, natural progression of circumstances?

 

And while we're on the topic, what would make you finally call it a day?

[tyro]

GREAT question.

I started hiring after spending three-plus years in a sexless marriage. (Clinicians define "sexless" as fewer than ten sexual encounters per year. Trust me, that's thirty fucks no one was throwing my way...) I'd just had enough and didn't know what else to do.

I might quit if I find Mr. Wonderful/Perfect/Ideal. I'd definitely quit if I lost my job.

[jjkrkwood]

I believe a small tidbit of this thread was being asked of the client, So ill throw my sombrero in the ring...

 

What made me start seeing escorts ????? Well, I am a self-professed Size queen, and while I mostly still have successful and satisfying sexual NON-paid encounters, the guys often dont possess that element of Fantasy Size that I enjoy, and many escorts seem to have. Therefore I hire to "supplement" my non-paid sex, and to get exactly what I want: gorgeous guys (IMO) and huge cock. No muss, no fuss..... PERIOD ! I dont want to be their friend, or know their back story. No BFE. Its strictly a business arrangement for Sex.

[jjkrkwood]

GREAT question.

I started hiring after spending three-plus years in a sexless marriage. (Clinicians define "sexless" as fewer than ten sexual encounters per year. Trust me, that's thirty fucks no one was throwing my way...) I'd just had enough and didn't know what else to do.

I might quit if I find Mr. Wonderful/Perfect/Ideal. I'd definitely quit if I lost my job.

 

Ty, while you "might" find Mr Wonderful, you will never find Mr Perfect.... Perfect doesnt exist (IMHO) However, after a few drinks, he will seem ALOT better ! :o

[maxwellissmart]

I believe a small tidbit of this thread was being asked of the client, So ill throw my sombrero in the ring...

 

What made me start seeing escorts ????? Well, I am a self-professed Size queen, and while I mostly still have successful and satisfying sexual NON-paid encounters, the guys often dont possess that element of Fantasy Size that I enjoy, and many escorts seem to have. Therefore I hire to "supplement" my non-paid sex, and to get exactly what I want: gorgeous guys (IMO) and huge cock. No muss, no fuss..... PERIOD ! I dont want to be their friend, or know their back story. No BFE. Its strictly a business arrangement for Sex.

 

Hmmm... that would be an interesting dynamic if you ever saw me in an escorting capacity, because if anything—I am Mr. BFE.

 

I can see it now—me lounging amongst the sheets: "JJ, come talk to me, baby. Tell me 'bout your day, your hopes, you dreams, am I in them? Tell me your fears, are you scared?"

 

And you'd be all like: "Later Tricks, I gots to go—there's a coupon about to expire for the Sex Club."

[unsub2O17]

Shortly after I turned 65 and actually "realized" how old I was getting, I asked myself a simple question: "Do I really want to die never having experienced/ fulfilled my real self?? The answer was so clearly "no" that off I went. At that age and with my looks, I felt and still do feel that escorts are my best and only answer. I will stop when I can no longer do it for physical, emotional, or financial reasons. When will that be? Who knows, and that's why I'm pursuing it with such gusto now.

[jjkrkwood]

Shortly after I turned 65 and actually "realized" how old I was getting, I asked myself a simple question: "Do I really want to die never having experienced/ fulfilled my real self?? The answer was so clearly "no" that off I went. At that age and with my looks, I felt and still do feel that escorts are my best and only answer. I will stop when I can no longer do it for physical, emotional, or financial reasons. When will that be? Who knows, and that's why I'm pursuing it with such gusto now.

 

unsub, I can respect your decision and your choices, however I feel you are selling yourself short. I am not certain if you have ever experienced NON-paid sex with a man, but it is more readily available (even to YOU) than you might think, and the satisfaction of the "conquest" is immeasurable... There are guys out there for everyone, so I just want you to know that escorting is NOT your only option, although it might be the road that you have chosen.

[jjkrkwood]

Hmmm... that would be an interesting dynamic if you ever saw me in an escorting capacity, because if anything—I am Mr. BFE.

 

I can see it now—me lounging amongst the sheets: "JJ, come talk to me, baby. Tell me 'bout your day, your hopes, you dreams, am I in them? Tell me your fears, are you scared?"

 

And you'd be all like: "Later Tricks, I gots to go—there's a coupon about to expire for the Sex Club."

 

It would be more like: "Listen bitch, I aint payin you to talk. Just bring that hard cock over here, shove it in my mouth and start thrusting.....Clock is ticking" !

[Phil_musc]

Gosh, JJ, if you and Max ever get together -please film it - it sounds like outtakes from a progressive "I Love Lucy" show. Do your lines with a Cuban accent - just for fun.

[+ Charlie]

I had just returned to my NYC apartment after three weeks at home with my mother following my father's death. I was horny, and I didn't feel like making the effort to do the bars or baths, where I might very well have a frustrating or disappointing experience. I had seen the ads in the pink pages of The Advocate (yes, this was long, long ago), so I checked and found an agency that offered in-calls, and I went there. It turned out to be a less than satisfactory solution, and I didn't experiment with hiring again for several months, but the seed had been sown. I had already been out for many years, was not looking for a relationship, was reaching the age when it was getting harder to get the guys I was attracted to for free, and it seemed so EASY. Within a few years, it became my main sexual outlet.

 

Although I haven't officially retired as a client, it has been a while since I have hired, and I don't foresee much hiring in the future. Now that the hormones have eased their control, I find sex uninteresting for more than about a fifteen minute stretch, and the effort of arranging the whole thing--researching, communicating, travelling, physically preparing, etc--not to mention the expense, doesn't seem worth it anymore for such a transitory payoff.

[bigvalboy]

I don't know if this has been asked before (I'm sure it's been tossed around most likely)... but what made you start escorting/seeing escorts?

 

Money, fame, nothing better to do, opportunity dropped in your lap, natural progression of circumstances?

 

And while we're on the topic, what would make you finally call it a day?

 

I have been hiring for as long as I can remember. There really was never a natural progression. I had my first hire at 18 years old....I guess I always wanted those guys that I thought I couldn't get on my own. I guess that I would stop if I met someone that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. That hasn't happened yet, so I am going to just keep on hiring escorts...I can't imaging what it would be like to sleep with the same person, over and over again. I have friends that have lovers or bf's, and for them it works, not so much for me.

[jjkrkwood]

Gosh, JJ, if you and Max ever get together -please film it - it sounds like outtakes from a progressive "I Love Lucy" show. Do your lines with a Cuban accent - just for fun.

 

Phil, juh must be comming along. Juh cun be Ethel hiding in da closet, BUSCANDO !

[robberbaron4u]

Familial and professional responsibilities precluded the proverbial "LTR" on my part. With regard to my family, I was given responsibility for managing a trust which, eventually, supported twenty "some odd" family members; in my professional life, my business partners, now deceased, succumbed to on-going "catastrophic illnesses", stroke and MS, which placed the burden of "doing" business on me.

[jjkrkwood]

Familial and professional responsibilities precluded the proverbial "LTR" on my part. With regard to my family, I was given responsibility for managing a trust which, eventually, supported twenty "some odd" family members; in my professional life, my business partners, now deceased, succumbed to on-going "catastrophic illnesses", stroke and MS, which placed the burden of "doing" business on me.

 

robber, sorry for your lifes burdens, but you obviously are now deserving of all the Riches that befall you... Enjoy, and God Bless....